When his mother passed away, Yu Cheng was still wandering outside. When the heavens and man are separated forever, the photos of their son hang alone on the head of the bed, with a rare look of bright smile. When Yu Cheng returned home and heard the news of his mother's death, he seemed unable to understand what "death" meant, but he still said nothing, as if he was listening to the chat of irrelevant people. He immediately ran away in silence, leaving home several times as before.
However, occasionally, Yu Cheng suddenly woke up again, his words and deeds were like ordinary people. His father Yu Changming told him the bad news about his mother when he saw the opportunity, and he woke up again and was joking to visit his mother's grave. That was the person who loved him the most. Yu Cheng walked around his mother's grave, as if he said "goodbye" after another.
After a broken heart, he became the "fool" in the neighbor's mouth
00 When he was 23 years old, he worked as a security guard in Hefei and had a very close girlfriend. With her, Yu Cheng felt that in addition to food and clothing, life also promised him more, such as the future, happiness and Chinese-style happiness - a two-person world, a family of three.
At that time, he and his mother swore that they would marry their girlfriend as soon as possible and organize a glorious wedding banquet to make their mother happy. However, all this was seen as a natural expectation. With the breakup text message sent by his girlfriend, it quickly turned into a huge rock that was blocked by Yu Cheng's heart.
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After years, the ordinary days have not only not melted this big stone, but have made Yu Cheng even more depressed. Gradually, he often had a long time of excitement, and he was dazed more than he had eaten, and his parents didn't respond. Sometimes they wander around the street, murmuring in their mouths, and swing violently in the air and then hang down. In this cycle, neighbors whispered, "Yu Cheng has not met a friend, why are you stupid?"
Indeed, in the village traditions of Guizhou rural areas, making a living and finding a way out has exhausted people's strength. What is love? How could a good young man, the labor force in his family, be so lost for these leisure time?
Yu Changming didn't understand at first, and looked at his son all day long and sighed. Later, from his son's intermittent narrative, he seemed to gradually understand that everyone's ability to tolerate pain and what degree of pain was completely different. "My son has been very meticulous since he was a child and attaches great importance to feelings. We gradually accepted this way. Each of them has their own personality."
"Love-blasted" son wandered away from home all year round, and his father stayed alone in the empty nest
However, "acceptance" does not mean that he can easily take care of it for more than 20 years. At first, with a minimum living allowance, the family could barely deal with their daily life.
"Cooking for him, asking him to eat, listening to him muttering, sometimes I can tell me seriously, and I am very satisfied. I just think it's about raising a baby on the top, and when my wife leaves, I just act as a father and a mother, and I understand his mother's original hard work." Raising his son as a not-so-smart child from scratch was the solution that Yu Changming convinced himself to persevere.
However, as the condition worsened, Yu Cheng ran away more and more frequently, and the time he lost was also tug at the count of years. The long lost time made it difficult for the family to find it again and again, and Yu Changming felt that he was gradually losing his son.
"He couldn't stay at home, and always wanted to run, and he would lose as soon as he ran away. Once he ran to Changsha, he would lose for two or three years, and he didn't know if he wanted to get home." Yu Changming's aging legs and feet gradually found his habit of finding the habit of not seeing each other for several days. Yu Cheng went away for months and years, and he no longer deliberately counted the time on the calendar.
What kind of life does the son live outside? "Anyway, I can't be hungry, I always have food to eat, and I can sleep on the road and the bridge holes." Since Yu Cheng's world broke up, wandering was indeed a normal state, and he could sleep peacefully even if he was covered with a leaf.
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After the wife passed away, the eldest son and daughter-in-law went to the city to work and settle down, and Yu Changming lived alone in the empty nest. Fortunately, after Yu Cheng was lost for a short time or a long time, he would always be sent back to this old house by enthusiastic people or rescue stations. He looked forward to reunion with his son while staying close to time.
Although you need to take care of your son during these reunion days, at least you have close relatives on your side, so it is better to have a noisy movement than to live alone.
After wandering for a year and a half, the father and son have been relied on each other since then. However, Yu Cheng has gone away again since he left home in April 2021. It was not until September 26 this year that Yu Changming finally looked forward to another reunion with his son. It was the staff of the Lingling District Rescue Station of Yongzhou City, Hunan Province who called the warm hotline that had been separated by one and a half years. Yu Changming's heart, which had been hanging for a year and a half, finally came to an end.
htmlOn September 4, after Yu Cheng was sheltered by the Lingling District Rescue Station, he was naked and thin, and no one could understand his fragmented expression. After the search for a relative was deadlocked, the staff decided to feed the information back to the search team of , Douyin, , and the team immediately contacted the cooperative police officer to carefully compare Yu Cheng's appearance and other information, and finally confirmed his identity.Picture source network
Yu Changming, who is over 80 years old, welcomes his son in his dilapidated ancestral house. He said happily and sadly: "As long as I am still here, my home will be there. If I leave one day, he will really lose his home and become a homeless man." The villages in Panshan meander into the depths, with the origin and the place of going dark, and the days of dependence on each other need to continue. "I don't have the energy to find him if he runs away. It's fate that we can be a father and son for one more day."
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