Introduction: "I struggle to support myself in an unhappy marriage just to make others feel that I have a home. That's really pitiful. Sometimes divorce is better than getting married." Zheng Sumin chatted with her good sisters like this.

Introduction:

"Suffering hard in an unhappy marriage is just to make others feel that they have a home. That is really pitiful. Sometimes divorce is better than getting married." Zheng Sumin chats with good sisters like this.

The good sisters thought she was just saying that she was going to divorce. After all, most married women were like this. They would spend countless time complaining about their marriage and would also talk about divorce when complaining, but they would never embark on the road of divorce because they dare not divorce.

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For most married women, the cost of divorce is indeed very high, because many women sacrifice their careers or jobs for their families after getting married. They become people with no careers and no jobs. The most thing they do every day is to revolve around their families. So once they divorce, they not only have no source of income, but also can't even keep their only family.

So even if there are too many women who are unhappy in their marriage, they will only complain and never really divorce. The good sisters think that Zheng Sumin is the same. Although she has been complaining about her marriage and has said that she wants to divorce several times, she has never really divorced. So the good sisters think that Zheng Sumin this time is the same as many times in the past. Although she is also complaining about marriage, it is absolutely impossible to really divorce. But this time, Zheng Sumin was not joking, she was determined to get a divorce.

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Zheng Sumin and her husband have been married for 12 years, and she really doesn't feel happy. Zheng Sumin remembers that on the fifth day she got married, her mother-in-law had a disagreement with her on small matters. At that time, she just got married, so she went to find her husband, hoping that her husband could comfort her verbally, but her husband criticized her and said to her, "That's my mother. When you get married, the first thing you have to do is to accept my mother's discipline." At that time, she was just getting married, and it was the best time for her relationship. However, her husband said such words. Of course, Zheng Sumin felt very sad.

Later, the relationship between husband and wife became worse and worse. Zheng Sumin still remembered that after giving birth, her husband didn't even go to the hospital. He said that he was too busy with work and that it was enough to have his mother-in-law take care of him in the hospital. As a result, Zheng Sumin gave birth to a daughter. Her mother-in-law didn't like them in the hospital. They prepared vegetarian pasta for them, and there was no nutrition at all. Zheng Sumin told her husband aggrievedly that he wanted to drink a bowl of chicken soup to nourish his body. The husband said impatiently: "You are just pretentious, you ask for more. My mother gave birth to me at that time. The meals are all porridge steamed buns, and I won’t still grow up like this.”

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After getting married, Zheng Sumin gave birth to two daughters one after another. Her husband has always used the excuse of being busy with work and rarely goes home to care about the family. Her mother-in-law is taking care of the family on the surface, but in fact, she doesn’t make hygienic meals at home. Zheng Sumin is alone. Her mother-in-law is only responsible for going home for dinner. However, her mother-in-law, who doesn’t do anything, likes to take credit in front of her son. , always calling her son, "Son, the mother takes care of the family affairs very well. Your wife enjoys a lot, don't worry."

Zheng Sumin felt that her mother-in-law is too good at acting, she wants to tell her husband the real situation, but no matter what she says, her husband doesn't believe it at all. Her husband always says, "My mother is an old man, how could she tell lies? But you, you can't watch more about the elderly at a young age? Why do you always say that she is bad? You really don't have a grateful heart." All the work at home is done by her, all the suffering is suffered by her, but the result is all the mother-in-law. From the time of marriage to now, my husband has always believed that what his mother said is true and has never believed her once.

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Such marriages make Zheng Sumin feel that she is always an outsider. Her mother-in-law and her husband usually ignore her, but her mother-in-law was sick and hospitalized, and she became the person who was most responsible and obliged to take care of her mother-in-law. Her husband said that he was busy with work and never came back to take care of her mother-in-law again. Her mother-in-law never really helped her, but she still had to take care of her mother-in-law because her husband usually favored her the most. But at the critical moment, he became the boss again and asked her wife to take responsibility for taking care of her mother-in-law. How can a marriage like

not make people feel sad? Zheng Sumin felt too tired and wronged in this marriage. She complained to her good sisters many times, but like most indecisive women, she couldn't make up her mind to get a divorce. Because there are too many things to consider when divorce, we must consider whether the child will be hurt, whether the family of our parents will accept it, and consider other people's vision and how to live a life after divorce. Because we have considered too much, we always dare not take a step forward.

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Finally, a married friend suddenly passed away, and Zheng Sumin realized that life is actually very short, and being happy is the most important thing for himself. If you feel very hard and tiring after getting married, you might as well be brave, divorce decisively, and give yourself a chance to be happy. Zheng Sumin finally understood that in her life, she would end as soon as she said she would end. There was no need to worry about it and think so much. If she should divorce, she would divorce. There was really no need to struggle to support her in an unhappy marriage.

After the divorce, Zheng Sumin gave herself 10 days off. No one believed that this was the first time she had such a long vacation in 12 years of marriage. She went on a trip and went to buy clothes she liked. She finally didn't have to stay at home every day to do housework, nor did she have to spend some money on her husband's mood. She found a job and could support herself. This feeling of making money by herself is really free. However, after marriage, she has been a full-time housewife and has been reaching out to ask her husband for money to spend. The feeling of looking at her husband's face is really bad.

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After the divorce, Zheng Sumin felt very happy, but Zheng Sumin's ex-husband did not think so. The ex-husband felt that Zheng Sumin would definitely regret it after the divorce and would definitely not be able to support herself, so he was waiting for Zheng Sumin to regret it. In the eyes of the ex-husband, Zheng Sumin had never gone out to work for 12 years after marriage. This is happiness, and her mother-in-law has been helping her with housework. She neither has to make money himself nor do housework. Who has such a good life? After the divorce, she will know how happy the wedding day is. She will definitely want to remarry again.

The ex-husband has never deleted Zheng Sumin's circle of friends. He often follows Zheng Sumin. He thinks that Zheng Sumin will definitely regret it and will definitely post some sad and sad circle of friends on his circle of friends. Unexpectedly, Zheng Sumin's circle of friends has always been a declaration of happiness, and there has never been a word of regret. Recently, Zheng Sumin even wrote directly: "I finally got divorced, happier than when I got married." Seeing Zheng Sumin say such things directly on his circle of friends, his ex-husband was silent. He finally realized that Zheng Sumin would never come back. It turned out that she was happier after divorce.

Conclusion:

Many men think that their wives are full-time housewifes in marriage and do not have to go out to work. Living with their mother-in-law is to enjoy their happiness. They simply understand how aggrieved women live in such a marriage.

Some women are lucky. They meet husbands who understand and understand their efforts and sacrifices in marriage can be seen by their husbands. Husbands can understand their hard work. They are very happy in marriage and never feel wronged. Only such women will feel that getting married is better than divorce. Otherwise, for most women with unhappy marriages, divorce is better than marriage.