In love, many men have requirements for women, and always feel that women have some bad habits or things that make them dissatisfied with. Men really hope that women can correct them, so they keep asking for women.
In fact, love is a very wonderful thing. Both of them grew up in the same environment since childhood, but when they reached a certain age, they sparked love.
Because I grew up in different environments before, the personalities of the two people will also be different, which leads to the phenomenon that I ask the other party and the other party still asks me.
When you ask others, some misunderstandings will definitely arise, and the relationship between the two people will also face some setbacks or even breakdowns.
In life, there are some men who do not ask for women. Such men are truly capable men, but there are too few such men.
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Women have their own abilities, so they don’t rely on men
There are some women who are their own, especially those who are capable. So when a capable woman is with a man, men rarely ask for this woman because men have more respect for this woman.
And the man also saw the shining points on the woman, so he felt that the woman was impeccable, so he did not ask for the woman.
At this point, it can be seen that women are capable, so men cannot find faults. It can also be said that men see the highlights of women and know how to appreciate women, so they do not ask for women.
An excellent woman needs to be appreciated by one person. If a man does not know how to appreciate a woman, even if a woman has some advantages, men will feel that these advantages and disadvantages of this woman are all disadvantages, so they will continue to ask for women.
A truly amazing man is often a man who knows how to appreciate his wife. After seeing that his wife has some advantages, he must keep these advantages in mind, rather than nitpicking after seeing that his wife has some shortcomings, making the family uneasy.
Looking at your wife with an admirable look, you will feel very happy, your wife will feel very happy, and the relationship between the two will get better and better, and excellent men will do this.
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is very rational about love, so you don’t deliberately ask for
In fact, a man likes to ask for a woman when he is in his 20s or teenagers, because men are not so rational in love, and always feel that the two people need to get along better and better together, so at this time, we must ask for women endlessly, hoping that women can change.
But when a man reaches a certain age, he will find a problem:
"The country is easy to change and his nature is difficult to change."
When you think about changing a person, when you ask others all the time, others will feel very tired, and your own status in the minds of others will become lower and lower, because you make others feel particularly tired, so women's views on you will become worse and worse.
A mature man will not think about asking for this woman every day. In this way, it will only make the relationship between the two more unstable. A great man will never ask for women childishly, and even ask for whatever kind of clothes a woman wears. This is a kind of constraint on women's freedom.
A mature man is an amazing man, and he also knows how to think from the perspective of others. If this woman asks for a man, then the man will feel very tired, from hair to heels, which is like a shackle for a woman.
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has your own things to do, and I am too lazy to care about women
There are some men who are particularly amazing in their careers, so they never care about women. This kind of career achievements make men's psychological state very satisfying, so they will also have a broad heart when looking at things around them.
At the same time, men have their own career to do, so they don’t have so much time to ask for their women. Such men devote themselves to their careers, and their careers will flourish and become the man that everyone envies. At this time, women will also become the woman that everyone envies, because women have a very powerful man.
Those men who ask for women all day at home actually do not take their careers to heart. The greatest ability of such men is to demand women, but they have no improvement at work. They are the king of their wives at home, but when they are outside, they are indeed the object of looking down on others. Then such a man is a man without ability.
0 Episode 1, we must leave our best temper to the people at home, we must be tough when treating outsiders, and we can bow our heads at home, but we must be arrogant when treating outsiders, and we must let others see our pride and our abilities.
Such a smart man understands this and will do this. He will not put all the requirements on women to find a sense of existence, but instead opens up a new world outside and then comes back to share with women.
When women look for men, they must keep their eyes open and find a man who is good to them. Don’t find men who are nitpicking to you all day long and think you are wrong with such people. You will feel that getting married is a mistake.
At the same time, as a woman, you must be a good wife and mother. No matter what a man does, you must discuss with the other party. When a man fails, he must be with the man, and when a man succeeds, he must remind the man at all times.
The couple is mutual. Only when the two work together can the family get better and better and their lives become more and more exciting.
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