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If love can be controlled, then maybe there will be no such infatuated men and women in this world.
Love is often the least reasonable thing. Many times you can't control your emotions. Some people give you more and more conditions and good conditions, but you just can't be moved by them, while some people always bring you endless pain without any warmth. It's hard for you to control your feelings for him.
Fall in love with the wrong person at the right time and meet the right person at the wrong time. It is difficult for the relationship to be happy. The person you like doesn't like you, and you fall in love with someone you shouldn't love. These are things that happen from time to time.
Some people know that they cannot love and cannot get close to you, but you just run towards him involuntarily. For his sake, he did not hesitate to violate his moral conscience and became the person he once hated the most.
Maybe you meet a little earlier, and you will have different endings. When you meet, he already has a good person around him and has already formed a family, and you two are destined not to come together.
Some feelings may end up with a little effort, but falling in love with someone who already has a family is destined to be covered in scars in the end.
Some people have a broken-out attitude. They don’t want others to get it. They can only make themselves hateful. If you really love him and still want to be worthy of yourself, then you must not do this, it will not be good for you.
Don’t let yourself fall into
The affection we mistakenly think is actually just a temporary emotion. When we fall in love with someone, we often amplify this emotion infinitely and feel that we may never like someone like this in our life. But in fact, as time goes by, those who once thought they would love for the rest of their lives are eventually reduced to memories.
We are often easily moved by a person, attracted by his mature and steady temperament, and fallen by the light emitted by his serious work. Likes are always mixed with worship. You may just like his abilities, not this person at all.
is just a lot of time we often can't tell the difference, especially for some young girls who are still young, they are easily confused by mature uncles. In fact, it may not be love at all, but we just don’t know it.
If a mature woman realizes that she pays too much attention to men with a family, she may mobilize her rational side and use various methods to get rid of this trouble. Some young girls are easily blinded by love and do things that make them regret.
A momentary heartbeat is often easy to stop. As long as you plan to distance yourself from him, avoid private contact, and constantly remind yourself that the fact that he already has a family is really impossible to stop, leaving.
But don't let this emotion expand infinitely and let yourself fall into it completely. Not only did he not distance himself from him, he tried every means to get along with him in private. This will only make you more and more lost and difficult to look back.
must not show your feelings
There is a law in love, that is, a person can easily fall in love with someone who likes himself.
Think about it carefully, we may have all encountered such a situation. Originally, you didn’t pay much attention to a person, but when you know that he likes you, you may pay a lot of attention to him and can’t help but want to look at him more. I couldn't help but pay attention to his every move, because I understood, so I liked it.
When you pay more attention to him and understand him more and more, you may involuntarily develop a feeling, and the relationship between the two people will be closer.
When a person confesses his love to you, as long as the person is well-known in appearance and character, even if you don’t like him, you may agree to date him for various reasons. After all, no one will reject a favorable and a liking.
The beginning of a relationship may be just a person feeling moved at first, and when you express your feelings with the other person, only if the other person’s position is not firm enough, an emotion may be derived.
If both of you are single and you like someone, you can actively confess your love and pursue your relationship. However, if the other person is a family, you must forcibly suppress your emotions. No matter how much you like, don’t confess your love. Just hide it in your heart silently.
You didn't say it, he didn't know, he didn't pay attention to you, and you might forget it over time. Once you said it, the relationship may change its quality and develop towards the other extreme.
Must not fantasize about him marrying you and destroying the other party’s family
Some people can control their feelings. Even if they like him no matter how much they like him, as long as this relationship is immoral, they will not allow themselves to act beyond the boundaries.
But there are some people who know that they cannot do it. It is not wrong for you to fall in love with someone with a family, but if you don’t control it, you do some deviant behaviors. Then such behaviors will not be forgiven and you will inevitably be despised by everyone.
It is often not the fault of one person when married men and women come together. Both people have problems with their moral qualities, but the most hurt is often the other person's family. She has not done anything, but she has to bear the pain of being betrayed.
Two people have lost their moral bottom line and have done things that are despised, but they must minimize the harm to innocent people. They know that three should be shameful, but they are not restrained, without any guilt, but they still want to destroy other people's families. Such behavior is really unacceptable. In
" only thirty" Lin Youyou's behavior of provoking under the nose of Gu Jia is shameful. In " Xinju ", Feng Qianqian in " Xinju " faces her sister's case and breaks up the affairs of her and Gu Xin, and shamelessly says, "Even if he has a wife and children, I can still marry him." This is even more shameful.
Falling in love with people with families sometimes we can’t control it, but it’s too shameless to destroy other people’s families.
Love is uncontrollable. You can't decide when you will meet who you will meet, nor can you decide who you will fall in love with. No matter how many people you don't love, there will be no trace of touch. The person you love, even if he already has a family, cannot let you let go of that emotion.
Emotions are uncontrollable, but behaviors are controllable. You can say that you cannot change your feelings for a person, but if you do not control your own behavior, allow yourself to fall completely, or even do things that hurt other people's families, such statements will be too empty and it will be difficult for people to feel pity for you.
You play emotional games with married people, and you must be the one who is hurt in the end. Never expect the other party to have a slight connection with you, as his speed of turning against you will amazed you.
instead of breaking up the face in the end, it is better to stop the loss in time at the beginning, which will be beneficial to you.
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