In love, many things will indeed happen, but if you are someone who truly loves you, you will generally not be hot and cold to you.
The reason why some people don’t have such a good attitude towards you is that you are not that important in their hearts, and you are even just an optional existence in their eyes.
His emotions are always hot and cold. They are very good to you when they are good, but when they are bad, they are like strangers to you.
In love, if you always need to accommodate his emotions, then you will become very tired.
In love, if the seriousness of two people is not equal, then even if you give everything, you will not be able to get the result.
In fact, in love, the other party’s details that ignore you can prove his thoughts about you, and never be deceived.
Let’s analyze today, what is the reason why the other party is hot and cold towards you?
01, the other party cannot control his emotions
Everyone's emotions will always be lost, and even be depressed by some things.
Some people cannot control their emotions, and once they are in a low mood, they are prone to fall into their own world, and their attitude towards others will naturally be a little cold.
In love, you are originally close people. If he is always hot and cold to you because of his emotions, in fact, your status in his heart is not high.
When you are in a good mood, you are always enthusiastic about you, but when you are in a bad mood, you are too indifferent to you. This situation actually needs to be adjusted, otherwise it will affect your relationship.
02, I am not firm in you
Regarding feelings, if you are not so sincere, there will actually be many problems in the process of getting along.
If he has a lot of coldness towards you, then his love for you is not so enthusiastic, at least it is not necessary for you.
Some people choose to be with you because they want to be with someone at the moment, or want to relieve loneliness. After the freshness, they will naturally become colder.
Although I like you, I still wander in my heart about marriage and being with you for a long time. The swaying inside is naturally something I ignore.
Some people regard love as a game and take your sincerity as a matter of course. Then, even if you give a lot of money to treat such people, it is difficult to get happiness.
If the other party is just an emotional problem and ignores you inadvertently, this situation still has a chance to improve, but just because you don’t care about you, then this relationship should not be persisted for a long time.
The most important thing for a person to live for a lifetime is yourself. Don’t let yourself down for some unworthy relationships. Only when you get rid of yourself earlier will you meet a better self and life.
author, Ran Xia Yingzi, a freelance writer, focusing on self-media operations, writing and live broadcast entrepreneurship. Welcome to follow and consult.
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