The reason why a man can’t let go of a woman is often because this woman has a unique taste.
That is a physical experience beyond imagination.
Knowing that this person is not suitable and should not continue dating, he is still attracted by the damn charm. During the day I thought about saying goodbye completely, but the moment I heard her voice collapsed.
The body's attraction looks insignificant, but this power is powerful.
The body ties make people addicted to
For a while, a male fan came into my live broadcast room. During the process of connecting to the microphone, I told my story.
He often visited Caier store and met a woman in it. The other party claimed that he was not married, so he began to pursue this woman.
When she first established a relationship, she gave her a mobile phone worth tens of thousands. Later, they spent 70,000 or 80,000 yuan on this woman. Once, she accidentally discovered that women actually have families and children.
He felt he was deceived. But I still couldn't help but want to continue this relationship with her. Later, he registered a small account and pretended to be another customer to test it. Unexpectedly, the woman also accepted the request for meeting happily, and her tone was quite ambiguous. After testing this passage of
, he completely understood what kind of character he was, and knew that he was just one of the many spare tires, and the other party could not give his sincerity.
But after separation, he was still in pain. I asked him: What are you trying to do in this relationship? He answered frankly: I am really happy with her, and this kind of physical joy is something I have never had before.
Now, they still maintain a unclear relationship, and he still keeps giving in to this woman.
Sometimes, men know what the essence of this relationship is, but they still can't bear to let it go. At the beginning, maybe I just had fun, but in the end I found that I was fascinated.
Don't underestimate the strength of the body
After a consultation from a fan late at night. He is currently single and meets a female colleague at work. This woman is married, has children and a husband.
The two of them were just simple colleagues at first, but later they talked more and more, and their female colleagues often complained about their marriage to him.
For a while, the two of them were on a business trip together, and they talked about business very late, and they had late supper together. So, the two of them had a relationship naturally.
After that time, the female colleague consciously avoided him and was not interacting with him. Except for the occasional communication at work, there are almost no discussions on the others.
He is in great pain now and doesn't know what this female colleague is thinking.
In fact, I think men cannot let go of two kinds of women: one that has not been able to sleep, and the other that has not been sleeping enough.
is obvious, he can't let go of this person who hasn't had enough sleep. Because I am obsessed with that feeling, I always fantasize about more follow-ups. The more desperate the relationship is, the more taboo things a person yearns for.
It’s a colleague during the day and a lover at night. It’s exciting to think about it. Who can give up?
The strength of the body is sometimes amazing. It will create all kinds of anxiety, making you unable to work with peace of mind, and will also come out from time to time, consuming your emotions.
Knowing that I can't control it, don't start
Most of my tree holes are sad stories. Whether it is a man or a woman, once you fall into emotional and physical entanglements, it is often difficult to let go.
So, I often advise many fans and friends in live broadcasts: Never blindly have physical relationships with a person. Once your body is tied, no matter how strong your will is, it will be disintegrated.
Knowing that this relationship should not continue, and knowing that this kind of relationship is a kind of consumption, but when facing that person, everything established before will collapse one by one.
It’s like you are addicted to something, knowing it will harm your body, but you are obsessed with it again and again. Many things cannot be controlled by reason.
Even if you have strong self-regulation ability, you will struggle and suffer when you fall in it. After the physical connection between people, there will always be various emotions.
When your body is tamed by the other party, the suppressed feelings will always have a distorted pleasure. Despite the twist, you fall into it.
Everyone says that reason can overcome instinct. But instinct is always the best. Although you have a rational mind, don't underestimate the power of instinct.
There is a sentence in the book "Instinct": Willpower often retreats in the face of strong desires. The key to controlling oneself is to take pre-emptive measures to restrict it. In any case,
Everyone is fighting their own genes throughout their life. The power of the body often drives us to do everything beyond reason, and control you by making you suffer, satisfied, and excited. Don’t underestimate the strength of your body, and don’t overestimate the powerful reason.