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Parents’ vision is often reflected in the education of their children.
Really visionary parents will not blindly satisfy their children materially, but will teach them to be self-reliant and self-reliant. Because they know that this is the foundation for their children to settle down in the future.
The same is true. When it comes to major marriages of children, they will not only look at the present, but will consider the future.
They will not tell their children that when choosing a spouse, they should look at whether the other person looks good or not, and whether the family has money, they will only tell their children that character is the first priority, followed by personality, values, education and ability, etc. These are the keys to whether they can live a good life in the future, and the key to becoming a husband and wife.
Especially for families with daughters, parents' words and deeds are more important.
A truly smart parent will not let his daughter marry into the following three types of families. This is really foresight. If you marry, you will definitely regret it in the future.
1: Family that prefers boys over girls
How can some families prefer boys over girls? They always believe that their daughter is a loss when she is born, and she is destined to be an outsider, so they cannot treat her fairly. I just want to raise my daughter at will, and then let them work and earn money to help my brother or younger brother at home.
is also his own child, but he has two different treatments, which ordinary people cannot understand.
Don’t let your daughter marry into a family that prefers boys over girls, but it is actually for future considerations. On the one hand, they won't really respect you, on the other hand, you may be treated differently with children, boys or girls in the future.
Growing up in such a family environment is not conducive to the healthy physical and mental development of children.
Xiao Min broke off the engagement before because her parents realized that the other family seriously favored boys over girls. Most of the bride price they gave to Xiao Min's family was the bride price that their daughter asked for her in-laws when she got married.
This behavior of using the daughter's bride money to subsidize her son is enough to show how bad the three views are. Being in-laws with such a family may cause endless troubles in the future.
2: Overly snobbish families
Some families only look at money and only look at the other person's achievements and status. If they are good at doing well, they are flattered, and if they are not doing well, they are far away. They expose the most realistic side of human nature, which makes people feel chilled and helpless.
If you have met such a person in your life, don’t try to convince him or want to change him. Keeping a distance is the most correct way to do it.
Because the country is easy to change, the nature is difficult to change. The formation of a person's thoughts and ideas is related to his growth environment, acquired experience, and the circle he lives in. His stubbornness is unimaginable.
Don't let your daughter marry into such a family, because they may look down on you.
If you don’t live that well in the future, his attitude towards your family will immediately change, because they always have only interests and no true feelings in their eyes.
It is too great to get married to such a family.
3: Family style with improper family style
Family style is not formed in one day, but is passed down from generation to generation, so it is difficult to change in a short period of time, and it can never be changed.
In this case, if you find that the other party’s family is incorrect, don’t expect them to change it. It is wise to draw a clear line.
For example, some families think that children are useless in their studies, so they don’t graduate from high school or even junior high school, so they ask them to go out to work. Whenever they earn a little money, they will show off proudly:
"I just say studying is useless, right? Your children go to college, will they also work the same in the future? Maybe they don’t earn as much as my child has earned, so what are they trying to do?"
People like this have too narrow vision and too small in structure. It is not beneficial to marry such people, because you may not be in a good match with them, and they may not be open-minded to your daughter.
What kind of family does a daughter marry often determine the future mood of the parents. If the daughter is married well, parents will naturally feel at ease. If she doesn't marry well, she may be unable to sleep or eat.
This is Warn us that when it comes to getting married, we must keep our eyes open and be cautious enough.
Some families, no matter how rich they are, don’t let their daughter marry. Not only will they not be happy to marry, but there will also be many hidden dangers, especially the above mentioned families that prefer boys over girls, over snobbish families, and families with bad family traditions.
Marrying, you will be destined to regret it. I hope that parents will take it as a warning.
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