Text/An Dongyue
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As the saying goes, "Ten years of cultivation can make you cross the same boat, and a hundred years of cultivation can make you sleep together."
means that meeting, knowing each other, and sleeping together are all obtained by good deeds that have been practiced for decades or even hundreds of years in the previous life. It is very difficult and you must cherish it.
Everyone knows the truth, but the matter of love is often not up to one's own decision. Many people are lucky enough to fall in love and become husband and wife, but various problems arise during the process of getting along, and they end up separated.
There are also many people who truly love each other, but they are destined to be together and cannot be married. They can only keep the other person in their hearts and think about it all their lives.
Whether it is impossible to become a couple or separate from each other, it is a regret. In contrast, the former seems to be more regretful. It is often unwilling to give up because of love, and it is difficult to truly let go.
Most of the divorced couples no longer love each other. To them, they are letting go of each other. Even if they regret it, they are just regretting the disappearance of a relationship and the breakdown of a family. They are not so reluctant and attached to each other themselves.
Therefore, the most regrettable thing is those who truly love each other but cannot be a couple.
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All the gathering and separation in the world are ultimately just the word "fate". Destiny is destined by heaven, and depth is destiny.
Deep fate, love each other for a lifetime, and accompany each other for a lifetime.
Fate is shallow, love each other and accompany each other for a long time.
Sometimes, when you meet someone, you think he is the fate of your life, give everything with all your heart, and love it unforgettably. You often fantasize about your married life, and even think of your children's name. But later you separated because of some unscrupulous reasons.
Love each other deeply but not for a husband and wife. This is the most painful and helpless thing in the world.
A reader left a message saying: "The most regrettable thing in this life is that I missed her. We loved her deeply at the beginning, but at that time we were too young and had no choice but to do so. Now we all have their own lives, but we still care about each other and occasionally contact each other. Although we just give a few simple greetings, our hearts are warm. If time can go back and everything will be over again, how great it would be..."
Time will not go back in the end. Even if we go back and everything will go back, will the end really be different? Can people who love each other really enter into marriage and be happy for a lifetime? There is no answer to the question
because the question itself has no meaning. The life we have gone through cannot be repeated, the established ending cannot be changed. The only thing we can do is to cherish the memories and think about them silently, that's it.
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People who love each other are not together, and they will most likely become the most familiar strangers. Few people can keep in touch and greet occasionally. It’s not that I don’t want to contact you, but that the reality does not allow you, or that I have already broken down and can’t find it even if I want to.
Whether it is the most familiar stranger, occasionally greetings, or forever disconnected, the person you have loved deeply will always live in your heart, always worry about it, and often miss it.
Care is silent affection, and miss is silent confession. Even if we are already strangers to each other, we will keep our memories and remember the past, half awake and half drunk, slowly moving towards the depths of time.
There is a kind of love called a couple without fate, and they are worried about it all their lives. Although you are not perfect, you have given me a feeling I have never had before. Although the days of falling in love with you are short, it is the happiest time of my life.
For more than your life, it is a great regret for you to be not present. But you have been in my heart and have never gone far.
No chance for couples, I miss you all my life. I don’t sigh that I met the wrong time, and I don’t blame reality for breaking love. It’s already great to have the honor of falling in love in this life and accompanying each other for a long time.
In the future, I wish you a good life and wish me a smooth life. I will not talk about debts and be grateful for meeting you!
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Author: An Dongyue, a freelance writer, writes heartfelt words with warm strokes, and I wish to meet you in the deepest world. Welcome to follow.
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