text丨Love words: 30:00
I am here, waiting for the wind, and waiting for you.
When the Creator created humans, he always invested too much proportion in the love part. As for these men and women walking in the world, none of them can escape love.
For those who have never tasted the taste of love, no one is not a thoughtful imagination, and longing for the romantic ones that belong to you.
And for those who have already tasted love, which one is not trapped in love, whether hurt or not, which one is not trying his best!
In fact, many times, I appreciate those who keep their blood boiling in love as always.
However, after reading too many sad stories and experiencing too many heartbreaking things, I feel that the premise of being excited about love must be to have an absolutely sober understanding of love.
So, I advise everyone who pursues love to think clearly about what kind of person is a true lover.
There is a sentence in the little prince that says this: "If you want to create bondage with others, you have to bear the risk of crying." I don't deny the correctness of this sentence, but can we do something to reduce the frequency of risks.
Although love is like making friends, it is mixed, but finding someone who has the same frequency as you, has the same three views, is consistent in pace, and knows your mood and well-being, then the way of life will be very different.
Therefore, friends, life is short, don’t waste your precious time on some people who consume your emotions and energy.
The reason why the Creator invested too much emotion in people is not to make people a fool in love, sacrificing and consuming themselves for love.
The original intention of the Creator is to allow humans to have more emotions and have more unique emotional characteristics belonging to humans.
Of course, it is also to let humans do more lovely and warm things in this cold world.
So, the person you choose and recognize must be someone with feelings and love. Only those who are not stingy about expressing love to you and giving you warmth is the true lover of .
In this vast world, there are thousands of options available, but not everyone has the qualifications and destiny to become your lover, that is, your lover.
The so-called lover is like looking for a red bean in a tank of mung beans, instead of picking a green bean in a tank of mung beans.
This day after day, ordinary and ordinary life is already boring enough. If you take someone out casually, you will think he is the right person.
Then, for the rest of your life, the quarrels and conflicts in your life will eventually exhaust your entire vitality.
Choose the wrong lover and make people pay for their lives.
Everyone should know what a true lover looks like.
Perhaps from an external perspective, a true lover has no specific appearance definition. Whether it is tall, short, fat, thin, black, yellow, white, or real lovers, they may become real lovers. But the prerequisite is that these people must have such characteristics.
It is very comfortable to get along with you. It can chat and be funny. It has its own unique insights on certain things. It will never be completely different from you in big things.
In addition, he is also a person who can communicate and trustworthy. He knows how to think from the perspective of others, knows how to consider other people's feelings, and treats people sincerely without being strict and rigid.
More importantly, he has a clear plan for the present and future between you, and shows absolute responsibility and responsibility. This is the person who is in line with your three views and who is comfortable with you is the true lover.
If you can find such a person in your life, then your life must be happy. Because only a true lover will be on the same frequency as you, and only a true lover will enrich your life and satisfy your spirit.
So, friends, please remember the person who truly loves you. Not everyone is the real lover in your life. A good lover will make you better and better, rather than letting you fall into a swamp, getting worse and worse.
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