Text/Mo Ran For adults, they have experienced many things and understand many truths, and they are often relatively indifferent to the relationship between people. You know, no one can stay unchanged, there will be an end when there is a beginning. The world of adults is inherent

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For adults, they have experienced many things and understand many truths. They are often relatively indifferent to the relationship between people.

You should know that no one can keep it unchanged, there will be an end when there is a beginning.

The world of adults is inherently full of variables. We cannot do it as always, but we can cherish it when we have it.

Meeting is a matter for two people, but ending is a choice for one person, we must respect each other.

is now a popular society, but we are not good at saying goodbye, just choose to remain silent.

We will meet many people around us, and many people will leave at the same time.

Maybe a person's departure is painful, but we can't help but keep it.

So, the best way to end a relationship is that.

Don't ask

Since a person chooses to leave, there must be his reason.

Even if you ask, it will be useless. The other party has made a choice, so you can't change the other party's decision.

Many people have decided to leave after choosing to leave, and they have made up their minds to leave.

At this time, no matter how much you say, it will not change the reality. All you can do is respect the other party’s choice and say goodbye with a decent farewell.

For adults, they should understand that in this world, there is no way to leave for no reason. Behind all the departure is the other party’s last choice, or a better place to go. Since this is the case, there is no need to ask about the reason and the result.

The older people grow, the more they should understand that it is meaningless to ask many things, and will affect their relationship.

Since the other party is ready to leave, you should try to accept it and don’t ask too much, the result may not be something you can bear.

Not entangled

In real life, some people may be used to the existence of a person and cannot accept the departure of a person.

So I just kept pestering myself and tried to keep me. In fact, the result of doing so will only make the other party look down on me even more.

Since you choose to leave, it means that you are not that important to him. You can give up. Your entanglement will only make the other party look down on you more.

is the best decent for an adult.

We must learn to say goodbye and try to accept everyone's departure. After all, no one can truly accompany you until the end.

Some people may be with you for a while, but don’t treat the other person as your whole. The deeper you fall into it, the deeper the pain will be.

People will love and miss this life. There is nothing worth entangling, and it is not easy to be happy.

and accepting any relationship calmly is the beginning of a person's true growth. Instead of entangling and consuming yourself, it is better to let go and leave with dignity.

does not disturb

I once heard this saying that a qualified ex should completely disappear in the other person's world like he was dead.

In fact, if there is no result, there is really no need to bother.

If you want to leave you alone, no matter how you take the initiative to find the other party, there will be no result.

Since the other party chose to leave, it means that he has already thought of the result. You have never been his retreat, and not disturbing is the best choice.

Adults, never disturb someone who deliberately alienates you, don’t overestimate your relationship with anyone, learn to recognize your position in other people’s hearts. Not disturbing is the greatest tacit understanding.

In this world, if a person chooses to leave, then all the reasons are not worth your forgiveness.

A person can choose to leave you, which already shows your status in his heart.

will leave and ignore your feelings. There is no need for such a person to bother.

Summary:

The relationships in this world are actually destined. In this life, meeting and leaving are all a choice for one person.

Since you are not in the other party’s choice, there is no need to worry about it and ask for an answer.

So, if an adult says goodbye to someone and ends a relationship, there is no need to ask, entangle, or disturb.

Everyone is safe and never see each other again, perhaps the best way to each other.