Can the elderly be able to support their children? After middle age, they will feel deeply. They will deeply feel that this false proposition of reality is basically centered around the family of each middle-aged man, with old people and young people. Daily trivial matters will cause many similar families to be in trouble and chaos...
The elderly born in the 1940s and 1950s are natural to raise children to keep in mind. This traditional idea has been deeply engraved in their bones.
When an elderly person helps his son and daughter-in-law take their children to cook for free when they are young, the values of the elderly will be less contradictory, and the families can coexist in a relatively harmonious way. When the grandsons grow up when they are old, even if the elderly pay their pension to live with their son and daughter-in-law, conflicts will appear one after another over time. Only then will the elderly truly realize the doubts about life. Why giving is not the same as reward? Because the elderly have long lost their original value at this moment. Coupled with the elderly’s stopping their thoughts or their stubborn and stubborn living habits, etc., the differences in thoughts of several generations have led to the seemingly harmonious families falling into endless pieces, and the contradictions will gradually escalate. It is difficult to judge who is right or wrong at this time. It is really said that it is difficult for a clean official to make a judgment on family affairs, because every member in the family has different roles, so naturally they will have different views on conflicts and problems. No matter whether they are morally high. As the saying goes: Family is just a place to talk about love, but how many people can deeply understand it for those who are already in a hurry?
If you want a family to live in harmony, in addition to having the conditions to allow the elderly to live separately from their son and daughter-in-law, understanding and tolerance are essential. If everyone is always tangled between concern and gains and losses, the family will never be able to settle things. If each cannot correct themselves, it will become a catastrophic blow to a family, and at the same time, it will be deeply trapped in their own internal friction. If the elderly want to enjoy their old age, middle-aged people will be an unattainable luxury. I believe that many middle-aged people are experiencing family situations like this and are suffering...
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