There is a common perception between men and women, and it is believed that men should take the initiative first.
At the beginning, I felt that the man should get close first, and even later, I felt that it should be the man showing off various goodwill.
Free love is like this, even if it is a blind date, many people often think so.
This also leads to that, as a woman, you have a good impression of a man, but after the introduction, the other party did not make any noise, so you became a little confused and didn't know what to do.
wants to take the initiative, but it seems that he can't take that step, and he doesn't want to take the initiative, but he is worried about losing the other party because of this.
There are many moments, and I obviously want to take the initiative, but because of this concept, I just chose to hold back.
You are afraid that you will appear unrestrained if you take the initiative. In fact, even as a woman, you should be more proactive.
can take the initiative to understand the other party.
When someone introduces you to a opposite sex, there are indeed some people who do not want to find a partner. All aspects of them do not meet your expectations and are completely unsuitable for you.
However, there are always times when the person someone introduced to you happen to be pretty good.
or even, you have heard the introduction tell you what he is doing, and you really want to know him.
No matter what, it is a chance, so I'll say hello to him first, call him first, and take the initiative to ask some questions about him first, that doesn't matter.
has been stalemate and does nothing, but is just guessing what his situation is and what kind of thoughts he is. Whether he wants to know you or whether he comes with sincerity is meaningless except to make himself uncomfortable.
You can't get the answer you want at all, and you will always be a little restless and anxious. Instead of spending time with the other party, if you take that step first, the result will be better.
Anyway, I take the initiative to talk, but I just understand the other party first, and I don’t have to do anything. This really won’t make the other party look down on you. Instead, the other party will only admire your courage and think that you are good.
Even if it is a man, he actually doesn’t like to always take the initiative and needs some encouragement. He will hope that someone can take the initiative to him.
actively sends messages to express their favor.
has the minimum understanding of a person. If you find that the other person is not suitable, it seems that you can't talk at all. Your personality makes you feel uncomfortable and you have some things that you can't accept. You can choose to give up.
directly explains to the other party that it is inappropriate and ends your relationship.
If you think the other person's personality and various conditions are quite satisfied, you want to know more about the other person, and you also want to be closer to the other person, of course you don't have to just wait for him to find you, you can look for him directly.
If you want to send him any questions, just send them. Give him some care and care about him.
is open and you don’t have to hide your favor, and you can also let him know clearly that you are interested in him.
Don’t worry, if a man is good and sincere to you, he will not have any ideas about you because of this. He will only cherish your initiative and become more proactive after understanding what you mean.
Like, if you have the will, don’t have to hide it, just express it directly, that is the best thing.
You will feel more relaxed, and the other party can see more clearly. You will be more confident in your relationship and know that your efforts will be welcomed. There is nothing wrong with you. You should continue to do it well. When interacting with
, it is also more proactive.
In too many blind dates, men always say that women are not proactive at all, and they don’t take the initiative to look for themselves. When they take the initiative, they still ignore their love and have no good face at all.
doesn't like it, doesn't want to interact with you, and you're a little cold, that doesn't matter.
But if you clearly think it's good, don't always not reply to messages. You are always perfunctory and always play hard with the other party, and it's hot and cold. That's really boring and it's easy to lose the other party.
Even though most men don’t mind taking the initiative to you first, they are always taking the initiative, but they still care about your reactions and how you treat him after he takes the initiative.
When you always pretend to be cold and hide your thoughts, hoping that he can be more proactive. He can't see through your thoughts at all, and will only feel that you have no intention of him at all. After taking the initiative for a while, you will not want to continue.
At present, many people have the same idea and do not feel that they must have someone. What they want is always a consent-minded and have a relationship with each other.
Love is not a matter of one person. Whether it is at the beginning or at the end, it requires each other to work hard together.
So, since you like it, be kind to him, reply to every message seriously, always be more active and proactive.
During blind dates, women must also take the initiative.
takes the initiative to contact, learn about it, and fight for the love you want.
In life, you need to fight for the career you want yourself, and you always need to fight for the feelings you want.
is not proactive, and it is difficult to meet such a good opposite sex. Even if you meet, you can't keep the other person at all. Soon the other person will only no longer have any relationship with you, but just go to someone else's side.
Modern women should be gentle and have a certain wolf nature.
Don’t hesitate, be embarrassed, just act and hold the person you like firmly in your hands.
Let him know what he likes and let him have it.
text/Tan Meng
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