And those things that you find particularly interesting may not be as interesting as you think to others. Because there are some things that every child may do, but when you see your own children do it, you think, wow, this is so interesting, so fun, so cute, that's because that's your child. And others may think that children are not like this? What's there to say? But, I am embarrassed to discourage you. So for that listener, sometimes it may feel a little embarrassed.
Humans can feel happy about their friends' happiness. But if your friend is too happy, sometimes he will feel uncomfortable. This kind of thing that has a new and cute child may be too happy, so maybe the friend who is listening to him will be impatient.
If a young parent is aware of the listener and friend around him, he can know that if you say too much, others may not be interested. Then you can stop as soon as you say it, and stop as soon as you see it is better. There is no need to say so much, so that others will not feel impatient.
But sometimes young parents think, "The problem is that you don't let me say it, I'm not happy. I want to talk about it with all my heart." In this case, you must understand who is willing to spend more time listening to your praises to your children?
The ideal object is another young parent, another parent with very young children. Because he also has a similar mood to you, he can understand when he hears you, so he won't feel so impatient.
Of course, when you talk to another young parent about your child, he will of course be more patient and willing to listen to you, and even understand you more. But he would also like to talk about their children. So many different young mothers get together, and everyone praises their children, and then in exchange, and also praises other people's children, or listens to others' praises their children. This can actually be a very happy social activity.
In this activity, everyone has the opportunity to say, everyone has the obligation to listen, and everyone has the obligation to praise other people's children in turn. Of course, praising other people's children can also lead to praising one's children. As long as this exchange is basically balanced, as long as you don’t be too self-centered and ignore others, this activity can be carried out very well, which can make you happy and make you happy.
The happiness that people can encounter and experience in life can also be said to be a big one. Why don't we enjoy it? Because when your child really grows up, you may not be in the mood to praise him, you can only complain about him. I hope this is not the case, but many people will do it. So if you have children to praise, try to praise it, you won’t always have the chance to do this.
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