A 37-year-old Yunnan lady asked me to chat with her and told me her brief views on 35+ unmarried must-married girls. If you don’t like it, you can’t complain, you can’t feel strong inside. Sister Li Xue told me that in fact, many girls don’t think they will delay to 35+ at all. A

A 37-year-old Yunnan lady asked me to chat with her and told me her brief views on 35+ unmarried must-married girls. If you don’t like it, you can’t complain, you can’t feel strong inside.

Sister Li Xue told me that in fact, many girls don’t think they will delay to 35+ at all. At the beginning, many people pursued them in their 20s, and they have been blind dates. But I really don’t want to make a living. Some of them, like Miss Li Xue, are very willing to start looking for a potential stock to live in a pre-sale house, but later it turns out that I have a small situation. I used to have too many blind dates than my own family, and I was also kind to my wife. At least this is the case in my circle of friends, which is to give me a one-carat diamond ring on my third anniversary.

Some boyfriends who are in their 20s who have not yet got married have very good conditions. They make their own decisions. After breaking up, they do not mean that they still remember their ex-boyfriend, but if they find someone who is not as good as their ex-boyfriend, they will feel disgusted.

Sister Li Xue’s problem is that it is too ideal. She wants a man who is both spiritual and world and material. In fact, this idea is correct, but it is difficult to implement. After all, Miss Li Xue is an ordinary girl, not beautiful and not eye-catching. The ceiling is there. She has talked about boys with similar interests, but she doesn't like her.

It took a long time to delay. Year after year, blind dates gradually decreased, and the chance of success of blind dates decreased sharply, becoming that you were not favored by the other party. This thing is impossible for you to have been in your 20s. There was a blind date partner who said he would rather divorce than those who were 35 years old and were not married yet, saying that women like Li Xue’s sister are not normal. There is no way, you are on the third line, and the man you match looks at you like this. Don’t talk about struggle, just shake your head and leave. They are all cool online articles. Just like thorning your weak places, you will suffer without any other.

In this process, I was actually unwilling to admit it, but I raised my head and felt that I didn’t want to give it to myself. However, in real life, there was no one waiting for me to give it to me.

Gradually, in this process, I found that the man close to me was the type I looked down upon when I was 20 years old, and I must have had a flaw. This flaw hindered his original marriage range, so I looked for myself. This is how Sister Li Xue’s ex-boyfriend is, 7 years younger than her, a man without a house, and is a native of a trap. She thinks that if she is with Sister Li Xue, she can have an homestay, , and she can have a luxurious decoration house in a good location. Moreover, Sister Li Xue’s parents can also help herself. Sister Li Xue knew it well, but she was lonely.

Yes, we talked about loneliness. The past two years have been better. In the past few years, too many people like to show their love, so they are alone. There is an interesting reality, that is, you are 30 years old and everyone asks, "How are you doing recently?" When you see you who are unmarried, you like to ask, "Are you still the same person now?" In addition, I can’t speak to my married and children’s friends, and there are really not many people who understand me. The night is long and it’s long, so it’s easy to accept the so-called warmth of a man who is frustrated.

flawed man is to let you go back to the feeling of being chased at the age of 20. He will run far away to buy the flower cakes that Sister Li Xue likes to eat, and will queue up for several hours to accompany Li Xue to eat in the internet celebrity hotpot restaurant, just to accompany you, but this emotional value is really valuable. Everything is waiting for the girl to be soft-hearted, and add that thing. A bad boy will say he will not protect him. He will have a baby when he is pregnant. If you are confused, you will get married.

Many girls, in addition to their parents, have grown old, because after the 1980s, if they are 35+, their parents are actually 60 years old, and a watershed will come. Various problems, and doubts about their children. Are they really planning to DINK ? In fact, it is uncertain that I still hope that there is a child who can support me in my old age and see me off. It is difficult to get rid of this idea.

Sister Li Xue will break up with her deliberate ex-boyfriend. The family introduced a blind date, a flat-headed man, a shorter person, but he was calm, had a high education, and had a full-time wedding room. The combination of the two was more in line with a mutually beneficial marriage. It’s also considered that God is open-minded, and having children is not that difficult, and he is currently living a pleasant life.