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As a woman, what she fears most is that her parents prefer boys over girls, and her parents also prefer boys over girls.
Meeting parents who prefer boys over girls is not only a woman’s misfortune and a woman’s luck. Because you can feel the attitude of others toward you very realistically, so you can choose how you should face it.
Zhang Juan didn't expect that she had done her best to take care of her parents for so many years. In the end, her parents were divided into two houses for her parents' demolition, but her parents shared them equally with her brothers and sisters-in-law, but she didn't get the money. It would be fine if her parents were partial, but she even asked her to support her.
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Zhang Juan always thought that her parents were not men who favored boys over girls. After all, she is the youngest daughter in the family, and her parents have given her delicious food since she was a child. As for the two brothers, only if she doesn't want them, will it be the two brothers' turn.
However, it was not until the two brothers got married one after another and she got married that Zhang Juan realized that her parents' love for her was superficial. The parents' preference for their two brothers is sincere.
When the two brothers got married, although their parents had limited abilities, each brother still gave him 300,000 yuan to buy a wedding house. After her turn, her parents said that they had spent all their savings, so they asked Zhang Juan to be more considerate. They would not leave the 100,000 yuan gift given by the man to be in their parents' home and would not marry Zhang Juan back intact.
Although Zhang Juan felt a little wronged, her parents complained like this, and she couldn't hold on to her. But she didn't have a dowry, and her husband's family finally looked down on her, and her attitude towards her was not so enthusiastic and sincere.
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After marriage, the two brothers and sister-in-law went to work in other places respectively. Later, he settled and lived in another place, leaving his parents to guard his hometown. Zhang Juan’s in-laws’ house is not far from her parents’ home. Whenever she has time, Zhang Juan will take her children back to visit her parents and help them with housework.
The parents were hospitalized when they were sick, and it was also the two of her and her husband who ran away. As for the two brothers and sisters-in-law, they just called a few unpainable calls, and did not say that the person came back to take care of him, nor did they say that they would pay for him.
Although my husband complained that he was thankless, Zhang Juan was not petty about it even though she thought that she was her parents. It was not until his parents' hometown demolition divided into two houses and hundreds of thousands of dollars for demolition, that Zhang Juan finally saw through her parents' faces.
After the parents demolished the house and distributed the money, they did not notify them as soon as possible. Instead, they immediately notified their two sons who were working in other places. When the two brothers and sisters-in-law heard that they had the house and paid for it, they rushed back overnight.
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Until the parents shared the two houses equally with the two brothers and sisters-in-law, and left 200,000 yuan by themselves, and the rest of the money was also equally shared with the two brothers and sisters-in-law, but did not leave a penny for her daughter, Zhang Juan completely collapsed in front of her parents' home.
Zhang Juan argued with her parents, but her parents thought she was not wrong. The house belonged to them, and it was natural to give her son. After all, the daughter who was married and the water she poured out was not qualified to go back to her parents' home to compete with her son for the property. After
, Zhang Juan was heartbroken and had not returned to her parents' home for a long time. But she didn't go back to her parents' home, but her parents didn't let her go. After all the money and houses were all done, the parents begged to come to the house pitifully, saying that they originally wanted to go to the city to retire with their two sons, and their two sons took turns to live in half a year or a year. But who knew that the two daughters-in-law disagreed and refused.
The parents had no choice but to have a house in their hometown, and they had no place to live, and their two sons refused to take them in. They were really homeless and asked for their daughter and son-in-law to take care of their children. Seeing his parents' pitiful and embarrassed look, Zhang Juan became soft-hearted.
It’s just that when she discussed with her husband about her parents coming to her house for retirement, her husband refused directly. He also said that the family property was all distributed to her two sons, but she found a daughter and son-in-law to support her. She didn’t have any door. Whoever took the money and house would support her, and I would also support my own parents.
The husband insisted on refusing to take in his parents. Zhang Juan had no choice but to send him away 3,000 yuan and ask his parents to find two brothers and sisters-in-law to support him, otherwise he would rent a house to support him with 3,000 yuan.After all, she doesn't want to give up her family and marriage for her parents.
Today's topic:
Do you support Zhang Juan to send her parents to her two brothers and sisters-in-law's house for retirement?
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