When I got off work the day before National Day, I met Xiaoxin, an office clerk in the stairwell. I went downstairs in three steps and quickly reminded her to be careful not to fall. I am so happy that I am preparing to meet my boyfriend. Xiaoxin replied with a smile on her face, preparing to go back to her hometown.
Take your boyfriend back? Are you ready to meet your parents? Look, you are happy.
Yes, the leader is wise! Xiaoxin ran away like the wind after saying that.
Speaking of which, Xiaoxin is the only single woman in the office. She is actually not young anymore. She is the kind of person who looks particularly young. At first, she thought she was not in a hurry to find a partner because she was still young. It was not until she accidentally saw her personal information that she knew she was already 30, but she was happy to see her every day, and she was not in a hurry at all, and she was very curious.
Later someone told me that there were actually many people in the company who chased her, but she refused them all. Maybe her requirements for choosing a spouse are relatively high.
For a while, people gave her flowers every day, so everyone began to guess whether Xiaoxin was in love. Later, one time, I finally met the person who sent flowers at the door. It was a very young and sunny boy, so I joked about her. It seemed that this time I met true love, which was quite good.
As a result, Xiao Xin was very bitter, saying that in fact, neither of the parents agreed to the relationship between the two. The boy was a local native, but his family was not particularly good. The boy worked in a real estate company, and his parents were a local working-age family. There were two houses, one was an old rural house, which had not been demolished, and one was a small commercial house. The boy lived alone. Although the boy's parents saw that Xiao Xin was beautiful and generous, they still hoped that their children could find a local girl, and Xiao Xin was one year older than her boyfriend.
. Xiaoxin's parents felt that although the boy was a local, the conditions were average. Xiaoxin's conditions should be able to find a better one, so they got dead here.
However, the two of them still get along well. They watch Xiao Xin show their love in their circle of friends from time to time. This time, Xiao Xin's family agreed that they would go back to see their parents. They should be about to achieve success. Seeing that good things are approaching, they are also happy for them.
When I was browsing my phone today, I saw a crying face in Xiaoxin’s circle of friends, saying that he drove 1,000 kilometers home, and only stayed for 9 hours, saying that he would never go back again, which was so sad!
was thinking in my mind if he saw his parents not going well this time, so I found a colleague and asked it, and then I realized the whole story.
Xiaoxin and her boyfriend drove back. From Suzhou to their hometown, they also brought a lot of gifts. After arriving at home, their parents were still very happy to see it. That night, Xiaoxin lived at home. Her boyfriend originally wanted to live at home, but her parents said that the matter was not yet determined and it was not convenient to live at home.
So Xiaoxin arranged for her boyfriend to stay in a hotel. The two of them were tired of it for a long time. Xiaoxin didn't go home until very late. That night, her mother came over and warned Xiaoxin that she should not be too intimate at home. If the matter was not done in the end, it would cause people to gossip. Xiaoxin quarreled with her mother for a few words, and in the end the mother and daughter parted in disagreement.
By the morning of the next day, Xiaoxin's parents made a grand arrangement and prepared a large table of dishes. All the aunts and aunts also came. Everyone was more concerned about the boy's income and family situation.
I heard that my boyfriend is from Suzhou, and everyone thought the boy’s family should be well off. Someone asked Xiaoxin’s boyfriend how many houses are there in his family. They all said that the compensation for demolition in Suzhou is relatively large, so there should be a lot of houses. The boyfriend told the truth that the old house at home has not been demolished yet, so there was no compensation. His parents bought him a small house, and the family currently has two houses.
The conversation at the beginning was normal, and later it was about the bride price, marriage time, and how to get the wedding room? Every time Xiaoxin’s mother asked, Xiaoxin’s boyfriend said that she had to go back to discuss this with her parents, and that would have to be decided by her family. This time she came to her house mainly to listen to Xiaoxin’s parents’ opinions.
Xiao Xin's mother was a little angry when she heard this, saying that she had not discussed it with her family before you came.
Xiaoxin was anxious and winked, but her boyfriend still told the truth, saying that the family didn't know about it this time and thought it was going out for a trip?
Xiaoxin's mother was completely angry this time and turned against her on the spot, saying what happened to you two. Xiaoxin, you also said that his family agreed very much. If he agreed very much, why didn't he discuss anything with his family? Don't say anything, go back now!
Xiaoxin came back enthusiastically. Seeing her mother like this, she was heartbroken. She packed her luggage angrily and left with her boyfriend, saying that she would never come back, and other relatives could not fight.
I heard my colleague say the whole thing, but I couldn't speak for a long time. I also raised my daughter, and I might be able to understand Xiaoxin's mother's mood. It is said that girls are not allowed to stay, but in the end, they raise their daughter so old. If someone else takes her away casually, I will definitely not be happy. Moreover, if the other party's parents don't agree much, will my daughter be happy after marrying her?
Xiaoxin doesn’t understand her parents too much. The most taboo thing about marriage is to deceive her parents. Parents must consider their children’s position and worry about their children’s future happiness. It is normal for them to ask for some bride gifts and measure the other party’s family background. Xiaoxin’s last words, how sad it would be when she heard it.
Some people may say that children's happiness depends on their own efforts, but it is understandable that parents consider family conditions. After all, in the future, both people in must be based on a certain economic foundation, and it is also a marriage between two families, and the blessings of both parents are also very important.
Colleagues also said that Xiaoxin was too impulsive and should not hide it from her parents. Her boyfriend was not very capable. He should first do his parents' work and then consider coming to the door. He didn't dare to say anything, and he didn't take responsibility enough. He felt that both of them were a little childish.
This time, the door-to-door visit turned into a farce, and Xiaoxin's relationship with her family became stiff. Although parents definitely have no overnight revenge for their children, sadness is certain. We also reminded us of raising our daughter not to let the children bring their boyfriends to the house. If the parents of both parties do not communicate and the man comes rashly, the woman's children and parents will be injured in the end.
I don’t know if what I said is right, friends, what do you think?
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