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There will always be some despairing and frustrating moments in life.
When you feel that your life has reached a low point, feel that you lack the power to go on, or even feel that you are self-loathing and self-denial, you can read the works of the masters.
From their books, I believe you will definitely find the power to face life again.
Yang Jiang is a famous writer and a wise old man who has experienced the world. She said two sentences of life and has saved countless people and shared them with you.
1: Only those who are in a humble state have the most opportunity to see the truth of the world and human relationships
The warmth and coldness of human relationships, the coldness of the world. Human nature is always cold and thin. The more enthusiastic you can be when you use it, and the more heartless you can be when you don’t.
In fact, we don’t need to take other people’s eyes too much. Except for family and real friends, when others look at you, they don’t see you, but the benefits you can bring to him behind you.
seek benefits and avoid harm, it is just the instinct of human nature, so don’t feel sad.
When you are in a low point, this is not a bad thing. You can recognize who is the real friend, whether it is a human or a ghost, it is clear at a glance.
The icing on the cake is not necessarily a friend, but the real brother is the one who can help in time.
Only children can distinguish right from wrong, and only interests are discussed in the world of adults. You can see the people around you clearly and you will know where to put them.
If you want to climb high, these are what you have to go through. You cannot lack these snobbish but useful people around you. You must use their power to help you get to where you want.
If you are willing to be ordinary and don’t want to pay attention to these troubles, you can draw a clear line with them and pursue the truth.
Life is ultimately a trade-off and game, it just depends on what you want.
Every choice you have will gain and lose. If you want to stand at a high place, you will have the risk of climbing high and falling heavily, and you will have to endure the loneliness that is so cold that it is too cold at a high place. If you are willing to live a peaceful life, you will inevitably have cold eyes and ridicule and experience the coldness of the world.
But after all, you live your life yourself. As long as you don’t care about other people’s eyes, you won’t hurt you.
2: We once looked forward to the recognition of the outside world, but in the end we realized that the world is our own and has nothing to do with others
Many of our troubles come from the pull between the heart and the outside world. We want to live as ourselves, but we live in the expectations of others.
Everyone had their own dreams when they were young, but when they grew up, not many people could live according to their dreams. I studied a major I didn’t like, did a job I didn’t like, married someone I didn’t like, and said insincere words.
Everyone is doing things they don’t want to do against their will, but they are struggling in their hearts. Such tearing can easily make people exhausted. What exactly is
trapping us? In fact, it’s just that we can’t overcome the hurdle in our hearts.
neither has the courage to fight against the world nor is he willing to go with the flow.
Our evaluation of ourselves even comes from other people's standards, eager for others' recognition and amplify others' expectations. But in the end you will realize that in your world, others are really not that important.
You have spent your whole life and lived as what others want. This is the greatest sorrow.
We are independent people and we have the right to decide our own lives.
No matter what the worldly standards for success are, as long as you feel satisfied, your life is successful.
There is no template, let alone standards for success. Success is self-confidence and peace in the heart. Not everyone wants to become famous and get married, have a wealthy family, and live a serious life, but can also be successful people.
Don’t be bound by other people’s eyes. In fact, others don’t care so much about you. In this scene in life, the protagonist and the audience are actually only ourselves.
people’s biggest burden is internal consumption. Most of the internal consumption is because they do too little and think too much. Instead of tangling with your own sorrow and dying in the spring and autumn, and lingering with other people's evaluations and visions, it is better to do what you have in your hands first and listen to your true voice in your heart more.
I hope everyone can find their own path openly and live their own life well.
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