Author: Yiduo Picture: From the Internet 01 The success or failure of a marriage has many influencing factors, such as the ties between the original family, the discord between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the differences in parenting, etc. Men are afraid of marrying the wr

Author: Yiduo

Picture: From the Internet

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There are many influencing factors in the success or failure of a marriage, such as the ties between the original family, the discord between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, differences in parenting, etc. Men are afraid of marrying the wrong wife, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong man. Many men and women will have inexplicable panic before entering marriage, always worrying that marriage will become a shackle and trap themselves.

In fact, marriage is compared to the grave of love and repeatedly emphasize that "the wise man is not in love" is the vast majority of men and women who do not know how to manage and maintain their feelings. It is never the responsibility of one party to have problems in a relationship. However, they always focus on their partner and never realize their own problems.

Take the more typical brother-supporting demon wife and phoenix male husband as an example. If it were not for the indulgence of a man and repeatedly tolerating it, would a woman unconditionally use the income of a small family to supplement her parents' home? If it weren't for the impulse and love brain of a woman, would the phoenix man's trick be successful?

Couples need to be considerate, understand and tolerant of each other, but it does not mean that they should indulge in what each other does. Love can tolerate everything, but the premise is that there must also be a concept of right and wrong.

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Male reader Sheng Long left a message in the background: After waiting for 9 months, the National Day holiday finally came. I wanted to take advantage of this holiday to take my wife and children back to visit my father-in-law and mother-in-law, and help my wife's parents do some work in the field. Who would have thought that a holiday ruined a marriage he had worked hard for more than five years.

National Day holiday , everyone looked happy. Office workers finally welcomed the seven-day holiday, so they could indulge themselves, make an appointment with three or five friends, go out to play, and check in for a long-coveted food holy place. Of course, there are also some wanderers who are wandering outside, eager to return home, and it coincides with the busy farming season. They can take advantage of this time to go back to visit their parents in their hometown.

文1日本語 belongs to the latter. Because of marrying far away, his wife has not returned to her parents' home for more than half a year. Shenglong has always been moved and guilty about his wife's behavior of marrying far away. During this long holiday, he made plans early in the morning to accompany his wife to visit his father-in-law and mother-in-law.

Moreover, the father-in-law and mother-in-law also have farming in their hometown. This is the season for harvesting grains. The wife feels sorry for her parents in her hometown and wants Shenglong to go back and help. On the evening of the 30th, Shenglong, without caring about physical fatigue, drove his son and wife to the way home.

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The next day at noon, Shenglong and his wife finally arrived at their father-in-law's house. Before they could sit down and eat hot rice and drink tea, Shenglong was dragged to the field to work by his father-in-law. It was not until the evening that he finished his work. Shenglong, who was so hungry, saw three or four simple home-cooked dishes on the dinner table, his eyes shining.

However, before he could move his chopsticks, his father-in-law talked about his brother-in-law's marriage. Upon hearing the good news, Shenglong quickly sent a wave of "congratulations". Unexpectedly, his father-in-law's intention was not this. He directly asked Shenglong to buy a car that landed for 200,000 yuan to add joy to his son.

Hearing this, Shenglong dropped his chin. The car he drove now is only over 100,000 yuan, and he was reluctant to buy it. He asked him to buy it and give it to his brother-in-law. I am afraid that only fools will do things that are dedicated to others and are not good for themselves.

Before Shenglong could refuse, his brother-in-law answered again. "Brother-in-law, I have another requirement. My girlfriend's house needs a three-bedroom apartment in the city. You know, I have no job and I don't have money. Our parents only have tens of thousands of dollars in their hands. The down payment is not enough. You have to be responsible for this!"

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Shenglong really felt wronged. He didn't understand what his father-in-law and brother-in-law were thinking. His monthly salary was only 8,000 or 9,000 yuan, his wife did not go to work, and the children spent a lot of money to go to school. Since marriage, his wife always gave her parents five thousand yuan a month on the grounds that she could not do filial to her. But at this time, his wife did not help. Speaking with Shenglong, he stood on the side of his mother's family and accused Shenglong of being petty.

The wife also gave Shenglong advice and asked Shenglong to ask for money from his parents. Shenglong disagreed, so his wife threatened divorce and pushed Shenglong and her children out of the house.

On the evening, Shenglong held his crying son and the two returned to the car like "lost dogs". After calming down, she replied to his wife "Agree to divorce", and then went on a journey back to the city.

I have to say that sometimes, if you don’t encounter some things, you will never know how cruel the person next to you is. Like Shenglong, there are many men who are thirty and have a difficult life. People say that they are thirty years old. In fact, men at thirty cannot achieve great success in their careers at all, and their lives are still in a confused stage.

At this critical moment, women’s understanding and support are simply too important for men. However, some women do not understand the difficulties of men. For the sake of the so-called family, they blindly force their husbands and even use marriage as bargaining chips. However, this behavior will make men completely disappointed.