is too much, so it is very necessary for us to understand the meaning of "beauty".
Xu Shen " Shuowen Jiezi " believes that beauty is a wise word.
beauty, the first article is found in Shang Dynasty oracle bone inscriptions. The beautiful ancient characters are like a person standing with a headdress, and the original meaning is to be beautiful and beautiful.
"Beauty" not only represents the beauty of concrete things, but also represents abstract meaning.
For example, describing a person with noble character is called "virtue". Beautiful things often give people a pleasant feeling, so "beauty" has a satisfying meaning. "beauty" is sometimes used as a verb to refer to praise; it also means to make it beautiful.
There are many of the most beautiful things in the world, but everyone knows that beauty is not so easy to get. It will inevitably take hard work and hardships from it. Even if it is short, it is something you want to have for a lifetime of struggle.
I will always remember the short-lived beauty, because it encourages me to have beauty only by working hard and giving.
The beauty of flowers does not lie in their shape and color, but in their fragrance and name.
For women, in order to have the fragrance of flowers and the charm of their names, in addition to their beautiful appearance, they also need to pay attention to the following three things.
01: Improve your own cultivation
A well-cultivated person, even if his appearance is not outstanding, can stand out from the crowd and be appreciated and loved by others.
" Book of Rites·Does of the Mean " records: "Nothing can be seen is hidden, nothing is visible, nothing is visible, so a gentleman is careful of his own."
There is no one who can show a gentleman's personality better than in those difficult to detect, nor can he show a gentleman's style better than in subtleties.
"Be careful of being alone", you can also be cautious when you are alone and consciously abide by moral codes.
Being cautious has always been a kind of self-discipline spirit pursued and advocated by ancient Chinese sages, and it is also a state of cultivation that should be achieved by improving one's own cultivation. As the saying goes, a gentleman is invisible when dealing with the world, and he is cautious about being alone.
Reading the predecessors, all people with noble character emphasize being cautious in their own self.
Eastern Han Yang Zhen decisively rejected it with the ten kilograms of gold sent by his old friend, "God knows, God knows, I knows, and I knows, what is ignorance."
Qing Dynasty When Ye Cunren left office, his subordinates politely declined to avoid others' eyes and ears and ears. In order to avoid the eyes of others, he immediately refused to give him a farewell gift while he was in the dark. He immediately said that "the moon is white and the wind is clear in the middle of the night. He was delayed by the poem "There is a small boat to send each other out in the middle of the night. I feel that you are more affectionate and return it to you, and I am not afraid of others and fear of yourself." This left the best example for " Gentleman Being Careful for Alone ".
Be a woman who is "calculating alone", has elegant and well-educated behavior and speech. Our charm is unique and unique, which is enough to make us wear a halo of charm and retain our partner's heart.
02: Follow yourself
Follow yourself does not mean that you should be completely self-centered. What you pay attention to is to emphasize is "be careful of being alone".
Be careful of being alone and be open-minded inside and outside. "Sincere in the middle and manifest outside, so a gentleman must be careful of his own."
A person who is cautious in his own solitary life can keep moral laws and disciplines in his heart and keep in his actions at any time and place. Even without supervision, he still does not exceed the rules or indulges, as if walking on thin ice or facing the abyss.
"The way to self-cultivation is nothing more difficult than cultivating the heart." Being cautious in solitude is a practice to overcome one's own. The most important thing is to keep one's heart clear and open inside and outside.
Only by starting from small things and details, diligently brushing off the "dust of thought", thinking more about "harm of greed", and often breaking the "thief in the heart", and ensuring no delusions inside and no delusions outside, can we not be confined to gains and losses, not be confused by fame, not be confused by false profits, and understand the right path of the mind, be respectful of virtue.
There is a proverb called, "Everything you desire is actually only lies in yourself." Only by paying attention to yourself can you become a better self and have more charm.
03: Create a sense of atmosphere
Ambient feeling is something that can make people aware of, affecting your inner activities.
Danish people believe that candles can create a warm and comfortable atmosphere. They especially like to light candles in the house, and they also put a lot of effort into the brightness, shape and fragrance of the candles.
creates a feeling that makes people immersed in it, which is the sense of atmosphere.
Different people have different atmospheres.
Finding a sense of atmosphere that suits you and learning to maintain your sense of atmosphere is the trick to maintain your charm.
Be careful of being alone and one must practice the right path and be consistent in one's own words. The story of "Chitting a wall and stealing light" is popular, and the poem "Who knew that every grain of food on the plate was hard to do" is widely circulated, but people rarely know that "Chitting a wall and stealing light" official Kuang Heng , after becoming the prime minister, took advantage of the omissions of the people in the fief to seek personal gain. The masterpiece " Compassion on the Farmer " was actually a cruel and extravagant official.
In important positions, they forgot the right way they should stick to, and their efforts to put them into vain for the rest of their lives, and their reputation disappeared for a lifetime.
Being cautious of oneself is closely linked to being cautious of one's care. The ancients said: "Do not do evil because it is small, and do not do good because it is small."
On the road to strengthening self-moral cultivation , we must never be lucky. We must always replenish "calcium" for our spirit and sound the "warning bell" for ourselves.
No matter what kind of job, no matter what position we hold, we must "The mind is not moved by the temptation of small profits, and the eyes are not dazzled by the confusion of the five colors" . Maintain a state of cultivation of being cautious and being cautious, and being innocent and doing things cleanly, so that we can be cautious as we start and move forward steadily.
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