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I have seen a question online: What do men most desire to get from women?
The highly praised answer is: I most desire to get a feeling of being needed in her.
Nowadays, there are too many women who are becoming more and more independent. Whether they are in love or after marriage, they can do anything by themselves. When you ask for help from your partner, it is like losing all this.
But in fact, most men still hope to have a sense of existence in a relationship.
Especially when couples get along, the more women with these three qualities can be infinitely favored by men.
01: Know how to improve yourself and have the ability to master destiny
Even if you are already husband and wife, you are still independent individuals. If you want this happiness to stay forever, you must manage it with wisdom and ability.
Love is not as strong as you think. It requires experiencing various misunderstandings and quarrels, and facing many temptations.
Women who are truly cherished know how to improve themselves and have the ability to master their destiny.
Chen Xuan (pseudonym) and her husband are college alumni and have been in love for 5 years before getting married. Because she married far away, her parents disagreed for a while, but she still refused to do anything because of love.
There are many examples of marrying far away, and the ending of a woman is very miserable. Chen Xuan’s decision to marry her husband was not an impulse, and she did not place her hope and happiness on men.
She knows that her husband loves her sincerely, but even if they are husband and wife, she must work hard to live out herself in order to continue to have this rare relationship.
So, after marriage, she did not give up her career and ideals. After having children, although she could not continue working, Chen Xuan never stopped studying.
She is good at drawing and writing. As long as she has free time, she will take orders recommended by her friends. Although
is just a part-time job model, its income is not low. After the children could go to school, Chen Xuan opened her own personal studio, with only five employees at the beginning. However, in just two years, there are more than 30 new members.
When my husband encounters difficulties in his career and has no source of income, it is Chen Xuan who supports the quality of life in this family.
They have been married for almost ten years, and the relationship between husband and wife is still very sweet. Chen Xuan did not endure hardships because of her far away marriage, and eventually won the recognition of her parents.
A couple gets along, knows how to remind themselves, and women who can master the ability to destiny can always be loved by men.
02: Dare to express your needs and make your partner love yourself more
If a woman wants to have a way out, she should remain independent. When you have money in your pocket, you will not be so guilty.
However, if you dare not even express basic needs when getting along with couples, it is actually a manifestation of fragility.
The more inferior you are, the stronger you will be, but your heart is actually very eager to get the love and care of your partner.
Women who can be truly loved by men often dare to express that they need to be loved and cared for.
You taught you how he will love you. The more confident a woman is, she will long ago believe that she is worthy of being loved, especially after getting married, she will be more proactive in making requests with her partner.
When he doesn't consider your feelings, get angry when it's time to get angry, don't keep it in your heart; when he doesn't know how to be romantic and you want to receive a gift during the holiday, just tell him directly what you like to make him satisfy you; when you feel sad and need to be comforted and understood, you must also express this need bravely.
Women who dare to do this will eventually make men unable to live without themselves.
03: Have the ability to be alone, and will not bind your partner with love
From a psychological perspective, people need to be alone in order to carry out internal integration.
No matter how good the relationship between a couple is, there are times when they need to be alone. Those who are truly loved by men are often women with the ability to get along with themselves.
They will not use love to tie their partners, but know how to use time to do what they like.
Zhou Ting (pseudonym) lives very freely and has a few best friends around her, she is beautiful and has a job.
But every time as long as the partner cannot accompany them, the emotions of the best friends will become very fluctuating and they will not be able to get excited about anything they do.
But Zhou Ting never felt this way. Even if her husband socializes until late at night, she will not call to urge her.
She has the ability to be alone, and sometimes she even deliberately keeps a distance from her husband. At the moment when she wanted to be quiet, Zhou Ting didn't want to be disturbed by her partner.
Because of this, my husband loves her more and more and wants to be alone with her more.
The more a woman with these three abilities can be infinitely loved by men.
The rest of my life is long. I hope all women can love themselves and improve themselves. When your inner world is rich and free enough, love will not disappear.
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