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Marriage is the ultimate destination of love, it carries all romance and responsibility.
After marrying the man you like, girls hope that they can be loved and live a happy life in the future.
However, the reality is not going well. When you meet the wrong person, marriage often brings you trivialities and pain.
A woman who is truly loved does not need to pretend to be a good life in front of others, nor does it have to show off how gentle and rich husband she has married.
Their words, deeds and appearances all exude the best. Even if they don’t say it, others know that her marriage is sweet.
. A girl who always needs to prove to others that she is married well may not be easy.
A woman is happy or painful after marriage, you will know if you look at these two details, and disguise is useless.
01: Do you often complain about divorce with your friends, but you can't live without a man. The relationship between husband and wife is often very poor
I read a sentence: "The attitude of a husband determines the upper limit of marriage, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law determines the lower limit of marriage."
Running a marriage is much more complicated than love. The more love a partner has for you, the less you will be wronged.
As long as he really cherishes you, the in-laws will not make any difficult things, and it will be easier when you deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
However, if you meet a man who does not value you, you have to endure all kinds of difficulties.
Whether a woman lives well after marriage depends on whether she always complains to her friends about divorce, but after talking for several years, she still cannot live without a man.
Zhou Yin (pseudonym) and her husband met at work. They got married after dating each other for half a year. Family and friends felt that they were too anxious and could wait a little longer.
However, Zhou Yin fell into love and could not extricate herself. But in the second year after marriage, she began to regret it.
Every time she quarrels with her husband, she will complain to her friends about wanting to divorce.
always complain about her husband's shortcomings whenever she meets everyone, such as if she did excessive things to her, how unaware of her, etc.
The best friend who has a really good relationship is very angry after hearing this and expressed her support for her divorce.
But every time my husband treats her a little better, Zhou Yin loses the bottom line again. In fact, she couldn't live without her husband at all and was very afraid of losing him.
Even if his behavior is particularly selfish, he never respects her, and always suppresses and dislikes her, but as long as his husband is still willing to talk to him, Zhou Yin will not give up.
She told her friend that she didn't want to live with him anymore, and she was just angry words.
A woman often tells others that she wants to divorce her husband. She complains for many years but takes no action. Then, it probably means that her marriage is not good.
Even if her husband is good at making money, she doesn’t need to worry about financial pressure, but the inner pain cannot be hidden.
women who can only rely on men's lives are destined to be difficult to be respected and cherished.
02: Women whose hair quality begins to deteriorate, marriage is mostly painful
Happiness can bring you enough nourishment. When couples get along with each other, women who are truly loved, even if they live an ordinary life and don’t have much money, they can feel the beauty of life and the inner tranquility.
They don’t have excessive anxiety every day, their daily life is very good, and they have never had insomnia.
We always see some women who have been married. Although they can buy expensive cosmetics and the quality of their clothes is not bad, their hair looks dark and yellow.
is still less than thirty years old and starts to lose hair, and the hair volume becomes very small. Such women are actually very painful in marriage.
They are not as satisfied as the surface, so satisfied with the present.When getting along with friends, you will deliberately say how good your husband is to you, or keep showing your love in your circle of friends, etc.
No matter how well you maintain your skin, as long as your hair is poor or even becomes loose, it actually means that you don’t have a good sleep.
Only women who are not loved will be in anxiety and pain and will suffer.
No matter how you disguise, as long as you have the above two behaviors, others can see your true marriage status.
did not directly expose it, just don’t want to make you sad.
If you always cannot live without men's foster care, then no matter how painful it feels in your heart, remember not to complain to everyone.
Otherwise, the friends around you will not only not sympathize with your experience, but will even begin to stay away from you.
A truly lucky woman will not waste time complaining whenever she finds that she has chosen the wrong partner, but will find a way to solve the real problem.
As long as you choose to escape, the pain will double. Life is so short, remember not to treat yourself too badly.