Every woman wants to be held in her palm, get full of love, feel safe, and feel partial.
It’s a pity that sometimes the more you do it, the more you do it, I don’t even know why he is so good to him, but he still doesn’t love you, and the person who doesn’t love him, he just keeps her in front of her.
Xiao Chen likes a colleague who always brings breakfast for him, and then says that he is on the way, sometimes he brings his own meal and prepares a serving for him.
colleagues initially refused, but later they saw that she still insisted, so they stopped talking. She was happy to wait for the other person to confess to her. Unexpectedly, a few days later, she saw her colleague holding another female colleague's hand.
When she saw her, she greeted her and said it was his girlfriend. Her heart was broken at that time. She didn't understand why she was obviously better to him. Another girl occasionally did projects with him, and she was very cold at other times.
Why did he fall in love with her?
When you pay too much attention to men, you lose your charm
In fact, the problem is that when all your thoughts are on him, you lose your shining points. You shrink in front of him, are not confident enough, and cannot exert your charm.
A woman who doesn't care much about him, she doesn't please her words, only her own opinions and ideas, and is equal to the other party.
Be yourself, men pay attention to you, follow him, men can’t see you.
It’s like when you are in love, don’t always surround the other person, don’t stare at the chat records and savor it repeatedly. It’s better to develop yourself than to have such skills.
You can read this book and discuss it in depth with it. When you learn to practice piano and draw, he sees your life rich and colorful, so he naturally wants to get close to you.
The most needed is: pay attention to yourself
Love is not long-lasting.
In fact, any relationship is ultimately a relationship with oneself.
If you pay too much attention to the other person and ignore yourself, it will lead to the deterioration of your relationship, because you have no subjectivity and cannot attract the other person and communicate with the other person on the same level.
Long-term relationship, giving the other party some space is also giving yourself space.
When he doesn't pay attention to you, it happens to be the best time for you to improve yourself.
Enjoy your time when you are together. If you are full and rich, you can be fun together.
If you are bored and you have nothing to say when you get along with each other, you want to find proof that he loves you, that is begging and asking for, not attracting equally.
In fact, most of the time, two people have their own tracks. It is best to have happy intersections occasionally, so that they will not lose themselves, and can maintain the relationship between the two.
details are not important, as long as they are on the right and wrong, they can do it.
For example, whether you are dedicated, whether you have plans for your future, whether your relationship has been promoted, and whether your property is in agreement.
These are the keys to high emotional concentration and sustainability in love, not those small things.
So pay less attention to the other party and pay more attention to yourself.
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