This is the 820th real person story we tell. My name is Luo Mei @Luo Mei. Come on, I am from Hunan born in the 1990s. A young and secret love in high school hurt my vitality, which led to not having a relationship for 8 years. From then on, he devoted himself to his work and succ

This is the 820th real person we tell

My name is Luo Mei

(at the time to take a photo in the company)

I was born in Shaodong, Hunan in 1993. I am the only child in the family, cheerful and lively, eloquent, and a little clever ghost in people's eyes. My mother used to be a tailor, and my father runs an electrical appliance store and is also good at repairing electrical appliances.

Dad speaks hesitantly and speaks very slowly. When arguing with others, he often cannot tell others. But he is kind. Sometimes when he walks on the road, he will be dragged directly to repair things, but he never refuses and often becomes busy until he is very late before returning home. My mother is very busy inside and out and doesn't care about me at all.

However, I have been very sensible since I was a child, and I have made up my mind to study hard. When I grow up, I will protect this home.

(a family of three pulls weeds in the field)

I have loved reading and writing since I was a child. I have read many famous Chinese and foreign works, and my Chinese grades have always been good. At that time, I liked to go to a stationery store in the town. In addition to stationery supplies and some tutoring materials, there was also a bookcase with many extracurricular books. I always hold the book and look at it greedily, and I can't bear to let go when it gets dark.

When I was in junior high school, my cousin was the school’s English teacher. Before the winter and summer vacation, I would list the book list and ask her to go to the library to help lend it out.

When you are alone at home, you are with books, allowing your thoughts to wander freely and be imaginative. I often think, it would be great if one day I could become a teacher, and read whatever books I want. I, with good grades in

, successfully entered high school. But unexpectedly, on the first day of high school, I encountered my love disaster, which caused me not to come out for many years.

(When traveling)

There was a tall and handsome boy in the crowd, and his heartbeat missed a beat at the first glance. In the days to come, I would always pay attention to him involuntarily and want to know more about him.

We are in the same grade, but he is on the second floor and I am on the third floor. Every day when I go to the second floor to go to the toilet during class, I always run to the door of his classroom and take a look.

He likes to play basketball. He can always be seen on the school basketball court, and his every move when playing basketball is very cool. I always deliberately detour to the playground and look at him from a distance.

I heard that their class was going to hold an basketball game , so I especially wanted to cheer him up. But there are only girls from their class in the venue. I feel embarrassed to get too close, afraid that I will be discovered by others.

So he quickly ran to the building opposite and came to the girls' dormitory on the 6th floor. He watched him play ball from afar through the window. At that moment, his heart was beating and his face was hot. I didn't even care. How would others feel about my sudden intrusion? I just lie down at the window and watch it.

(college tomboy dressed up)

The whole semester, I ran upstairs and downstairs every day, slowly getting to know him, but I was still very reserved, and I quickly lowered my head after saying hello. Sometimes when I meet him walking in front of me, I can't help but follow him far away. I feel shy all the way and my heart beats faster.

Later I began to approach him actively, hoping to attract his attention. Maybe he was not good at math and seemed a little inferior in front of him. After two years of high school, I became less and less confident.

has entered the college entrance examination sprint stage, and I am still not in the state. I accidentally found out that the class’s study committee member had liked him since elementary school, but later I got angry and ignored him because of a misunderstanding.

I didn't know what I was thinking, so I told him that the study committee member had a crush on him, but it turned out that they were together. When I saw them holding the same umbrella, I felt a thrust in my chest and my intestines were regretful.

(graduated from college)

Because I like him so much, I boldly wrote a confession letter before graduation. Unexpectedly, it spread in his class. When I went downstairs, the boys followed suit. I wanted to find a hole in the ground to crawl into it.

Since then, I have become less and less willing to date boys, and I dare not look directly at them. The cheerful and lively little girl once disappeared.

was also in a loss and performed poorly during the college entrance examination. Later, he repeated the study for another year. In 2013, he was admitted to a university in Changsha and studied finance major.

In college, I have always dressed up in neutral and rarely dated boys. That young secret love has always affected me, resulting in not having a relationship for four years.

During the summer vacation of my sophomore year, I started to come into contact with society and found an internship job. I worked as a financial management consultant in a newly established financial company.

(Travel to Tibet)

Although it was very hard to go out early and come back late during that period, through the internship, I also understood the risks of investment and financial management. The higher the return financial management project, the greater the risk.

When I graduated in 2017, I was still a little confused about the future, so I took the exam for various certificates first. The written test part of the teacher qualification certificate was also successfully passed.

In fact, at that time, I wanted to see this world and become a teacher. So I should first make the certificate exam more stable and then make a long-term plan in the future.

Four years in college, maybe affected by that secret love, I have not been very happy and I am relatively inferior. I feel that going out for a walk will be better, and then embark on a new journey with a new look.

Maybe this is a must-pass journey in my life! Because this trip directly determines my next employment direction.

(free time after work)

Because there was a group of like-minded young people there, one of them was a bank financial manager. She also studied finance. We were very close to each other and had endless things to say together. She is confident and firm in her heart and gave me a lot of encouragement and guidance.

We have seen the white clouds together and looked at the continuous snow-capped mountains. When standing in front of the sacred and majestic Potala Palace, the two little girls were extremely excited. When the Buddha's voice echoed in their ears, they truly entered peace in their hearts.

suddenly feels that the world is so beautiful, and beautiful things are always fleeting, including precious youth. So I decided to cheer up and try to live a whole new self.

Everyone says that Tibet is a pure land that heals people's hearts, and that's true. Because of this trip to Tibet, I have met many people who are cycling, hiking, or driving by themselves, all trying to save themselves.

(rewarded when working in a bank)

has also seen the most beautiful state of nature and felt the most powerful self-awakening in the world. So the cheerful and confident girl is back and begins to look forward to a new life in the future. After I came back from

, I actively participated in the wave of finding a job. At the beginning of the second year, I successfully entered a bank in Changsha to do retail business. Because of my previous internship experience, despite the pressure, I am still very confident in the face of my new job.

With the help of the team, I worked hard to practice basic skills and even kept muttering about eating and sleeping. Soon, the work improved, and the performance increased from last to third in the department and was awarded.

But the monthly death-seeking assessment quickly made me exhausted. So I plan to take advantage of the holiday to travel to Hong Kong and Macao and relax.

I originally wanted to relax, but I never thought that it made me feel bad because of forced shopping in a tour group, so I called the complaint number from the Hong Kong Consumer Association.

(Travel to Macau)

Soon the person in charge of the travel agency called me back. Not only did he have a good attitude, he also changed the tour guide.

Only then did I realize that the travel agency was actually affiliated with a large listed company. I originally only knew that it was doing real estate, but I didn’t expect it to involve all walks of life and has such a large territory.

It’s a coincidence that when I saw a financial recruitment information for it, I immediately made up my mind to try to challenge myself, so I immediately submitted my resume to the company.

then made full preparations for the job application and soon received a notice from the company. He was both excited and nervous at the time. I first took the written test and then participated in two rounds of interviews. Unexpectedly, I passed the exam successfully with my past resume and on-site adaptability.

Then I waited nervously for a month, and finally received the admission notice. I pinched my thighs excitedly, and it felt really hurt. In August 2019, I joined the company's finance department as I wished.

This is the 820th real person we tell

My name is Luo Mei

(at the time to take a photo in the company)

I was born in Shaodong, Hunan in 1993. I am the only child in the family, cheerful and lively, eloquent, and a little clever ghost in people's eyes. My mother used to be a tailor, and my father runs an electrical appliance store and is also good at repairing electrical appliances.

Dad speaks hesitantly and speaks very slowly. When arguing with others, he often cannot tell others. But he is kind. Sometimes when he walks on the road, he will be dragged directly to repair things, but he never refuses and often becomes busy until he is very late before returning home. My mother is very busy inside and out and doesn't care about me at all.

However, I have been very sensible since I was a child, and I have made up my mind to study hard. When I grow up, I will protect this home.

(a family of three pulls weeds in the field)

I have loved reading and writing since I was a child. I have read many famous Chinese and foreign works, and my Chinese grades have always been good. At that time, I liked to go to a stationery store in the town. In addition to stationery supplies and some tutoring materials, there was also a bookcase with many extracurricular books. I always hold the book and look at it greedily, and I can't bear to let go when it gets dark.

When I was in junior high school, my cousin was the school’s English teacher. Before the winter and summer vacation, I would list the book list and ask her to go to the library to help lend it out.

When you are alone at home, you are with books, allowing your thoughts to wander freely and be imaginative. I often think, it would be great if one day I could become a teacher, and read whatever books I want. I, with good grades in

, successfully entered high school. But unexpectedly, on the first day of high school, I encountered my love disaster, which caused me not to come out for many years.

(When traveling)

There was a tall and handsome boy in the crowd, and his heartbeat missed a beat at the first glance. In the days to come, I would always pay attention to him involuntarily and want to know more about him.

We are in the same grade, but he is on the second floor and I am on the third floor. Every day when I go to the second floor to go to the toilet during class, I always run to the door of his classroom and take a look.

He likes to play basketball. He can always be seen on the school basketball court, and his every move when playing basketball is very cool. I always deliberately detour to the playground and look at him from a distance.

I heard that their class was going to hold an basketball game , so I especially wanted to cheer him up. But there are only girls from their class in the venue. I feel embarrassed to get too close, afraid that I will be discovered by others.

So he quickly ran to the building opposite and came to the girls' dormitory on the 6th floor. He watched him play ball from afar through the window. At that moment, his heart was beating and his face was hot. I didn't even care. How would others feel about my sudden intrusion? I just lie down at the window and watch it.

(college tomboy dressed up)

The whole semester, I ran upstairs and downstairs every day, slowly getting to know him, but I was still very reserved, and I quickly lowered my head after saying hello. Sometimes when I meet him walking in front of me, I can't help but follow him far away. I feel shy all the way and my heart beats faster.

Later I began to approach him actively, hoping to attract his attention. Maybe he was not good at math and seemed a little inferior in front of him. After two years of high school, I became less and less confident.

has entered the college entrance examination sprint stage, and I am still not in the state. I accidentally found out that the class’s study committee member had liked him since elementary school, but later I got angry and ignored him because of a misunderstanding.

I didn't know what I was thinking, so I told him that the study committee member had a crush on him, but it turned out that they were together. When I saw them holding the same umbrella, I felt a thrust in my chest and my intestines were regretful.

(graduated from college)

Because I like him so much, I boldly wrote a confession letter before graduation. Unexpectedly, it spread in his class. When I went downstairs, the boys followed suit. I wanted to find a hole in the ground to crawl into it.

Since then, I have become less and less willing to date boys, and I dare not look directly at them. The cheerful and lively little girl once disappeared.

was also in a loss and performed poorly during the college entrance examination. Later, he repeated the study for another year. In 2013, he was admitted to a university in Changsha and studied finance major.

In college, I have always dressed up in neutral and rarely dated boys. That young secret love has always affected me, resulting in not having a relationship for four years.

During the summer vacation of my sophomore year, I started to come into contact with society and found an internship job. I worked as a financial management consultant in a newly established financial company.

(Travel to Tibet)

Although it was very hard to go out early and come back late during that period, through the internship, I also understood the risks of investment and financial management. The higher the return financial management project, the greater the risk.

When I graduated in 2017, I was still a little confused about the future, so I took the exam for various certificates first. The written test part of the teacher qualification certificate was also successfully passed.

In fact, at that time, I wanted to see this world and become a teacher. So I should first make the certificate exam more stable and then make a long-term plan in the future.

Four years in college, maybe affected by that secret love, I have not been very happy and I am relatively inferior. I feel that going out for a walk will be better, and then embark on a new journey with a new look.

Maybe this is a must-pass journey in my life! Because this trip directly determines my next employment direction.

(free time after work)

Because there was a group of like-minded young people there, one of them was a bank financial manager. She also studied finance. We were very close to each other and had endless things to say together. She is confident and firm in her heart and gave me a lot of encouragement and guidance.

We have seen the white clouds together and looked at the continuous snow-capped mountains. When standing in front of the sacred and majestic Potala Palace, the two little girls were extremely excited. When the Buddha's voice echoed in their ears, they truly entered peace in their hearts.

suddenly feels that the world is so beautiful, and beautiful things are always fleeting, including precious youth. So I decided to cheer up and try to live a whole new self.

Everyone says that Tibet is a pure land that heals people's hearts, and that's true. Because of this trip to Tibet, I have met many people who are cycling, hiking, or driving by themselves, all trying to save themselves.

(rewarded when working in a bank)

has also seen the most beautiful state of nature and felt the most powerful self-awakening in the world. So the cheerful and confident girl is back and begins to look forward to a new life in the future. After I came back from

, I actively participated in the wave of finding a job. At the beginning of the second year, I successfully entered a bank in Changsha to do retail business. Because of my previous internship experience, despite the pressure, I am still very confident in the face of my new job.

With the help of the team, I worked hard to practice basic skills and even kept muttering about eating and sleeping. Soon, the work improved, and the performance increased from last to third in the department and was awarded.

But the monthly death-seeking assessment quickly made me exhausted. So I plan to take advantage of the holiday to travel to Hong Kong and Macao and relax.

I originally wanted to relax, but I never thought that it made me feel bad because of forced shopping in a tour group, so I called the complaint number from the Hong Kong Consumer Association.

(Travel to Macau)

Soon the person in charge of the travel agency called me back. Not only did he have a good attitude, he also changed the tour guide.

Only then did I realize that the travel agency was actually affiliated with a large listed company. I originally only knew that it was doing real estate, but I didn’t expect it to involve all walks of life and has such a large territory.

It’s a coincidence that when I saw a financial recruitment information for it, I immediately made up my mind to try to challenge myself, so I immediately submitted my resume to the company.

then made full preparations for the job application and soon received a notice from the company. He was both excited and nervous at the time. I first took the written test and then participated in two rounds of interviews. Unexpectedly, I passed the exam successfully with my past resume and on-site adaptability.

Then I waited nervously for a month, and finally received the admission notice. I pinched my thighs excitedly, and it felt really hurt. In August 2019, I joined the company's finance department as I wished.

(build a duck shed in my hometown)

This is the company's highlight moment, with its stock price still high and rankings at the top at home and abroad. I'm really catching up with the good time.

is very glad that I have the opportunity to enter such a large company. Not only is the working environment here very good, but everyone is also positive and the working atmosphere is particularly motivated. After joining the company,

involuntarily entered a fast-paced state. Because the workload is there, it is impossible not to speed up the pace, so I learned and did it, just hope to get started as soon as possible.

Only one month after working, the company has several properties to open grandly on National Day, and obviously there are not enough staff. The property I work in is just the finance department. I worked for 10 consecutive days during the National Day holiday and almost treated the company as my home.

All employees are busy, and the company's performance has soared, which has caused a great response in society. Although it is hard, the company also has its own contribution in this gain, and I really feel very accomplished.

(night view of Urumqi)

In October 2020, the company sent me to Urumqi to support it. Because the property was not in sufficient staff to open the property, it could only be transferred from local branches. I also arranged an assistant for me. The young man was transferred from the engineering department and was one year younger than me.

He is from Guizhou, but he looks like a Uyghur. At the first glance, he couldn't help but say, "The eyes look like Uyghur, it's pretty."

A natural and objective evaluation made him think that I had a good impression of him, so that I had a later date. Only then did he realize that his grandmother was a Uyghur. He went to Guiyang in the war and did have Uyghur bloodline.

During that time, we fought side by side and worked until very late every day. He works hard, is very smart, and learns quickly. He cooperates with me and greatly improves his work efficiency. On his clearly contoured face, those fashionable eyes always looked at me gently, which was so beautiful.

(Experience game anchor)

just kept going like this for a week, and the Hunan branch suddenly wanted to transfer me to Yueyang in advance. I'm leaving so soon, I'm inexplicably reluctant.

The night before leaving, I went for a walk with him, and as he walked, he confessed to me. I had a good impression of him, so I agreed to try to date him.

After arriving in Yueyang, I was busy every day because the other 4 colleagues were transferred to the new property. I had to do the work of 5 people who were left behind. Although

is busy, fortunately, it is because of its strong business ability and no delay in the work related to the two real estate projects, but it is so busy that it has no time to have a meal.

One day, I suddenly received a takeaway. When I looked at my phone, I realized that it was he who ordered it for me from Urumqi. I felt warm in my heart.

(Opening an excavator in my hometown)

The young secret love in high school affected me for 8 years, and it is only now that I truly feel the sweetness of being missed. But I thought I could gain a long-lasting relationship, but I didn't expect it to come to an end soon.

Not long after, he told me that he was doing financial investment and invested all his savings. Later, I was so crazy that I used online loans to invest, which is absolutely undesirable.

I have been exposed to this type of financial management project, mainly to take advantage of investors' profit-seeking psychology and use high returns to attract investors, which is often very risky. At this time, I also realized that the other party was a stubborn and persevering person. No matter how he persuaded him, he insisted on not stopping.

Later, my parents also knew about his existence and firmly opposed our long-distance relationship. They also didn't want me to marry far away. In the end, the relationship ended in vain.

(photo videos in my hometown)

As I get older, my parents are also anxious. Someone introduced blind dates and will help me make an appointment with me as long as I am a local.

However, in the vast crowd, there is only one person who is compatible with me, so it is not easy to find him. But I am still looking forward to the arrival of a beautiful love.

The relationship has not been settled, and the work has also experienced a crisis. Affected by the epidemic, the company's sales shrank severely last year, with problems with cash flow and frequent risks.

I am in a financial position and I am a little worried.The company quickly adjusted its strategy and prepared to open up various financing channels. In addition to financial positions, other departments have financing performance indicators.

Since the internship, I have been exposed to various financial management platforms. In recent years, I have been paying attention to changes in the financial market and the ups and downs of financial management projects, but in fact there are great risks. So when my dad proposed to participate, I firmly disagreed.

(Downtown dusk)

In August last year, the financial crisis still affected the whole country. I secretly thanked my judgment and was more worried about my future. Everyone in the company is in danger, and some people around him have resigned one after another.

My heart is also full of ups and downs. Considering that there are many uncertainties in the job, I want to find another part-time job. Now that self-media is popular, I found a job as a game anchor nearby and went live broadcast every night.

In February this year, as I was worried before, I also received a notice of the company's suspension of work. Coincidentally, the anchor company also went bankrupt. So, physically and mentally exhausted, I returned to my hometown Shaodong .

has certain experience in self-media, so I opened my own account and usually record every tree and grass in my hometown.

After a period of time, I began to seriously think about my future employment direction. Education is an ever-changing topic, and being a teacher was also my dream since I was a child, so I decided to continue to pass the teacher exam.

(Every grass and one tree in my hometown)

Now, because I have a new goal and direction, I no longer complain about the past and injustice, and have begun to devote myself to the next round of struggle.

Although learning is hard and tiring, things that can make people better are often accompanied by various discomforts. Only by tearing down a safe haven and having no choice in life can you set sail.

5 years after graduation, I have experienced the workplace pressure of large enterprises and have rich work experience. Why should I be afraid of storms in the future?

Life is a journey of enlightenment while walking, and every step is accumulation and precipitation. come on! I believe that the future will surely create new glory!

[Oral: Luo Mei]

[Editor: Chicken Feather Cookies]

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