Everyone’s life is busy, and every job is not easy. Some people have been mediocre all their lives; some people have lived a wonderful life.
Yes, how big is the difference between high and low efficiency life?
1. Seven Habits of Highly Effective People
A while ago, I was lucky enough to read "Seven Habits of Highly Effective People" by Stephen Covey .
1.1 Active and proactive
Active is actually a natural habit and a kind of education from the inside out.
As said in the Analects of Confucius, "A gentleman seeks for himself, and a villain seeks for others." Proactive people never blame others, but change themselves and strive to become a better self.
1.2 Start with the end
There is a saying, "Only by not forgetting the original intention can you achieve the end."
Yes, whether it is work or life, we must have our own mission and values. And we, no matter when, don’t forget our original oath.
1.3 The first priority
To be honest, there are many things to do every day, but you must always remember the first priority.
is right. No matter how many things happen, you have to divide them into one order. Just like myself, almost every day, there are messy things to do. But after sorting out the clues, everything became orderly.
1.4 Win-win thinking
Have you ever thought about what is the best result of being a person and doing things?
is actually a win-win thinking. People should learn to think from the perspective of and learn to think about others. Because, hello, I, everyone is well.
1.5 Know the enemy and understand yourself
Many books teach us how to communicate. The real essence of communication is to learn to listen.
Yes, listening is the most basic respect for the speaker. Only those who can listen effectively can communicate effectively. So, say less and do more.
1.6 integrated comprehensive effect
integrated comprehensive effect, which talks about everything, and there may be a third choice. For
pair, 1+1 is not only equal to 2, but may also be greater than 2. It’s like when everyone picks up firewood and the flames are high, but when there are too many people, the power is greater.
1.7 Continuously update
A person’s life is a life of continuous practice and lifelong growth.
Therefore, reading is a lifelong thing, learning is a lifelong thing, and growth is even more a lifelong thing.
2. Seven habits of inefficient people
In fact, compared. Inefficient people also have seven habits.
2.1 Passive and passive
There are always some people around you who blame others when they encounter problems; if they don’t go along with their own wishes, they will retaliate. In fact, this is a manifestation of passiveness.
2.2 aimless
aimless people don’t know what they want. Therefore, I never make plans or set goals for myself, and I will be a monk who hits the bell every day.
2.3 The final important things
Can't tell the order of the main and the order of things, and the most important things are put in the end, or even procrastination. For example, you reply as soon as your phone rings, but you never do something that is truly meaningful (such as reading).
2.4 I win if you lose. Thinking
People like this have you or not, and I don’t have you or not, and I can’t tolerate others in their eyes. They have to fight for you or lose if you lose. But in fact, everyone's existence makes sense.
2.5 Talk about it first, then listen to
There are always some people who don’t know how to respect others, and they always don’t listen to what others say, and they keep talking about it yourself. But talking is conducive to better discussion.
2.6 Becoming an isolated island
people like
are always self-righteous and think they are very outstanding. Not willing to work with the team. But people are people from society and can only go further if they are good at cooperation.
2.7 After using up all
work, there are very few people who can read and grow themselves. But really, the times are developing too fast, and even those who are beautiful and ugly should read more.
3. How big is the difference between high and low efficiency life
To be honest, there is still a big difference between high efficiency people and low efficiency people.
3.1 Microhabits have a big impact
Although these seven habits are all small habits, in the long run, small habits will have a big impact.
Let’s take the last habit as an example. This year, I have read 65 e-books and eight or nine paper books. Although it has not had much impact for the time being, it will still quietly change my life in the near future.
Just like this book, "Seven Habits of Highly Effective People", practice it with your heart, and one day I will bloom with a better self.
3.2 High-performance people have high-configuration life
Yes, only high-performance people have high-configuration life.
is like the outstanding people I know. Whether it is Mrs. Thatcher , or Miss Zhao Si ; whether it is Kazuo Inamori , or Stephen Covey; whether it is Chanel or the three sisters of the Song family.
Really, excellent people naturally have excellent reasons, that is, they have practiced the seven habits of highly effective people.
3.3 There are always ups and downs in life, but time will always move forward
To be honest, people with reading habits and people without reading habits cannot see the difference in a short period of time, but over time, it will be different. The same is true for the seven habits of high-efficiency people.
Therefore, no matter how bad it is, it is better to persist than to give up. Just like now, although I have not practiced it well, I still continue to practice it. I believe that one day, I will get better.
Finally, time will not cheat. The seven habits of highly effective people will eventually bring a more exciting life.
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