Recently, a student told me: "After getting married to my husband, I neglected to manage my body shape in order to take care of my family and children. At first, my husband could understand it. As time goes by, my husband gradually lost his patience and became less and less attra

Recently, a student told me: "After getting married to my husband, I neglected to manage my body shape in order to take care of my family and children. At first, my husband could understand it. As time goes by, my husband gradually lost his patience and became less and less attractive to my husband. "

At this time, I want to remind this student, When your husband has no newness to you and is curious about the colorful world outside, you have to be alert. At this time, you have to learn to keep your love fresh .

Today, the talented man will talk to you. The life of a couple is too dull, how can you keep your love fresh?

. Create more time to live with each other

When marriage is long, many women will ignore the maintenance of their relationship in order to take care of their families. . Housework has consumed most of the energy of women, and she no longer has time to think about other things. But no matter how well you do the housework and clean the bathroom, your long-term habit will make your husband take it for granted.

Day after day does not mean that your relationship is very healthy. The length of time spent between couples does not mean that this coexistence is effective and high-quality.

actually has a lot of time to spend together, but there is very little time to be truly effective. Here we will mention an quality time .

Quality time means? It means the exclusive time you spend with men without interruption. This is your chance to get together and have a conversation.

For example, you can wait for your husband to come home from get off work, and the two of them will go to the vegetable market to buy vegetables hand in hand, cook together, discuss who will wash dishes after dinner, and recall happy times and sweet words together to keep their relationship warm.

Two people can also go out for a trip and go to the place where they date for the first time. On the way, they tell each other about the appearance of the two meeting for the first time, so that love can go back to the beginning.

. Become the way men like

Some women become domineering and strong after getting married because of their personality problems. They often lose their temper with their husbands, think that other people's husbands have achieved success and fame, think that their husbands have accomplished nothing, and many things are not done well, and they always shout and beat and scold.

Comparing your husband with other people’s husbands is worried about gains and losses. Many students will have this habit, so should not blindly compare . Blind comparison not only brings trouble to yourself, but also damages your husband's self-esteem. Never let others interfere in your marriage life, as this will disrupt the direction of your marriage.

What men need in depth is a male dignity. Every man has a sense of pride in his heart. When they get along with others, they will show the best side of their ability to the other party, so that the other party can recognize him, believe him and even admire him.

Only when his sense of superiority and identity are satisfied, he feels that he has gained the affirmation and respect of others. This feeling is incomparable to .

For example, when the husband changes the light bulb at home, his wife sincerely applauds and praises her husband, "Husband, it's really impossible to do without you in this family." At this time, the husband's sense of superiority and identity are satisfied, and he will love his wife more and his marriage life is more harmonious.

When a man is satisfied at home and gives men a male dignity, marriage is unbreakable.

3. Learn to create surprises and romance in life

Love is different from marriage. The flowers before and after love are in a sharp contrast with the food, rice, oil and salt after marriage , which will disappoint many couples and then neglect each other. Marriage cannot always remain passionate, but we can create some surprises and romance for ordinary life.

A student suddenly had a power outage at home, and the community did not notify him in advance. Seeing the darkness of the house, my husband was still working outside and didn't come home. At this time, his stomach started to scream again. I can’t cook dinner even if the power is out, so I can’t wait like that.

At this time, she suddenly remembered that there were two candles in the drawer. She fumbled all the way to find the candle and lit the candle. Why not have a candlelight dinner? She did it as soon as she said she wanted to do it. She felt that she hadn't been romantic with her husband for a long time, so she took this opportunity to be romantic tonight.

She was still a little inexplicably excited. So while her husband hadn't come back, she went downstairs to buy cakes, pastries, and various fruits, then took out the red wine that she hadn't finished last time at home, and even changed into a suspender skirt, thinking about the chance tonight was sweet.

Everything was ready, the door was opened, the student's husband came back, and from his surprised expression to a happy smile, she felt that all this preparation was worth it.

There are always various situations in life. We should not complain, but think about how to make our life more romantic and surprising . Elevator, movie theater, park, private car... Every hug and every kiss is a romantic journey, we should learn to create romance!