The reader wrote to me and said:
Due to work needs, I go on business trips once or twice a month. Most of the time, on the way back, I will report to my wife for the time to go home.
A few days ago, I finished my work and finished my meal with the client. It was already past ten o'clock at night. I originally planned to stay in the business city for a whole night and go home early the next morning. However, suddenly I missed my wife and son very much, so I decided to take the latest train back.
did not inform my wife in advance that I was going home, so it was already past three in the morning when I got home. At this time, my wife was already asleep (my son was in elementary school and had his own room). At this time, a "snoring sound" came from my wife's phone. It was recorded secretly by my wife when I snore.
At that moment, I admitted that my nose was a little sour.
I remember when my wife and I got married, my wife often said to me: Husband, your snoring sound is a bit "heavy". At that time, in order to take care of my wife's emotions, I often waited for my wife to fall asleep before I dared to sleep. Unexpectedly, after so many years, my wife has not only adapted to my "snoring", but she can't even hear my snoring, and she can't sleep well.
Perhaps, this is how couples are: they have adapted to some of the other party’s shortcomings without realizing it.
The next day, my wife woke up before me, and then she went to work. In front of the dining table , I left me a message: Husband, I'm going to work, there is a breakfast left for you in the kitchen. Remember to eat breakfast after getting up.
My wife and I have been married for more than ten years. Although we no longer have the so-called "big romance" between us, we can still have each other in our hearts.
I feel very lucky and very happy to be able to marry my wife.
Maybe, the happiness between husband and wife is often reflected in the trivial matters of life.
Muzili Emotional analysis:
I believe that for anyone, they will always feel that life is particularly boring at a certain period of time; they will also feel that they are the darling of life at a certain point in time.
The reason why our emotions "float" may be because life often interprets simple repetitions.
This is how life seems to be dull, but you can feel the meaning of life.
After being together for a long time, there may be less verbal communication, but it will reveal each other's concern between the lines.
All marriages in the world are like this: as long as you keep thinking about each other, you will feel the happiness of the marriage at some point.
I hope that all the people in the siege can cherish the seemingly repeated life every day: it may be a great happiness for couples to be together forever.
In fact, many husband-and-wife relationships can think of each other in their hearts without betrayal and are willing to make corresponding contributions to taking care of each other's feelings, and the relationship between husband and wife will develop in a healthy direction.
In the process of managing a marriage, you might as well be less picky and criticized, and more effort, affirmation and trust, and the relationship between husband and wife will show a different scene.
(The picture is from the Internet, the picture is irrelevant)
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