Text/Xiao He Social Theory (Original in this article, plagiarism is prohibited)
Title: A man gets married as a son-in-law, step on a cake and lets his elders comb his hair, and he feels reluctant to leave his tears on the spot
Everyone has to face the pressure of finding a partner to get married after reaching the right age. According to Chinese customs and traditions, men usually marry women.
But there are always exceptions in everything. In real life, there are also men who marry into their families and become son-in-laws. This is also called " back-end " among the people.
However, this situation is rare. It is often only for some men with poor family conditions who choose to marry into a family because their family is not able to marry a wife. If they want to get married, they can only choose to be a son-in-law.
Recently, some netizens shared a video of the groom getting married, but unexpectedly it caused heated discussions online.
It can be seen from the video that the groom is holding a wedding ceremony before getting married. He was sitting on a stool, stepping on the pastry with his feet and letting his elders comb his hair.
Perhaps because of the thought that he was about to leave home, the groom was filled with reluctance and couldn't help but burst into tears at the scene.
Looking at the groom crying and wiping tears, the onlookers at the scene did not laugh at him, but instead looked solemn, as if they could feel the groom's mood at this moment.
Compared to the sad atmosphere on the man's side, the woman seemed very happy. The bride, accompanied by the bridemaid, walked down from the upstairs with a smile on her face, wishing she could marry the groom home as soon as possible.
As expected, after changing positions, both parties' mentality changed significantly. If a normal man and a woman marry, then the bride must be crying at this time. After all, after marriage, she will come to her husband's house to live, and there will be fewer opportunities to meet her parents in the future.
But now that the groom is married, she doesn't have to go to her husband's house, but can continue to live with her parents, so of course the bride will not feel sad.
But even if you are happy, you should also restrain yourself in such occasions. When the bride saw the groom crying, she did not continue to laugh, but stood beside her obediently.
To be honest, in today's era, men are really easy to be laughed at by being son-in-law. In the eyes of many people, this is an act that hurts self-esteem.
But in my opinion, the meaning of marriage is not the so-called person marrying whom, but whether you have met the right person. As long as you really like to marry into a married woman, what's wrong?
, and getting married is not without benefits. First of all, it saves a lot of money for the man’s family. If there is no option to intervene in the family, some people may not be able to afford to get married in their entire lives.
So you have to learn to think about from the perspective of everything, because everyone's situation is different, and only what suits you is the best.
Seeing this, someone will definitely say that it is difficult to be a son-in-law at home, and he has no right to speak at home, and his father-in-law and mother-in-law will not be as good to his daughter-in-law as his parents-in-law.
I just want to say that everything is to exchange people's hearts for others. As long as the son-in-law treats them well enough, I believe that the father-in-law and mother-in-law will not deliberately make things difficult for him. After all, who will have a good life? But, do you have to go to to to destroy his daughter's family against his son-in-law?
What do you think about this matter? Welcome to comment and forward!
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