Alan said to me: "Before getting married, you should measure it repeatedly. You should choose a high-quality stock with a strong momentum. Even if it falls halfway through the road in the future, you will finally stand at a high level. Tomorrow will say tomorrow, live a rich life

Alan said to me: "Before getting married, you should measure it repeatedly. You should choose a high-quality stock with a strong momentum. Even if it falls halfway through the road in the future, you will finally stand at a high level. Tomorrow will say tomorrow, live a rich life first."

instead, choose a man with an unknown future and live a confused and tight life. You should know that the small fights in love are incomparable to the trivialities in marriage.

Alan said this in fact, in order to comfort her cousin who had just broken up, her cousin's boyfriend's salary was average and she had no savings. Her cousin's parents strongly opposed it. So, while talking about parting, my cousin was happy, she complained to Alan, not knowing how to choose, and was in a dilemma.

I asked Alan: "You are starting from scratch with your husband, from nothing to something, why do you say the opposite to your cousin?"

Alan said that her cousin's nature is far from her and she cannot stimulate a potential stock into a high-quality stock; therefore, in order to prevent poor couples from mourning, it is better to break up early.

Alan's husband resigned after marriage to start a business. This journey is difficult, and for three consecutive years, I have never lost or made money, and there is no big ups and no improvement. The expenses at home and abroad depend on Alan.

Everyone muttered behind their backs that Alan insisted on marrying him, but this person did not have much prospects. After hearing this, Alan was not annoyed, and just responded with a smile: "The fortune teller said that my husband will be lucky when his zodiac year is over. He is a great fortune. You won't ask me to help you when the time comes."

Sure enough, fortune teller has vision, and Alan has vision. In the fourth year, her husband's company signed multiple orders in succession, all from large enterprise projects; so the capital turnover suddenly went smoothly, the company continued to expand its enrollment, and the orders continued to come, which was a sign of both fame and fortune.

Mr. Alan was successful when he was nearly forty years old. Everyone changed from original ridicule to flattery, praising Alan for being the most foresighted, and as soon as the potential burst out, it was as powerful as it was.

This time, Mr. Alan responded with a smile on his face. He said, "Thanks to Alan, she is prosperous for her husband."

Alan told me privately that she is prosperous for her husband, it is clearly that she knows how to wait.

The road to entrepreneurship is rugged, and her husband will naturally feel emotional, doubtful, discouraged, and even thought of giving up.

But Alan said, "What's the big deal? Doing business means being bold and meticulous. The worst result is to pay all the money. If you lose your money, aren't you still there? Don't you feel at ease."

Alan said, "Have you heard the story of Ang Lee before becoming famous? Although he was also depressed at that time, he has been persisting; I am imitating Ang Lee's wife and being someone who supports you."

Alan also said, "When you are in love, you feel that you are steady and down-to-earth and can accomplish great things, and my vision will not be wrong."

Men need admiration and encouragement.

Family expenses depend on Alan’s salary, so his life is only at the lower and lower level; Alan has to get up early and run far away to buy vegetables because it is cheap.

Starting a business is not going well, and Mr. Alan's hair goes from black to white in a few nights; Alan feels distressed, and brews black sesame paste every day and frys black sesame salt, seeking various ways to maintain health.

Mr. html asked her, "What if I can't help A Dou for the rest of my life?"

Alan said, "Then I am Mrs. Ado."

Her husband, not so much as being late for greatness, is because Alan, who is well aware of waiting for wisdom, used her subtle influence to water the bloom of her husband's flower of success bit by bit.

Thinking of the words Alan said to her cousin, I felt a little clear about it; I am also familiar with her cousin. She is an anxious girl. During her relationship, she has had countless quarrels because her boyfriend is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not as good as he is not

My cousin did not have enough patience, and waited for her boyfriend to go from being an unknown person to letting her live the life she wanted; nor did she have enough confidence to cultivate a potential stock that could not see hope for the time being.

There is no preparation to endure hardships, nor is there willing waiting, the consumption of feelings becomes inevitable, and love cannot support the weight of marriage; Alan is right, it is better to break up early.

Alan is a true wise man.

A few days ago, I went to the picture book museum to change books for the children. The new book I chose included " An Seed ".

picture book tells a teacher who handed three lotus seeds from thousands of years ago to the three apprentices Ben, Jing and An, hoping that they could plant a thousand-year-old lotus.

was very anxious, so he found a hoe and buried the seeds in the snow. After waiting for a long time, the seeds did not sprout. So he left the land angrily, broke the hoe, and stopped working.

Jing looked up books on lotus planting, planted the seeds in golden flower pots, placed them in the warmest room, and used the most expensive potions and flower soil. The seeds were planted after all. Jing loves it very much, covers it with a gold cover. As a result, the young buds died in a few days because they could not get sunlight and oxygen.

can only rest, with a grateful heart of "I have a seed", it seems to be slow, not anxious or impatient: I still go to the market to buy what the temple needs, quietly clean the snow in front of the temple, cook vegetarian food as usual, get up early to fetch water, and even the habit of walking after evening class has not changed.

Until spring comes, I settled in a corner of the pond and planted the lotus seed that he had treasured for a long time.

In the early morning of midsummer, his thousand-year-old lotus bloomed gently.

follows the laws of nature, be grateful, be neither anxious nor impatient, be prepared and wait. Soil the seeds in the most suitable season and gain something in the best seasons. There are long-distance running events every year in

Sports Games.

Anyone who has participated in the long-distance race knows that in the beginning, you cannot seek speed at the beginning; the ancients said that one moves and one move, and then it will be exhausted. If you accelerate blindly at the beginning, it will easily consume the energy of the body, resulting in insufficient strength and being unable to continue running the entire journey.

So at the beginning, athletes will pay more attention to moving forward at a constant speed, not being very outstanding, and not being behind others. It looks pretty good, but the physical strength he preserves is enough to give him the confidence to sprint in the last lap. Sprinting is the last key barrier in the long-distance running competition. rushing through is the victory.

During this period of normal time, athletes need to have a stable and continuous energy output to maintain their combat effectiveness and eventually become champions.

I always feel that a true master will definitely be able to live the way he wants.

Because they know how to achieve their own waiting.

Many people shouted that they were confused, at a loss, impetuous, unbearable, eager for quick success and instant benefits but unable to get the direction. All kinds of complaints were prevalent, and all kinds of complaints emerged.

Never worked overtime for a project, so I had to be promoted and raised, and I was appreciated by my boss; I never did every little thing around me steadily, so I said that the future is slim and there is no hope.

But complaining cannot solve any problem.

sneering dissatisfaction will not make you successful.

can't be impetuous. Focusing on comparing, wanting to save face, wanting to succeed, wanting to be surrounded by people in front of others, and having achieved success thousands of times in my mind, but so what? The unbearable thing in front of us is still unbearable, and the hardships are still hardships, and it has not changed.

A true master, knowing to distinguish between the primary and secondary, will persuade himself to let go of impetuousness, let go of depression and unsuccessfulness, let go of quick success and instant benefits, let go of inappropriateness; and also know that before dawn comes, find the right direction, devote yourself to practicing, improve yourself, do whatever you should do, adjust your mentality and pace, and make the best efforts for the life you want.

Patience and lasting are better than violence and anger.

Waiting is not about letting you wait; it is about letting you lay the groundwork, prepare, do everything you should do before success comes, and spare no effort.

calm down and do things steadily.

In this way, what you want will knock on the door.

Life is also a long-term race, you need to maintain your physical strength, move forward steadily, and not be impatient. Do everything you should do, be well versed in the wisdom of waiting, and wait for everything to come naturally.