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What is love?
Different people will have different answers. However, no matter how the answer is given, it ultimately revolves around four words: go to each other.
Only love that goes to each other can be called "worthy".
What is worth?
Different people will have different feelings. However, no matter what form the feeling is presented, it is ultimately inseparable from the adjectives of "stable" and "reality".
If the interaction between men and women is not a relationship that goes to each other, the real and down-to-earth feeling will naturally not exist. You said, is it necessary to continue with such a relationship?
Women, facing feelings, are naturally emotional and fragile.
However, women add in their relationships. When dealing with the wrong people, even if they have been worried about gains and losses for a long time, it is difficult to truly give up. It is difficult to use a clear mind to observe whether the man in front of them is worth the "right person"!
In fact, if a man really loves you and wants to have the rest of his life with you, he will:
Carefully protect your emotions and guide you to grow up with him; encourage you, accept your shortcomings, and tolerate your small flaws.
love, that's it! Based on empathy with , transposition and understanding. A relationship that deviates from the real sense of stability is never a right relationship.
Does a man love you and is it worth your continued staying together? In fact, the details are the best proof!
Don’t contact your man if you love him like this! No need:
First: Vaguely deny you
no matter who seems perfect, he will do the wrong things and say the wrong things.
However, if you are in front of your parents, even if your parents speak harshly to you, it is because they are standing by the elders of those who have experienced it, and I hope you will grow up. In the severity, everyone is filled with heartache, love and expectation.
This is the most intuitive expression given to you by the person who truly loves you.
And if a man faces your mistakes and denies you vulgarly, he will definitely not love you that much!
There are also some men who obviously have not made any mistakes in their women, but they just use a suppressive way to get along with their women. Just imagine, if a man loves you, would he treat you like this?
The answer must be no!
In other words, a man who often denies you vulgarly is a person with too strong inferiority complex and just wants to find confidence for himself by suppressing you. Men like
have another mentality, that is, to make you extremely obedient to him by denying you. In this way, he can always control you to prevent you from being "disobedient".
In front of such a man, it is your fault that you make a mistake, and it is also your fault that you do not make a mistake. Occasionally, if he does not deny you vulgarly, that is an extra "gift" to you.
You should know that any relationship, as long as it is healthy, will not be a state of "one person vulgar and another person bears it".
Man, I really love you and will never be willing to make you sad.
If you do something wrong, he will patiently explain to you attribution and the result, and then face the error with you. Because I love you, I am willing to take responsibility with you.
A man who denies you will only make you feel that you are poor, you are not worthy of all the beauty, and you can only be controlled by him to survive and live.
Really, stay away from such men. Unless, you have a grudge against yourself.
Love is loyal and dedicated. After two people go in two directions, they can give each other a sense of real peace, loyalty and loyalty, which is natural.
Two people who truly love each other will never cause emotional panic or emotional negative interference to each other because of their relationship with other opposite sex.
Any existence of the opposite sex, as long as it is a normal and reasonable relationship, will definitely not have ambiguous or transboundary detailed behavior. The other half will not be worried about gains and losses or suffering.
I am afraid, even though the two people have already betrayed the fact that they are ambiguous and cross-border between their words and deeds, they still use "Why do you think of my ordinary friend as an imaginary enemy" to criticize their other half with a firm word!
A man who truly loves you will maintain a reasonable sense of boundaries with other opposite sexes no matter what. The sense of boundaries is not there, which means that the door to ambiguity and transboundary boundaries is open to welcome other opposite sexes at all times! You can be "replaced" at the most appropriate time.
If a man has a constant relationship with the opposite sex, he can only explain one problem:
You, in his heart, are not in a truly important position.
love is inseparable and shared! If your man always says he loves you, and he also makes private appointments with other opposite sexes at any time, pleases each other, and shares and shares with each other at any time, then he never loves you!
is also possible. He doesn't love that ambiguous and cross-border object, he only loves the pleasant feeling of being "welcome".
You must know that only people with low character and bad morals will do things that are not dedicated to their feelings. Although there is no real intimate relationship between ambiguity and transgression, it is also a kind of betrayal - spiritual betrayal.
There is no betrayal of it, it deserves to be forgiven! No betrayer deserves your affection!
Third: Get used to cold violence against you
No matter how good the relationship is, there are differences and contradictions.
People who truly love each other will increase their feelings through conflicts, differences and even quarrels. A unilateral relationship will only gradually lose the deepest feelings that have been in the past in a problem that is not a problem.
In a relationship where the relationship is gradually heating up, there are mostly two people who "correct when they know their mistakes." At the same time, there will be a man who knows how to "take the initiative to admit his mistakes".
Men who love women deeply naturally know the sensibility of women. Even if they are angry, they will instantly turn anger into joy because of the man’s apology and attitude, and the pear blossoms bring rain to sunny days!
does not have any healthy relationship and is not established through reasonable communication. No pair of people who truly love each other stay together through tolerance and empathy for each other.
If a woman really loves you, she will definitely not be able to withstand the cold war. When a woman makes a big fuss with you, it proves that your relationship is still in the hot period.
If, when a woman has nothing to say to you, it proves that your relationship is coming to an end.
Similarly, a man who is cold and violent towards you never loves you that much.
Some men will be cold and violent as long as they are unhappy, as long as they think a woman has made a mistake, as long as the woman does not meet her needs, and as long as the woman does not speak and act according to her wishes!
Cold violence is the most hurtful form of various relationships.也是一个人，对不在乎的关系，最直接的体现。
男女关系中，男人对你的冷暴力有多久，他就有多不在乎你。
冷暴力的男人，他不但不爱你，还在冷暴力对待你的过程中，感受着无比的快感。你说，这样的男人，你还留恋他什么呢？
男女交往，男人爱不爱你，就看他在细节交往时，如何对待你！
他爱你，就尽可能不让你伤心、难过。他爱你，就不会粗鄙否定地对待你、不会和其他异性关系暧昧越界。
他若是爱你，一定不会冷暴力对待你！因为，他舍不得你在一个人的时候胡思乱想，他害怕你胡思乱想之后放弃他。
爱你，就自然会害怕失去你。
爱你，怎会对你的喜怒哀乐视若不见呢？
情，是人在世间的炼狱。爱情也好、友情也罢，对的时间遇上对的人才能修成正果！
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