So, for some "unwritten rules" in daily life, everyone should be advised to pay attention to it, otherwise sometimes it is not just a matter of hurting feelings.

Life is not easy, life is even more difficult. When people live in the world, dealing with people is a very profound knowledge and art. Even in a very simple and normal daily life, there are many unspoken rules of one kind or another. So, for some "unwritten rules" in daily life, everyone should be advised to pay attention to it, otherwise sometimes it is not just a matter of hurting feelings.

About borrowing money. Borrowing money from others is a very sensitive topic. It must be carefully considered, otherwise you will never speak out. The most important thing to consider is the object and possibility of borrowing money, and don’t force it anyway. When borrowing money from someone, as long as the other party does not agree readily, even if he says a reason that is not a reason, he should understand that he is rejecting you. In addition, if you borrow someone else's money, you must repay the principal and interest on time. It is easy to borrow and repay it. It is not difficult to borrow again. Never let others collect debts.

About disturbing others. Most people are very busy nowadays and time is precious, so try to disturb others as little as possible. There is nothing particularly important, it is best not to call someone else before 9 a.m. or after 9 p.m. If you meet an acquaintance on the road, don’t chat for too long. Even if the relationship is good, it’s best to be within three or five minutes. If you go to someone else's house to play, the owner will make a little statement and don't stay anymore.

About the opposite sex interaction. After confirming your relationship, especially after getting married, don’t get too close to other opposite sexes to avoid unnecessary misunderstandings. For example, if you need help from your best friend’s husband, ask your best friend to tell her husband, instead of just looking for someone else’s husband. If you have any questions, please ask friends or colleagues of the opposite sex to come to your house for help and inform the other party’s partner in advance. Girls should not drink alcohol when eating with friends of the opposite sex, just to prevent accidents. It is best not to take the co-pilot or so on when taking the ride from the opposite sex.

About eyesight. You should be self-aware and self-aware, you should know how to advance and retreat, and you should be more aware of each other and be more conscious when communicating with others. For example, if you have asked others for the same thing twice or three times, and every time others always stammer and don’t explain it clearly, then don’t ask again, maybe they don’t want to teach you at all.

About showing off. It is better to be a low-key person, walk with your head raised and your chest clamped up, and be a human being. For example, if a colleague has been unable to handle things, this matter happens to be your strength. If the other party does not seek help from you, don’t show off and take the initiative to help, otherwise it may backfire and will not please you if you work hard.

About the gossip. In the current digital information age, rumors are flying all over the world and spread very quickly. Therefore, it is best not to spread things that are heard and heard online. If it is incorrect or illegal, it will not only damage your image, but also be responsible. Therefore, it is better not to talk nonsense about official news, as it may be used by others.

About reciprocity. In interpersonal communication, courtesy is very important and must not be ignored. No matter who treats you to a meal, even your own parents, remember to invite you back once. Doing so will not be polite and enhance your feelings. If someone toasts you at the wine table, you must stand up. If the other party is a leader or an elder, you should hold your wine glass lower to show politeness.

About receiving gifts. There is no love without reason in the world, nor is there no hatred without reason. As the saying goes, "no reward without merit." Therefore, you must not easily accept other people's gifts, especially gifts from ordinary people with relationships. They should pay more attention to them, especially gifts with higher value, which should pay more attention or be unacceptable, because once you accept them, it is equivalent to acquiesce to your relationship.

About public morality. In fact, there are many guidelines and unspoken rules in public places, and they must be strictly followed. For example, when talking to others in public, it is best to keep your voice in front of you and listen clearly. Do not talk loudly, make loud noises or laugh out loudly in public, which will cause trouble for others.For example, making loud calls or even swearing in buses or subway cars will be rolled by others.

About family affection. It cannot be absolutely said that the family affection is weak or even gone, but the situation has changed too much. Now everyone's living conditions have generally improved, and we pay attention to not disturb each other and do not add trouble, so we seem distant. For example, when you need to stay overnight when visiting relatives, you would rather stay in a hotel than stay at your relatives' homes, considering the many inconveniences between the two parties.

About Commitment. Be honest in life, promise others must do things, or have a compelling reason. Therefore, when agreeing to help others do things, it is best to leave room for space, such as using the saying "do your best" to lower the other party's expectations. If you can't do it, you won't be criticized. Therefore, before you do something successful, don’t declare it everywhere. If you fail, you will be regarded as a joke after dinner.

About privacy. In daily life, don’t be too curious. It’s better to ask less gossip and privacy. For example, Zhang and Li family are particularly prone to causing trouble. Especially for related matters about children, if people don’t want to say something they don’t want to say, don’t always ask questions, otherwise it will be very hurtful and will even directly affect the relationship between them. What do you think?

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