In the world of love, everyone does not want to be hurt.
Women often hope to meet a man who is dedicated and responsible to his feelings, and then stay with him for the rest of his life.
Similarly, men also hope to find a woman who is understanding, gentle and considerate, not half-hearted, not materialistic, and always treats feelings consistently.
In other words, women are afraid of meeting "scumbags", and men do not want to meet a "promiscuous" woman.
But nowadays, in this era of fast food love, many people's love is too superficial. Just looking at the appearance and not understanding the inner world, they casually say the words "I like you" and "I love you".
and so many people only start to understand each other after falling in love. After getting along for a long time, they will know what kind of person the other person is. Some people are even easily lost by the sweetness of love, unable to distinguish right from wrong, and are always in a state of being deceived. It takes a long time to discover the other person's "true face".
So when you are in love, if you want to completely avoid being hurt, you must first understand the other person's behavior and figure out the other person's attitude towards feelings: is it true, or just a casual play.
You should know that a "promiscuous" woman looks very obvious, you can tell at a glance. If a man does not want to be hurt, he must learn to distinguish. If he loves someone, he should pay attention to her inner self rather than a glamorous appearance.
1. Frequent contact with the opposite sex, without a sense of proportion
When men or women make friends, they will more or less meet a few friends of the opposite sex who are very good and have a good relationship.
The difference is that some women will keep a good distance when they get along with the opposite sex and keep their bottom line. If they don’t like it, they will refuse, and if they are uncomfortable, they will try not to contact each other.
When a friend of the opposite sex confesses his love, he has no feelings for the person and knows that the person is not suitable for him, he will simply refuse and clearly tell the other party what he wants. He will never create ambiguity and make the other party mistakenly think that he still has a chance.
But promiscuous women are different. They often enjoy the feeling of being sought after and admired by men, so when faced with the opposite sex, they mostly refuse to accept everyone.
Therefore, you will find that they are chatting with different men every day. When there is a man asking for an appointment, most of them will not refuse. Instead, they will dress themselves up carefully before going to the appointment. Women like
often treat feelings casually. They generally do not agree to men's pursuits, nor do they start a relationship in a hasty way.
On the surface, they dare not easily believe men's sweet words, and are carefully choosing which man who can be responsible for them for the rest of their lives.
In fact, they just don’t want to take a relationship seriously, so they frequently contact the opposite sex and maintain ambiguous relationships with different men without any sense of proportion.
2. It is very clear about men's thoughts and shows mercy everywhere
A woman who treats feelings seriously once she recognizes a man, she will give her all her sincerity, not deceive or hide, show her most sincere side, and just want to stay with the man for a lifetime.
But a woman is too sincere and has no scheming. She only knows to be good to men and may not be cherished by men.
It seems that most men like women who keep their sense of mystery, will not be easily dealt with, and are hot and cold towards themselves, so many passionate women have the opportunity to take advantage of it.
Compared with those sincere women, passionate women can often grasp the man's mind just right. They know what men like and don't like, and can always cater to men's preferences well and meet most of the needs of men. Men have almost no desire to resist such women.
In other words, when faced with promiscuous women, men are always easily deceived. As long as women use a little trick, men will fall into the vortex of love and cannot extricate themselves.
So men must understand that women who are sincere to you and do not treat you as an outsider are sincere to you. Although they may not understand you sometimes and may not be able to guess your thoughts, their love for you will definitely not be false.
On the other hand, women who can always easily know what you are thinking and what you need are not sincere to you. Maybe they have just met too many men and have long been familiar with men, so they can understand you clearly and understand your thoughts.
3. Just ask for nothing but give, don’t know how to be grateful
In a relationship, you should not give blindly, nor should you just ask for it, but should be two-way, and the balance of love should be kept balanced.
This is the case for those women who are dedicated to their relationship. They are very grateful for everything men have done for themselves, know to feel sorry for men, know to think from the perspective of others, and at the same time they will cherish this hard-won relationship.
They never rely on men's love to be fearless, nor do they often ask men for money and gifts, asking men to give their own efforts.
In their opinion, it is the greatest luck for men to love themselves sincerely, but promiscuous people will not think so.
In the eyes of promiscuous women, men pursue themselves as they are climbing up, and they always have a sense of superiority. If men want to impress themselves, they must not only show enough sincerity, but also be willing to give.
Therefore, when faced with those suitors, promiscuous women often make many excessive demands, such as asking men to buy expensive gifts for themselves and take themselves to high-end restaurants for dinner and shopping.
If a man is handsome and rich, she may continue to maintain a unclear relationship with the other party, but if the man does not perform well enough or does not do some things in consideration, the promiscuous woman will turn against others, and then find various reasons to distance herself from the man and find the next goal. A woman like
, no matter how much you give, she will take it for granted. No matter how you do it, she will not be grateful for your efforts, nor will she cherish you as a person.
So, I hope men can love someone worthy of love, learn to keep their eyes open, and know what kind of women should cherish and what kind of women should stay away from.
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Author: March.
The pictures in the article are from the Internet.
I hope my words can touch your heart and resonate with you. If you like this article, please like it, thank you for your company~
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