Women are emotional. Sometimes they are blind and naive in their treatment of love. They can give them all for a temporary favor. Even if the people around them feel that it is not worth it, they will love them wholeheartedly. Although love is beautiful and desirable, they really

Women are emotional. Sometimes they are blind and naive in their treatment of love. They can give them all for a temporary favor. Even if the people around them feel that it is not worth it, they will love them wholeheartedly. Although love is beautiful and desirable, they really need to give it to the right person, and all the efforts will be cherished and responded to.

For women, marriage is equivalent to their second life. Only after marrying the right person can you be happy. However, sometimes love is too blind and often ignore the shortcomings and character of your lover. You will not obey your parents' suggestions and only want to marry the love in your heart. However, those in the authorities are confused and those onlookers are clear. It is best to consider carefully when facing major events in life and listen to the opinions of people around you to make the right choice.

Xu Lei and Wang Gang are college classmates and rarely contact or communicate with each other. Xu Lei only knows that Wang Gang’s family is not well off. She comes from a small county town and comes to a big city by studying. She lives a very difficult life. She often goes to work part-time and works during holidays. She depends on herself for living expenses and tuition fees.

At that time, Xu Lei admired Wang Gang very much, and felt that although his family was poor, he had a sense of unyieldingness and had a good impression of him. However, at that time, Wang Gang devoted all his energy and time to his studies and part-time jobs, so Xu Lei did not express his feelings. It was not until two years after graduation that the two had another intersection at the class reunion.

later got together. As his understanding deepened, Xu Lei found that Wang Gang had changed a lot. He used to be introverted, didn't like to talk, and didn't like to interact with others. Now he is completely familiar and can chat with anyone. The only thing that remains unchanged is that he is still as stingy as before, and he attaches great importance to money. Considering his family background, Xu Lei did not care too much, and he would take the initiative to bear the expenses during dates. Wang Gang spoke all kinds of sweet words and promises, ensuring that he would give Xu Lei the best life if he made money in the future.

Half a year later, the two began to talk about marriage, but this relationship was opposed by their parents. The mother felt that Wang Gang's family was not good, and his two daughters, who were not a good match, would sooner or later be wronged. At that time, the difference in their values ​​and living habits would definitely become the fuse of the quarrel. The father felt that the other party was not down-to-earth enough, and he talked with his words but had no practical plan. Under the hard persuasion of his parents, Xu Lei had to choose to break up. Later, under the introduction of her parents, she also married her blind date. Although her life was dull, she was also happy.

But Xu Lei always felt a little regretful in her heart. If she had not given up her first love at the beginning, would her life be happier now? It was not until she had a party with her roommates two years later. When they heard them talk, she realized that after Wang Gang broke up with him, she soon had a new relationship. The other party's family was also well off. Finally, she entered the marriage and lived in the dowry room bought by the woman's house. However, he always felt inferior and was inferior in his bones, so he vented his temper on his wife. He made a big fuss when he had any problems. Finally, he even started to fight. In the end, the woman was so angry that she called her family to beat Wang Gang and let him leave the house with nothing.

After hearing what his ex had happened, Xu Lei was particularly surprised. A person who once seemed so hardworking and gentle, unexpectedly changed completely after getting married. If his parents had not stopped him at the beginning, he might have suffered a lot of grievances now.

Jane Austen said in " Reason and Emotion ": It is absurd to only consider family background; it is stupid not to consider family background. It is undeniable that two people with similar family backgrounds can indeed manage a better marriage. After all, the consumption concept and living habits will not be too different. It can often avoid many unnecessary conflicts and reduce frictions about money.

Beautiful love is hard to come by, but if you want to talk about love to get married, you must be more careful and treat it carefully. Don’t just act alone. You need to listen to your parents’ opinions more. You can only make a choice after weighing the pros and cons. After all, marriage is a major event in life. Only by choosing the right person can you have happiness, instead of getting married impulsively with temporary favor and passion. Otherwise, if you meet someone wrong, you will only misconduct your sincerity, waste your youth, and suffer all your grievances.#Marriage##Emotion##Emotional Firm#