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In interpersonal communication, there is a kind of person who thinks he is very smart but is actually stupid.
But no one will tell him about his stupidity. On the one hand, he will not listen to him, and on the other hand, others disdain to tell him because he has seen through him.
No matter what the situation is, it means that such a person has long lived a joke in everyone's eyes.
If you find that a person often has the following symptoms of lack of heart when interacting with others, then it is very likely that he is also a stupid person in everyone's eyes. I hope you don't have you, and I hope you don't meet him.
1: Can't control one's own mouth, always like to say bad things about others behind the scenes, giving people the feeling that the quality is extremely poor
Almost everyone has people around who like to say bad things about others. They never do things openly, but like to make small moves behind the scenes. Such people are destined to be villains who cannot get on the table.
They can't control their mouths and say anything irresponsible. When someone stops them, they will say disapprovingly:
"What I said is true. If you don't believe it, just act like I'm joking. Anyway, you will suffer the loss at that time. What does it have to do with me?" Is
such words very familiar? This is a typical example of slandering you behind the scenes of being good for you. Such people have extremely poor quality. No matter who they say bad things, they must be more careful, because they are not at all kind-hearted.
2: When interacting with others, they are not at ease with kindness, they always like to sow discord, and their character is extremely poor
The most important thing for interacting with others is sincerity and honesty. If you are not at ease with kindness from the beginning, you are always scheming and will only be looked down upon by others.
Those who like to sow discord are actually people who can’t stand others’ good things.
He breaks up the relationship between others and then he gains from it. He thinks that doing this is seamless, but one day things will be exposed, and he will not only return to the starting point, but also lose everything he was proud of.
After all, character is the basis of everything, if a character does not work, everything is zero.
3: Talk big talk, likes to brag and show off, consume your credit at will, do things unreliable and not worthy of trusting
There is a kind of person in life who always likes to talk big talk.
They like to brag about their abilities and connections, and also like to show off everything they have. When others express envy and admire him, he feels that his vanity is satisfied and he feels very happy inside.
But in fact, doing this is meaningless and will only dig a hole for yourself to jump. If you always exaggerate, when others believe it, it is when your trouble comes.
For example, you always boast about how wide your connections are. When others really ask you for help but you can’t help, big talk and lies will be exposed.
Only when others trust you will come to you. If you consume other people’s trust in you so irresponsibly, it is actually because you have a problem with your character and are unreliable in doing things. If others see through you, they will naturally stay away from you.
You think you are smart in speaking big, but you are actually stupid.
4: Don’t know how to reject others, be a bad person and soft persimmon who has no bottom line and can be slaughtered by others
Why do some people say that people are good and are bullied by others, and horses are ridden by others?
actually does not deny the importance of kindness to a person, but emphasizes that if kindness is used, it is worthless, because at this time, kindness becomes weakness.
Those who do not know how to reject others are just soft persimmons that are unblocked and can be controlled by others. They never dare to say a word, they do whatever others ask them to do, and they think they have a good relationship with others and are very needed. Little do they know that in the eyes of others, he is just a fool who is easy to bully.
Don’t be a soft persimmon, such a person is not kind-hearted, but stupidity in the eyes of others.
at the end:
Interpersonal communication is a compulsory course in our lives. If you want to have a good relationship with others, you must first have the ability to protect yourself. Only by setting your own standards, only by understanding what your principles are and where the bottom line is, can you avoid letting others infringe on you and use you at will.
Don’t be stupid in the eyes of others. Appropriate indifference and ruthlessness will make people look up to you.
After all, a person who doesn’t even know how to love himself will not love others, but will only be looked down upon.
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