Nowadays, there are more men and fewer girls. Logically speaking, it is easier for girls to find a partner. Whether it is older or younger, it is the same. So why can’t this person find a partner? Is it because this person is too naughty? Otherwise, how could the object not be found? What is going on? Let’s take a look at this.
At the same time, I hope that through this case, I can remind everyone to make reasonable requests when looking for a partner. If you make a request blindly, then 100% of the waiting for you will be rejected, just like the person in the article.
case story sharing person,
67-year-old aunt Lin:
I can’t even understand why I can’t find a partner yet. Just now, my son told me, if you stand again, I will not recognize you as a mother, because I went on a blind date again. My son told me that we can give you everything you want, why do you still have to do this? Don't you feel embarrassed?
How can we calculate this every day? Don’t make trouble like this again, okay? If you have any needs, I can tell us that we can satisfy you and that if you need company, I can go back to my hometown to work, or bring you to my side. I just don’t want to bother the child.
so he will choose to find a partner. How could I let the child come back or go to the child? I believe that many elderly people are looking for partners because of these reasons. These are the reasons why I find a partner, including me. Isn't it for them? If it weren't for them, would I have to do this?
And I think my conditions are pretty good, so why can’t I find it? I have a pension of more than 3,000 yuan every month. If I are with me, I am willing to give 300 yuan pocket money. 300 yuan doesn’t sound like a lot, but I can do a lot of things. You can buy a lot of things for 300 yuan, 10 yuan a day and 300 yuan a month, just enough to spend.
And my conditions are not bad. In addition to having a pension, I am also pretty good-looking. Now I am strong and able to take care of myself and take care of you more important things. My pension will increase and I am pretty. Although I am over 60, if you don’t know, you think it’s possible that I am not over 50 or over 40. That's because I'm well maintained.
So why can't I find a partner if I have such good conditions? Those who look ugly, older, disgusting, and unable to take care of themselves have found a partner. Why can't I find one? The more I do this, the more I am worried. My children have a lot of opinions on finding a partner, and I don't know what to say. The more this happens, the more uncomfortable I feel, the more I don’t know how to face it. What’s wrong with me looking for a partner, why don’t they come back?
And why can’t I find the object? I am willing to give 300 yuan of pocket money when I am with me. What else do you want? Some people don’t give a penny to each other, so why can’t I find the pocket money? Do they think 300 yuan is too much? I think 300 yuan is okay, not much. But then why can't the object be found? Why do people talk about me? I only have 5 requirements to find a partner.
The first requirement is that you must listen to me after you are with me.
My heart is a little bad. If you don’t listen to me, I will get angry. Once I get angry, there is a very likely thing. You don’t think something happens to me. What should I do if something happens to me? The first thing to say is that if something happens to me, I will be hospitalized. How much does it cost to be hospitalized?
In order to avoid the tragedy of , you still have to listen to me. If you listen to me, I won’t be angry and then I won’t do anything. I was angry before and I was hospitalized. To put it bluntly, I was angry. At that time, I used more than 100,000 yuan. If you quarrel with me, if you don’t listen to me, I will be angry, or if I quarrel with you, I will be hospitalized. Once I am hospitalized, it will not be a matter of thousands of yuan. It is very likely that tens of thousands or hundreds of thousands are possible.
or maybe I will fall here directly, you don’t want such a thing to happen. So in order to avoid this tragedy, you still have to listen to me. If you listen to me, you are not only good to me, but also responsible to me. You don’t want me to fall in front of you one day, right? If I walk in front of you, how should you live your life in the future? So if you still listen to me, I am responsible to me and yourself, do you understand?
The second requirement is to hand over all your property to me.
No one can say anything about birth, old age, sickness and death. To put it bluntly, what if you walk ahead of me one day? What if it is really like that? If you leave, who is responsible to me, if you leave, someone will take care of me, and someone will listen to me, if you leave, who will take care of me, who will listen to me, I can't say that your children will listen to me, let alone let your children take care of me, are they willing?
Even if I want to, they won’t. I don’t expect that when I quarrel with your child about this kind of thing, everyone will be in a dilemma, so I’d better give me your property. Your property is also a kind of guarantee for me. I’m with you, if you don’t give me the property, who do you want to give your hometown to other women?
If that happens, then I won’t be with you anymore. You won’t be responsible for me or not. Why should I be with you? If I choose to be with you like this, then I should listen to me and be responsible for me or not. So I think after you get together, you must give me all your property, just be kind to me and be responsible to me. You don’t want to ignore me, and you don’t want me to live a miserable life in the future.
The third requirement is that the other party must have a pension of more than 5,000 yuan.
5,000 yuan is not much. Nowadays, many people have tens of thousands of yuan in pensions, but I have nothing, and I have more than 3,000 yuan in whatever I do. I ask you to have a monthly pension of 5,000 yuan, not much, 5,000 is a guaranteed one, and it’s enough to have more than 5,000 yuan, as long as it exceeds 5,000 yuan, even 5,001 yuan is fine.
Anyway, it's enough to exceed 5,000 yuan. If you don't have money, how can you live? It's impossible to say that when I support you, I have to be with me. I have to support me for 5,000 yuan. It's just enough to spend. It's not much, but I'm very content. As long as you have 5,000 yuan a month, that's enough. Give me 5,000 yuan a month, it's not much. If you give me all your money, I'll be with you. If you don't give me the money, I won't be with you.
To put it a bad thing, if you don’t give me money, why should I make money from you? If you don’t have money, how can I spend a pocket money of 500 yuan a day, saying that a pocket money of 3300 yuan a day, and I will give you a pocket money of 300 yuan, which is not much. But for a man, 300 yuan is enough to spend. This requirement is not too much. Give me the money, and then I will give you pocket money, which is also responsible for you, and you will be responsible for me. Only in this way can we be happy.
The fourth requirement is that you must take care of me after you are together.
We are all together. If you don’t take care of me, whoever takes care of me? Since you have chosen to be together, you should take care of me. It is not difficult to take care of me. It is just to do everything you should do. In other words, after you are together, you just say that. If you don’t do it, you have to do whatever you want. If you don’t take care of me, whoever takes care of me will have to take care of me.
Take care of me is responsible for me. Only by taking care of me will I not make trouble with you. If you want to make trouble with me, then don’t take care of me, but if you don’t take care of me, I will not be with you. I don’t take care of me when I’m together. What do I want you to do? Since I choose to be together, I must take care of me, a man, and a woman.
This is a very important thing. I am your wife. If you don’t take care of me, who will take care of me? I am your wife, you should take care of me, right? It is natural for men to take care of women and husbands to take care of their wives. You are my husband. If you don’t take care of me, who else do you want to take care of? I have to take care of me, listen to everything, and do everything for me.
The fifth requirement is that the other party must be 10 to 15 years younger than me.
Why do I ask the other person to be 10 to 15 years younger than me? There is a reason for this, because didn’t I just say that I look like a woman in her 40s and 50 years old. Since this is the case, your age can only be 10 to 15 years younger than me. This is the first reason. Only in this way can we be matched when we go out. If you are about the same age as me or older than me, others will think I am your daughter. If that happens, it would be embarrassing.
The second reason is that according to relevant data, women are better at age than men. Haven’t you noticed it? When you go to the park to visit the park, have you found that most of the things you wander in the park are rarely played with? In other words, women are older than men. Since this is the case, then you must be younger than me. Only in this way can we reach the end. You don’t want to separate from me because of something, let alone halfway through something. Without me, without you.
So your five requirements are too much for everyone's good. If you can't meet these five requirements, I won't follow or not. It's for everyone's good. If you can't meet these five requirements, I will just be these five requirements. These five requirements are too much for everyone's good. If you can't meet these five requirements, I won't be with you. These five requirements are for everyone's good, so you must do this too.
Only in this way can we be happy together in the future. Don’t think these 5 requirements are difficult. I think these 5 requirements are the most basic requirements. Because other women are looking for partners, they require a car, a house and a deposit, and have I said these things? There is no way, even if you don’t have a car, no house, no recharge method, it doesn’t matter. As long as you can meet me, I don’t require me to be 100% with you. And I can be sure that I will definitely live with you after I am with you.
I am not like other women who are with you for your money. I am with you for your life. I am different from other women. Even if I have a good temper, why can't I find a partner? I just want to ask you, what's the difference between me? Where exactly am I huddling? Why isn't anyone with me yet? Is it because my request was too much? I don't think it's too much? , I didn't ask me what others gave me, and I didn't ask me how they were, but why can't I find a partner? Why is this happening?
Conclusion:
Although there are more men and fewer women now, your requirement is too excessive. You are looking for a partner, you are looking for a nanny, and you have to often give you the nanny you used to. This is impossible to find. If you look for this again, I feel that I will never find it in my life.
I hope this case can remind all women that they must be realistic when looking for a partner. If you look for a partner is like this woman, I can be sure that you will never find a partner in your life. Don’t blame others for not being with you.
Don’t blame your child, saying that you are talking to or something is entirely your own fault, because you are too much, and you cannot find the object for this request. If you want to find a partner, you must be realistic and look for the situation in the specific situation. Don’t be whimsical and don’t make wishes. Do you understand? When looking for a partner, you must be realistic, so that you can find the partner.
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