In September, I decided to resign for various reasons. I didn’t work before the New Year and prepared to give myself a chance to start a freelancing career. At present, I position myself not to sell anxiety, but to work hard for tomorrow.

htmlIn September, due to various reasons, I decided to resign. I didn’t work before the New Year and prepared to give myself a chance to start a freelancing career.

Currently, I am positioning myself as does not sell anxiety, just work hard for tomorrow . Although I have anxiety, fear, and worry that my sharing will not be liked; but if I decide, I must persist and shine my own light; I hope that during the Chinese New Year, I can come to report good news to everyone.

The following is my September summary.

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①TED speech

1. "The 20-year-old time will not come again"

" Grasp your 20-year-old adulthood, accumulate some identity capital, use your weak connections, choose your family, and don't be defined by things you don't know or have not done yet. Your present determines where your life will go. "

2. "Don't let anyone disrupt your life rhythm"

" Only after you get a degree after you are 25 years old, you are still worthy of pride; if you don't get married at the age of 30, as long as you live a happy life; if you get a family after you are 35, it's okay; if you buy a house at the age of 40, there is nothing shameful about it; don't let anyone disrupt your own life day "

3. "Girls should be brave, not have to be perfect"

"If we encourage girls to challenge themselves instead of admiring perfection, then women will solve more problems and inspire more creativity. "

" Let them know that they are loved and accepted not because of perfection, but because of courage."

4. "How to Realize Your Ambitions"

"Dissolve those grand ideas, complex ideas, and huge tasks into smaller and more controllable tasks; at the same time, make slight adjustments to the process to increase your probability of success."

5. "How to Control Your Free Time"

"Time is a choice; we say "I don't have time to do it" does not mean that "this matters" or "I don't want to do it". "

" We do not create the life we ​​want by saving time, but first create the life we ​​want; then time is automatically saved. "

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②September movie list

1. " Little Prince "

"If we don't traverse the world, we don't know what our spiritual and emotional sustenance is. But once we traverse the world, we find that we can no longer go back to that beautiful place. When we start seeking, we are already lost. And we don't start looking, we simply have no idea that all this is so valuable. "

2. " Legend of the Dragon "

"After planning is for people, success is for heaven", there is another sentence "thing is for people".

3. " The bottom hot girl "

"Don't say that there is no chance, don't say that everything is fixed, before the final result comes, we only need to determine one thing: those who have ambition will succeed."

4. " Big Events in Life "

" Life is like a book, it will turn to the last page, some people will end up, and some people will end up with ellipsis . Fame and fortune are passing by. Life eliminates death, and there is no big deal! "

③September documentary

" If the national treasure can speak " has been watched the first, second and third seasons.

"We came to the world crying, but we can smile and walk towards eternity. "

" At this moment, the horizontal, vertical and vertical strokes we wrote were once engraved on the bones with strokes, and because they are engraved, they are in mind. "

" The etiquette is called summer; the beauty of the clothes is called flowers. "

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: September reading

1. " Mountain Moon Record "

"I am very afraid that I am not a beautiful jade, so I dare not think hard, but I half believe that I am a beautiful jade, so I refuse to mediocrity and be with the rubble. "

2. "Mr. Toad Go to see a psychiatrist"

" No criticism is stronger than self-criticism, and no judge is more harsh than ourselves. ”

3. "The Courage to Being Hate"

"Your misfortune is your choice. "

1. I recently became obsessed with the TV series " Please " and I was so impressed at first glance that I didn't care about anything. I had to restrain myself later.

2. I insist on practicing calligraphy every day.

3. Post WeChat headlines every day and write a hundred-day plan.

4. Learn to cook and organize the room.

5. Pick up and drop off children to and from school every day.

6. Read bedtime stories to my son before going to bed every day and learn 4 Chinese characters.

7. Practice 2100 jump rope with my son every day. I didn’t jump continuously a few days ago, but now I can do it. I have achieved success [applause]

8. Exercise every day; or skip ropes, or hula hoops 500, or run [light up the peace lamp]

9. Classify articles in the headlines by collection, which is easier for fans to read.

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In October, I roughly want to do the following things:

1. Register Xiaohongshu , insist on daily updates, at the beginning, the goal is: 100 fans; WeChat headlines, try to make daily updates, the goal is: increase 100 fans; I will go with the flow of the public account ⭐️

2. Read 3 books

3. Watch 4 TEDs, enrich your understanding of

4. Watch the variety show "Hello, Life" and excerpt those beautiful CCTV copywriting.

5. On National Day, I plan to go back to my hometown in the countryside to see the newly built house. My nephew has never seen him since he was born. My son is also looking forward to seeing his younger brother❤️

6. After returning from October 1, I have to work for another 2 weeks to do the final handover work, and then I officially resigned. This company has been in the company for 4 years, and I have also led the team with me, so I am very reluctant to leave.

No matter how reluctant I am, I always have to move forward. I have been paying attention to freelancing before, but I have been dragging it out. Now I don’t plan to go to work until the New Year, so I just give myself a chance to try a different life.

"You can't always drag it off like this. One day , you will have a lot of things to do, and the rest of your life is not enough." - Remi Bezansong

Come on, let's set sail together in October and cheer for your dreams. [Light up the peace lamp]

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