What is the experience of having a father who is extremely unreasonable, selfish, stingy and distrusts anyone? Sad, angry and helpless.
When facing such a father, whether it is sad or resentful, I think it is a waste of feelings. The more you care and the more you give to him, the more rampant he will be. Instead of doing this, it’s better to let him go. Although we as children cannot condemn our parents, we really cannot be kind to them and obey our rules like normal children.
Therefore, I chose not to care and ignore it. Being a stranger with blood relationship has done my best. I believe that your father must have caused a lot of harm to you over the years, but the more you hate him, the more you care about him. If you really want to let yourself go, you must calm your mood. When your heart is surrounded by iron walls, your father will never hurt you again. A junior brother told me that his relationship with his father was not very good, because his father only knew how to drink since he was a child, and he liked to beat his mother and him after drinking. When he was a child, he was unable to resist his father, but when he grew up, his father was no longer his opponent. On the night of the Chinese New Year, his father got drunk again and wanted to go crazy. He said something very bad to them, and then he reached out and wanted to hit his mother. Just as he was about to continue to hit, he took his father's hand and pushed hard, and his father fell to the ground with a look of surprise. Since then, he has never spoken to his father again. He said he knew he was wrong, but he didn't regret it. He said that he and his father were probably like this in their lives. When he was old, he would still take care of him, but he just took care of him.
A family that is not rich, my mother just saves money, and he can spend about 10,000 yuan to buy a mobile phone, all kinds of messy things, and even children have never paid a penny to get married. He only knows to take the little money that my mother has saved hard and go to a restaurant with those friends every day, while my mother eats leftovers at home. His words are full of principles, everything is for your own good, and he can still be fooled by him when he was a child, now. . . . . There is a father who is extremely unreasonable, selfish, stingy and distrusts anyone who needs to be tolerant, but should not be forgiven.
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