With the development of society and the popularization of culture, people pursue high education. After graduating from undergraduate, a considerable number of people choose to continue their studies in postgraduate studies, or even doctoral studies. The improvement of education level brings about rising marriage age.
It was common to get married in the 20s before, but now the age of getting married is often around 30 years old. Late marriage and late childbirth have become the general trend. This also causes increasingly serious problems of urging marriage. Many young people are even unwilling to go home during the holidays, for fear that their aunts and aunts will keep asking about marriage questions at the dinner table.
After the woman refused her mother's proposal for a blind date, she was always rolled by her at home. Even though she was dressed beautifully and danced in front of the camera, the mother behind her still looked disgusted, and the woman said she was helpless.
Like most women, women actively pursue career success after graduation. For this reason, she continued to work hard, not only passed the postgraduate entrance examination, but also continued to further study and test during this period. Finally, God paid off and got the position she had always dreamed of.
As a newcomer who has just joined the company, the woman does not want to relax and devote herself to her career. When I got home and prepared to greet my parents' smiles, I didn't expect that I could see my mother with a black face as soon as I entered the door. The woman was very puzzled.
Some time ago, I was very happy to learn that my mother who joined the job was still there. Why did she look up as soon as she entered the house? It turns out that the woman is 26 years old. At this age, people of similar relatives and friends at home have basically started a family, and the woman is still alone.
In particular, I rejected my mother's request for blind date and pursued the success of my career, which made my mother look down on her face. Seeing her daughter getting older, she had no intention of falling in love, and her mother was very anxious.
While doing a good job in the mother’s heart, the family should also be placed one. So the mother thought to make things more difficult for her daughter to go home this time so that she could know the consequences of refusing to date.
I didn't expect that my black-faced daughter didn't care, but continued to do whatever she liked. This time I danced directly in front of her, completely ignoring her busy cooking behind her. The woman in front of the camera kept swinging her body with the music. Sometimes the excessive dance movements interfered with the mother cooking behind her. She didn't care at all and continued to twist her body.
The mother had no choice but to roll her eyes from behind. Her daughter recorded all of her expressions in the camera. Seeing the mother behind her, the woman smiled.
Seeing her daughter smile, the mother's disgusted expression turned into a smile. The mother and daughter reconciled and let go of the rift in their hearts and talked about it. It was learned from the woman that it was not that she was unwilling to participate in a blind date, but that her work had just begun and she had no energy to be distracted from falling in love.
Daughter's explanation The mother was embarrassed to force her again. When she saw the light from her eyes when she talked about work, the mother was also very pleased. She thought that it might not be a bad thing for young people to struggle for a few more years, and her daughter is not big now.
Author's opinion:
When we were young, our parents always reminded us to work hard, but as soon as we graduated, a series of urging marriages followed one after another. Feelings are not something that happens overnight. Parents’ excessive nagging can also become a burden to their children to some extent.
Two generations have completely different concepts of marriage and love. Young people think about working hard for a few more years, but their parents are worried that they will miss their good people and delay their lifelong affairs.
These conflicts can easily cause friction. In fact, neither party is wrong, and parents are also out of kindness. It is better to talk hard to talk about it. The two sides can open up each other's knots so that their family life can be more harmonious.
Parents should not force their children too much. After all, relationships are not trivial matters, and blind dates may not bring good results. Follow their children's wishes, rather than following the crowd. I believe that fate will treat those who work hard.
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