Hiring a nanny to live with the elderly and finding someone to live with are the two ways of retirement for many single elderly people? So, which of these two types of elderly care methods is more affordable for the elderly? Mr. Xu, 65, told the truth: hiring a nanny to live in a retirement life is more affordable than finding someone to live with him. Mr. Xu, 65, gave five reasons.
1. No worries about hiring a nanny for retirement
65-year-old Mr. Xu said that the first advantage of hiring a nanny for retirement than finding someone to live with is that there is no worries.
Uncle Xu said that the elderly have worries about finding someone to live together. The first is the housing issue, the second is the issue of property sharing, and the third is whether the children will agree. Fourth, one party dies and the other party’s property arrangement. No matter which of these four problems breaks out, it will cause trouble for the elderly to have a peaceful life. Uncle Xu said that he had seen too many elderly people living together and ended up having a bad time, and some even went to court. However, if the elderly hire a nanny to support their elderly care, there is no need to be such trouble. Since there is no interest dispute, there is no worries.
Uncle Xu said that finding someone to live with him is the biggest trouble for the elderly and the root cause of worries.
2. Hiring a nanny to support the elderly brings the same experience
Uncle Xu said that when a person is old, it is nothing more than finding someone to share housework. This nanny is completely competent and can do better than a partner.
Uncle Xu said that he would find someone to live with him, so he would be a nominal couple. Since you are a husband and wife and have equal status, then the opinions you put forward and what you say can be agreed with or opposed to not implement them. Some partners with strong personalities may even contradict each other. Since you are in an equal status and equal position with your partner, she has reason not to do what you ask for. She can also ask you to do things as she asks. But hiring a nanny is different. The nanny will strictly follow the employer's instructions. Since the status of nanny and partner who finds someone to work with each other is different, the experience brought to the elderly is also different. Take housework as an example, a nanny is even more powerful than a partner.
3. Nanny can respect the elderly more than the partner
Mr. Xu said that since the nanny gets the employer's salary, the elderly get more respect from the nanny than the partner. As for nanny, as long as the elderly’s salary is paid in place and there is no excessive requirement for her, the nanny will be respectful to the elderly. But it is not certain to find someone to work with her. The partners ask for more. Not only are they financially and spiritually, but some partners also ask the other party to take care of her family, relatives and friends. Therefore, for nanny and partner, nanny’s requirements for the elderly are single and pure, but it is different from those with others. Her requirements are multifaceted, lifeless, and complex. Due to the diversity and infiniteness of the partner's requirements, it is sometimes inevitable that her requirements cannot be met. If the partner’s request is not met, it will be difficult to respect the elderly. Therefore, hiring a nanny to live in the elderly is more respectful than finding someone to live with.
4. The nanny will serve the elderly with all her heart, but it may not be necessary to find someone to work with
Uncle Xu said that if she is hiring a nanny, as long as she treats her human nature, she will serve the employer with all her heart, but it may not be necessary to find someone to work with her.
He said that he had seen such an old man who was his partner in the community. He finally found a partner, but he just wanted to have a wife to reduce the burden on his family. Unexpectedly, this partner not only did not do housework for him, but also asked him to do laundry and cook, either going to dance or going to the mahjong hall. This old man regretted it.
Uncle Xu said that if the old man hired a nanny, he would not have had such an experience.
5. The children of the elderly prefer the elderly to hire nannies instead of hoping that the elderly can find someone to live with them
Uncle Xu said that most elderly people nowadays have certain industries and certain deposits. Therefore, many young people do not want to see single parents marry or marry another. This not only affects the face of young people, but also their future interests.Therefore, many young people are more willing to hire nanny to support their elderly parents rather than find someone to get married.
For the sake of family unity, Mr. Xu said that hiring a nanny to live in old age is better than finding someone to live with him.
What do you think about Mr. Xu’s views and the five reasons he gave? Comments are welcome.
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