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The most unforgettable love is not those illusory love words, but whenever you are the loneliest and scared, he is by your side to give you strength.
Many people may think that girls will only be attracted to rich and handsome men, but in fact we are all just ordinary people, and what we really need is the closeness between our hearts.
Men who make women unable to love usually have these two abilities, and they will always remember them even if they can't be a couple.
01: The ability to take on things. No matter how big the difficulties they encounter, he will stand in front of you first, making you feel safe
Gu Tingye in the TV series "Know or not", is a man with the ability to take on things.
Sheng Minglan At first, he fell in love with Qiheng . He has good conditions in all aspects, a gentle personality, and very talented.
can be liked by such an excellent boy. Even if she knows that the gap between them is too big, it will be difficult for her to get together. But she still wanted to do anything, but in the end Qi Heng still disappointed her.
Sheng Minglan knew Gu Tingye when she was a child. Her mother was framed and died of dysfunction.
She was only 6 years old at the time and was crying to look for a doctor on the street, hoping to save the lives of her mother and younger brother, but no one helped her, only Gu Tingye extended a helping hand.
Later, he also found a way to marry Sheng Minglan. No matter what happened after marriage, he would protect his wife, for fear that she would feel wronged and sad.
Before Sheng Minglan decided whether to marry Gu Tingye, Qi Heng also expressed his feelings, and he was wrong in the past.
But Minglan has long seen that Qi Heng has no ability to take on the job. As long as the interests of his parents are involved, he will give up on himself first.
However, Gu Tingye is different, the other party is willing to give up for her.
Gu Tingye understands Minglan's fear. What she wants is fairness, and every time he will try to help Minglan win this fairness in front of everyone.
Sheng Minglan finally decided to marry Gu Tingye. After becoming a husband and wife, they cherish and tolerate each other and live a very successful life.
Men that women cannot help but love usually have the ability to take on things, and they can give you the sense of security you really want.
02: Self-healing ability, it has very strong energy, which can not only heal itself, but also make you feel warm
Hemingway said: "Life always makes us bruised, but later on, those injured places will definitely become our strongest place."
What really makes women's hearts move are often men with self-healing ability. They have very strong energy, which can not only heal themselves, but also make you feel warm.
Girls' emotional ups and downs will be more fluctuating. When you are in love, as long as you give your true feelings, you will become worried about gains and losses.
When there is a conflict, it is difficult for girls to control their temper and will appear very willful.
Shanyi (pseudonym) has a very inferior personality and always feels that her boyfriend doesn’t love her enough and will make trouble. But no matter how she does it, her boyfriend has a way to heal her by himself.
He has very strong energy and clear thinking. Even if he encounters a big blow in work and life, his boyfriend can quickly adjust his emotions.
In addition, he is a boy who knows how to encourage others. Every time Shanyi is bound by negative emotions and feels that she is worthless, her boyfriend will praise her very seriously and take her to the sun to let her mind be free.
Although there was no fate with each other for some reasons, Shanyi still loved him deeply in her heart.
She never regretted meeting her boyfriend, but felt very lucky to have loved such a warm man at her best age.
Because of his appearance and company, Shanyi no longer feels inferior, but believes that she is worthy of being loved.
likes what Maupassant said: "People's fragility and strength are beyond their imagination."
Those men who have the ability to heal themselves will not be immersed in fragility, but dare to accept all unfortunate experiences and live the current life.
Most boys with this ability are very charming and are the most special in the eyes of girls.
The greater adversity a person can bear, the greater happiness he can bear.
Even if you are not very rich and not handsome enough, you will still have a lover who will never leave you.
What women really cannot forget is men who have the ability to take on things and heal themselves.
The meaning of love and marriage is not to get rid of loneliness, but to us who are born as humans, we need the mutual touch of our souls.
Especially for girls, the love they want is not a rich life, but just hope that in the moment when you feel anxious and helpless, there is a partner around you who can bring warmth to yourself.