First of all, let me declare that this article is for people who want to get married. If you are really a strong non-marriageism, it has nothing to do with you. ....
Many people are dissatisfied with the word "leftover woman", thinking that this is a belittlement of women and that there is no leftover woman, but I admit that I am a leftover woman.
Stop lying to yourself anymore. The reason why everyone has not gotten married is that the kind of people you want to marry look down on you, and you don’t want to look down on you? In fact, your confidence is given by those men who look down on you and lick you on their zodiac wire, but they really meet your ideals. They don’t want you at all. From this perspective, you are a woman. You can do it if you don’t want to. You can be backward compatible, but will you be backward compatible? You won't. So you are a long-lasting problem.
My understanding is: People should still have the courage to face some problems. When adults are adults, don’t let others talk about your flaws. If you don’t face your problems, you will never improve. As an older single woman, I know my shortcomings: I look average, work non-system, family conditions, and bad personality and temper. So, I have thought of a way out. First, either change yourself and improve yourself. But age is a flaw for women, and also looks. This is a genetic problem and cannot be changed. The only thing that can be improved is your own work, and things cannot be changed. The only thing that can be improved is your job, career, and change your personality and temper. Second, if none of the above can be done, then make some sacrifices on the conditions for choosing a partner to see if you can just put it in a little bit? After all, if you really want to get out of singleness and start a family, you have to make some sacrifices, because you have to pay the price to get something. Third, if you can’t do either of the above points, then give up this path completely, adopt a child, or make more money to support your elderly care, and stop getting involved in topics such as leftover women and men. Is this necessary? Isn't this a waste of time?
In fact, many women are stubborn, saying that men are more willing to get married, and men are the beneficiaries. This depends on what angle you look at. If a tall, rich and handsome man is willing to marry you, aren’t you the beneficiary? However, he is not a complaint, a rich and handsome man. Both men and women need marriage to stabilize their lives and gain a sense of belonging. If you don’t want a man you don’t find an ideal, you start scolding men for being low in basic terms. Isn’t this just passing the blame? As an adult, it is time to mature, and one's own responsibilities must be faced with it.
is OK, let’s get to the code here. This is my recent summary of my experience.
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