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Precipitation
There is a saying on the Internet: "The clearness of water is not because it does not contain impurities, but because it knows how to precipitate."
In the novel "The Elegance of the Hedgehog", there is a widow in her fifties.
Her name is Renee, she is the gatekeeper of the apartment, she is short and fat.
Everyone thinks this middle-aged woman is very vulgar, but in fact she lives like a poem.
Every afternoon, Renee quietly drank white tea , read the world famous book " Anna Karenina ", and also studied the psychology of Feloyd .
She is cold and mean, not good at speaking, and is like a hedgehog, hiding in the attic.
The author described it as follows:
"From the appearance, Leni is full of thorns, but from the inside, she is as delicate as a hedgehog. Hedgehog is a small animal disguised as a lazy person. He likes to close himself in a no-man's realm, but has extraordinary elegance."
precipitation is the indifferentness that penetrates into the bones after years of carving and washing.
Origin may not be noble, appearance may not be beautiful, but the spiritual world is extremely rich.
People should have a tenacity, keep calm and be patient.
As the " People's Daily " says:
"Everyone wants to achieve something, but he doesn't know that the calmness he can pick is the precipitation of accumulation and development."
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calm
Su Shi was demoted to Huangzhou when he was 45 years old.
In winter, it snowed heavily in Huangzhou. Su Shi built a thatched house and asked someone to paint snowflakes on the walls, and named it "Snow Hall".
Whenever trivial matters are plagued by it, Su Shi will sit in the snow hall to isolate the external troubles and eliminate inner troubles.
He wrote in " Snow Hall Records ":
"I am not taking the momentum of snow, but the meaning of snow. I am not escaping the world, but the opportunity to escaping the world."
The shocking waves you see are all honed in calmness.
hide your emotions, quit your temper, and even if it rains heavily, you must calm yourself.
Writer Yishu said:
"In life, you must be quiet, come quietly, go quietly, work hard, and gain quietly, and avoid noisy."
The so-called soberness in the world is not about pursuing outward, but about growing inward.
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Silence
Lu Xun said: "Once a person understands it thoroughly, he will become silent. It is not that he does not have the ability to get along with others, but that he has no interest in playing with everyone."
is tired, tired, and tired, so he forgets, just fades.
The strength of adults: Despite all the pain in their hearts, they finally chose to remain silent.
Neighbor Lao Zhao is in his sixties this year and is a diligent farmer. His son is still idle in his thirties. His family has quarreled about this many times.
Once, Lao Zhao's son fought with someone and was sent to the police station, which was well known to everyone.
When everyone thought Lao Zhao would lose his temper or curse, he did not say anything, but went home with a heavy expression.
He said to his son, "I have tried my best and will not care about you anymore."
From then on, Lao Zhao's words have become less and less quarreling.
I read a sentence:
"Silence is a person's biggest cry."
Silent tears are the most desperate; powerless struggle is the most painful.
You know clearly that you cannot change the situation and can only turn around silently.
When a person learns to shut up, it is not to become introverted, but to "can't say, don't want to say, don't have to say."
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Like Lin Yutang This sentence:
ml0 "A person with a clean mind, clear thinking, and no unnecessary emotions or delusions will bring people a sense of security."
Being a precipitation is a calm growth;
Being calm in things is the wisdom to overcome difficulties by yourself;
Silence in dealing with the world is the ultimate transparency of life.
likes, I hope we can all work hard and accumulate energy quietly.
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