This was some time ago, a friend asked me, and she also asked her mother's question. Her mother answered that she asked her to take it! She said that in the past two years, she had to raise two children, pay the mortgage and car loan, and there was no money, so she just gave her brother 6,000 yuan. Her mother said directly, if you get 6,000 yuan, you don’t have to go back, I can’t afford to lose this person!
My friend asked me how much I took was appropriate, and she was satisfied with how much I took!
Tell the truth! I told my friend, how much dowry you will give to you during your marriage, and how much do you give to your brother as his wedding gift!
Friends smiled bitterly, saying that her mother did not give her a penny of the dowry when she got married, and she also left her 28,000 yuan of dowry money. This incident made her very embarrassed at her mother-in-law's house, because her husband's friends got married to each other, and had a house and a car!
Although my husband has never said anything about this kind of thing, my husband’s friends and wives despise her during the time of the friends’ gatherings, saying that her mother doesn’t love her at all!
can only say, look at how much money you have, and give it to your younger brother without affecting your life! My friend said that she took 5,000 yuan or what her mother-in-law gave it to her. Because her mother-in-law knew that she knew they had no money, she took 5,000 yuan to let her return her mother to her brother! But my mother didn't know how difficult it was for her to live!
friends said that if she sent the 5,000 yuan back, she would not go back to her parents' home in the future, and felt that there was no need to go back. Her mother really didn't love her!