1. Will ask you to be independent
The reason why women need love is because they hope to rely on themselves and take good care of themselves.
For women, love is more about being loved and cared for.
But we are all adults, we all have work to do and responsibilities to take on.
, especially men, need to assume more responsibilities and plan for the future.
This also makes it impossible for a man to stay with a woman and cannot take good care of her.
At this time, men will ask you to be independent and cultivate your ability to take care of yourself.
From a woman's perspective, this is a manifestation of not loving herself. If she doesn't want to take care of herself, she will ask for it.
But in fact, men are just worried that they can’t take good care of themselves when you are not here.
He has no way to revolve around you all the time, and he has no way to take good care of you while taking good care of his career.
requires a woman to be independent not to show that she doesn’t love her, but because you are worried that you love you too deeply.
2. It will point out your shortcomings
Although women cannot lose themselves in love, it does not mean that women cannot change themselves.
Especially if there are some shortcomings, proper correction can make yourself better.
But when men point it out, women are often depressed, thinking that this is a flaw that can be seen only because they don’t love them.
Because when you love someone, you will feel that the other person is fine and there will be no problem. But it's just good for each other, and everyone needs to face society and understand others.
If you cause trouble to your life because of some of your shortcomings, it is very inappropriate.
A man takes the initiative to point out to you that it is not that he does not love you, but that he loves you deeply because he cares about you and hopes you will become better.
3. It will make you mature
There is a saying in "Listening": "Because of you, I am willing to be a better person."
Good love is to make both of you better, more mature and more stable.
After I was together, I learned a lot from each other and became a better self.
Women always hope to be spoiled by men like children in love and feel the happiness and beauty in it.
But a person must not grow, and must not be immature.
This is a process that needs to be experienced in life, and should be done, and done.
Women can be immature in front of men, but they are not enough in the eyes of outsiders in society.
In the long run, men will make women more mature and more able to face work and interpersonal relationships.
Because men love you, they will consider your future and make you more mature and better.
A good relationship requires mutual efforts and growth together.
So, in the eyes of women, the behavior of not loving you is actually a deep love for you.
Don’t hurt the man who loves you deeply because of your misunderstanding. It is most appropriate to cherish it.
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