1 Don’t over-pay! If two women with similar appearances, one who pays less to men, then which one will the man like? There is no doubt that over time, men will abandon the woman who has given too much to him.
Why? Because whoever gives is weak, whoever is dealt with. Human nature is inherently inferior. When a man falls in love with you, he does not want to enjoy your goodness, but to enjoy the process of conquering you. As soon as he came up, he was kind to him. The man suddenly felt that this result was too sudden and he had no taste at all.
Many sisters can’t get over it. You know, just a man invites you to a meal, and he will be invited back the next day! Then you will give you a gift, and you will have to think about it that night, and then spend a lot of effort to prepare a return gift for him. You are really bringing your cheapness to the extreme. You are sending a signal to men. Oh, I am not worth a meal, not worth a gift, I am not precious, I am not worth a love. I have never been loved by anyone since I was a child, so I want to send it back and I want to prove it.
In fact, what women want to establish is a high-value image. I am precious. My core is very sufficient, so I can calm down! Don’t think about kidnapping a man with your efforts! If your cognition is in place, you will use many skills to control this man. But it is definitely not about giving! Do you understand what giving is?
2 Don’t expose your sense of needs too much, don’t use love to bind him, you must keep it fresh and often send a signal to men, “I love you, but you are free.” But within this bottom line. In love, you must have Buddha nature. You must know how to let love be retracted and released.
Three love apart from the emotional impulse at the beginning, the rest is the fight between two people. To make the other party understand it, this is a looming sense of advanced needs. Love is not the last destination. It is our eternal path to achieve a better self and experience a better world.
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