There is a book called "I won't do some things now, and I won't do them in the future." The first time I saw this sentence was the title of a song on Mayday's album. Song asked: "What reason do you have not to do things?" Hot blood reminded us not to be dragged down by various small reasons.
This book gives us about 80 gentle suggestions, allowing us to make some changes in our still rich life without destroying the beauty that has always existed but has been ignored in our lives.
In fact, most of the suggestions in the book are small things in life, but we often can't remember them, don't want to do them, and dare not do them. It’s as simple as cleaning the wardrobe and refrigerator, repairing old things, and organizing old photos; things that you feel with your heart, such as being alone in the dark, watching the flowers bloom, traveling aimlessly, regaining emotional connections with others, such as picking up a pen to write to others, walking with your parents, visiting old friends, etc. Most of them are not out of reach. Most ordinary people can realize the part you want to change by just seizing the opportunities and time you still have.
page by page after reading the small things in life reminded by the author, carefully measure your own living temperature. There are some things I have already done, and my heart is filled with joy and gratitude; there are some things I really know I should do, but I always procrastinate. I hope I can really make up my mind to achieve them. There are some things I once wanted to do, but I didn’t have the courage to put them into action. After reading this book, can I really throw away the reasons that bind myself and bravely execute it? The most inspiring article in the book
is what the author says, "From today, forget someone or something that has bothered you for a long time." I immediately remembered the people and things that have been bothering me recently. I know that these recent worries should be solved quickly or lightened, but seeing this article at this moment reminds me whether I can do something to make my life less passive and make my mood independent.
is really not easy to forget. So you must do something to gradually lose your strength when you have been struggling with the troubles in your heart.
We can write a letter, make a phone call, or throw away something. You can also do anything to solve this problem, give a small gift, make a decision, and tell others how you really feel. This problem may have bothered you for many years, and you may never see this person again, but it doesn't matter. His reaction is not the focus, your mood is the focus. Make up your mind not to be hindered by this matter and wave goodbye to it formally.
"His reaction is not the point." I think I finally found the crux of the problem. We dare not do some things because we are afraid of the other party’s reaction. I'm afraid of what he will think, how he will view himself, and I'm afraid of him giving you an unwanted reaction. So we stayed timidly, but our mood continued to be controlled by each other. Unfortunately, the other party knew nothing.
Maybe in a quiet night, I mustered up the courage to tell the other party what was slightly absurd but real feelings again. Maybe it was another moonlit night that I found a number that had not been deleted in my phone for many years and asked sincerely: "How are you?" Then, I smiled and dreamed.
As for those troubles that are difficult to get rid of because of your duties, you can get happiness by completing other small things in your life. First store the courage to change yourself, then overcome your timidity and execute it. What you end up with is a leisurely and fulfilling life.
Facts have proved that keeping the happiness of life fresh is not a difficult project. If we cannot pursue our dreams without hesitation, then start with some easy things in life.
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