"Elephant in the room" in English generally refers to all facts or feelings that exist shockingly but are blatantly ignored or even deny. In
songs, they usually describe a couple who have been together until they are speechless. When either party returns home, they feel as if they are far away from each other as if they are separated from each other.
The ultimate manifestation is that both of them clearly know that "that passionate love is dead", but they never mention it.
There is another saying, which is to use a house to describe the space for two people's feelings, like a contradiction in the relationship, and when the like (feeling) moves into the house, it is still a small elephant full of happiness and hope, growing up every day, but as time goes by, the small elephant grows into a big stupid elephant and can no longer come out. He has to come out, so he can only demolish the room (breakup, break up, divorce).
"Elephantin the room"
Sometimes the problem is in front of you but you pretend to turn a blind eye. Although it seems to be calm on the surface, in fact, we are the performances that outsiders watch. In our hearts, we have already said: I am me, you are you.
The house is the relationship between two people and the contradiction in the relationship. When the elephant goes in, it is just a baby elephant, but when people feed it to a huge size, the elephant can never come out again. If you want to let the elephant go, you can only demolish the house.
"Elephant in the house" actually describes perhaps the most common and common thing in emotions, that is: couples begin to get tired of each other and become unwilling tolerate each other, but they don't have the courage to separate.
In this case, the emotions of both parties become the elephant in the room. The room could not tolerate this elephant, as if I was already very distressed, and I couldn't tolerate it, but I still didn't dare to speak to others and I had to force the door to close...
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