Divorce on the second day of marriage. What's going on? Normally, getting married is for happiness, but a woman divorced on the second day. If it weren't for love, would you get married? Even if you don’t love each other, you won’t divorce on the second day. Is it necessary to do this? It's embarrassing.
But this woman has to choose to divorce, and I think if it were me, I would also choose to divorce. I hope this case can remind all men. You can’t do things so excessively. What era is it now? Are there any family rules? If I were me, I would divorce you on the second day. What was going on? Let's take a look together. A 27-year-old woman gets married with a 37-year-old man, and divorces the next day. Her husband: You don’t love me, I: divorce.
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27-year-old Ms. Huang:
My mother didn’t divorce me. My mother told me, what can’t be passed? Why divorced on the second day of marriage? You don’t feel embarrassed, we all feel embarrassed. If you still think I am your mother, just listen to me. When I didn’t marry you, you had to marry me.
Now divorce is the second day of marriage. If it is spread, what do you say that even if you divorce on the second day of marriage, you are still a woman of second marriage. Even if you are young, how can you bring the word "second marriage" with you, your value will drop sharply. It is difficult for women to find a partner now, let alone a woman who is a second marriage. What should I do if I can’t find her in the future, let alone having a child in your stomach faces this.
just says that you can’t bear it, and you have to bear it. I haven't spoken yet. My father also scolded me. My father told me, "Listen to our advice, don't be impulsive. Impulsiveness is a devil. What's the use of divorce? Divorce cannot solve the problem. Divorce will be divorced two days after marriage. It's better not to get married. What did you say at the beginning? Where did the original vows go? I was speechless, can't I be wrong? Facing this, I can only choose to divorce.
Today I will tell you this matter, everyone will help me judge it. Shouldn’t you choose to divorce when facing this matter? Even on the second day of marriage, I think you should choose to divorce. I had a fuss with my husband. On the night of the wedding, my husband slapped me in the face. My husband told me that this matter was told by my father. There are 5 rules in our family. Whether you agree or not, you must abide by your signature and seal on it.
If you don’t agree, you can only punish you according to the rules at home. If you agree, we will definitely live a good life. My mother, my grandmother and others are role models. They lived so well, wasn’t it because they followed the rules at home?
so you must also abide by the rules at home. I didn’t tell you before, I was afraid that you would not want to marry me, but now I have married me, so you have to agree and you have to agree if you agree. I was completely scared when I saw the 5 rules my husband said. Before I could say anything, he slapped me in the face. What can I do in the face of such a thing? My husband told me, don’t you want to live with me anymore? Do you want to fight? If not, you can agree quickly. I was afraid that I didn't know what to do, how could I be with this man?
Article 1 Family rules, you must give birth to a boy in the future, and there are more than three more.
Why do you have to have a boy? Because girls want to get married, the girls who get married are splashed with water. If there is no boy, how can the family continue? So there must be a boy. Then why do you have to say three boys? That's because I have two uncles and they don't have sons. What will they do in the future?
In order to continue their lives and to continue their families.So I have to give birth to more than three boys and give them to them at that time. If one person is the same, their family will continue. Don’t think that I am ruthless in doing this. What I want to say is that I am selfless in doing this. They are my uncle and I are both a family.
Although they are all family members, they should help each other. It is impossible to ignore their life or death. Isn’t it just a few more children? What's the problem? Don’t women exist just to have children? If women are unwilling to have children, then what do you want to do? Therefore, you must give birth to more than three boys, and no matter how many you give birth, you must give birth to more than three boys.
Article 2 Family rules, I will listen to everything in my home in the future.
If you don’t listen to me, who else do you want to listen to? I am your husband, you don’t need to listen to me. No matter what happens, you have to listen to my big things. That’s the same with small things. Even if you go to the toilet, you have to listen to me. If I go to the toilet, you have to go to the toilet. If I don’t go to the toilet, you can’t go to the toilet. Because everything has to be listened to me, I am the head of the family. If you don’t listen to me, I will make a noise with you. If you don’t want me to make a noise with you, you and me will be unhappy. If that happens, it will affect the happiness index of our family.
so you have to listen to me. If you listen to me, I won’t quarrel with you. If you are happy, I will be happy. More importantly, if you don’t quarrel with me, I won’t quarrel with you. I won’t quarrel with you. You don’t want to be beaten by me, and I don’t want to hit you, so you have to listen to me.
Let you listen to mine not only to you, but also to this family. If you don’t listen to me, if I hit you because of such a thing, don’t blame me, but blame yourself if you blame me. If you listen to me, I will not hit you 100% of you, and you will listen to me in everything. Even if I want to hit you, you will not find a reason to hit you. So you must listen to me. Only in this way can you live a good life. Do you understand?
Article 3 Family rules will not be given to your parents in the future.
Do you think retirement is easy? We have so many children to raise. To put it bluntly, if you are not lucky, you are likely to have 6/7 children before you can have three boys. If that were the case, we wouldn't be able to raise so many children, so we wouldn't give your parents a pension. It's already a lot of pressure to raise our children. Not only do we have to raise our children, I will also have to support my parents in the future.
so in order to reduce the burden on our family, we don’t care about your parents’ affairs, and you will do whatever your parents do. Didn’t I give me 38,000 yuan in bride money when I asked? I don’t need your parents to return the money to me. Your parents should take this money to support their elderly care. Although you are the only daughter, I don’t think you need to care about this matter anymore. After all, they have already collected his money, which is equivalent to saying that you have sold you to me.
Since you have sold you to me, you are a part of our family and have no relationship with your parents. Since it has nothing to do with your parents. Then you don’t need to care about your parents’ affairs. You don’t care about me or whatever your parents do. Even if your parents die on their own, it has nothing to do with us. Only in this way can our family live a good life.
Article 4 Family Rules, I will give me all the money you earn in the future.
If you pay how much money you don’t give me, you still want to give me. I spent so much money for you when I’m with you. You know what I’m going out for every issue and every date is me. If you don’t give me the money, who else do you want to give me? I spent so much money for you when I’m with you. You know what I’m going out for every issue and every date is money for you. Now that I’m with me, shouldn’t you give me the money?
If you don’t have money, you will be deducted from your future salary.Also, when I got married, I gave so much money and spent so much money at home, shouldn’t you return it to me? If you don't give it back to me, who will give it back to me? I think this is not an exaggeration. If I am with you, then you must bear the money and deduct it from your salary every month.
excess is equivalent to interest. So I have to give me all the money you earn in the future, but I am not a very ruthless person. I can give you 200 yuan in pocket money every month. I can give you 200 yuan to do whatever you like. If you spend only 200 yuan, you will lose it. You can't ask me how much you want. Give me the money you earn, and I'll give you 200 yuan of pocket money from it, it's enough. 200 yuan can do a lot of things.
Article 5 Family Rules, if one day I abandon you. You will not get a penny of your property in your home.
Although you will give a lot of money to this family in the future, one day I don’t want you anymore and abandon you. If you don’t get a share of your property in it, it’s useless even if you find a lawyer. Because I have told you about this matter in advance, which means that our family rules have legal effects.
If you do well enough, I will definitely not abandon you. If you do not do well enough, don’t blame me. For example, after being married for many years, you cannot give birth to a boy for me, or say you don’t listen to me, be responsible to your parents, or say you don’t listen to me. And if you have many times like this, you can't blame me. If that happens, you don't want to live with me, so I don't want you. If you live with me well, listen to me, and do everything according to the rules.
How could I abandon you? I definitely won’t, so you don’t have to worry too much about this. If you live with me well, I will definitely live with you well. If you don’t listen or don’t want to live with me, then you can’t blame me for abandoning you, then you can’t blame me for not giving you a penny. Because all this is your own fault, you don’t want all this, you treat me like this, otherwise I wouldn’t ignore you.
I just need these 5 signatures and consents. Only in this way can our family become happier and happier, not only for you but also for me, but also for our future lives. Don’t blame me for being ruthless. Isn’t I doing this for this family or for your future happiness? Don't you want happiness?
Before my husband finished speaking, I slapped him. You are not the rule, you are a tyrant treaty. What if I agree to this matter, what will my parents do in the future, and what should I do in the future? Do you think I will agree? I wouldn't agree. I slapped my husband, and my husband also slapped me. What does it mean? It means that my husband doesn't want to go through the emergency room with me at all and forces me to be his slave. Since this is the case, why do I have to live with my husband?
That night we had arguing for a night and argued for a long time. I thought my husband would regress in the end, but one night passed, but it still happened, but I still forced me to agree to this matter. Then what else can I say? I can only choose to divorce. If it were you, would you choose to divorce? Did I choose to divorce wrong? I don’t think I’m wrong. If I don’t divorce, I will never be able to live my life in the future.
Conclusion:
If it were me, I would choose to divorce. Even on the second day of marriage, I would choose to divorce. For such things, I can only say that you know too late. If it were me, I would have not married him long ago. What are you doing with him? Will you divorce him again after getting married?
doesn’t know how to find the object. How can such a man find the object? Those men who are thousands of times better than him cannot find a partner. Now I know that this man is not easy to choose to divorce and not play. At least he can find another good one in the future. If he doesn't divorce now, he will not be able to live such a thing in the future.
will make you stronger and stronger, so there is nothing wrong with choosing to divorce. If it were me, I would do the same. Let me say more about it here, what era is it now, and why are there still these rules? These old feudal rules should not exist in this era. If you are not responsible for your wife or your family, you will only destroy everything about yourself in the end. I hope that through this case, you can remind all men that if these rules should be removed, you will not only not be happy, but also destroy everything about you. Do you understand?
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