New love is mostly heart-warming, while old love is down-to-earth and familiar. No matter which kind of love or affection, we should experience and perceive it with our hearts, and we should not be too blind or impulsive.
However, in daily life, we often laugh at new people, but rarely take care of the old people's crying. It seems that the new love is good, and the new love is wonderful. Only the old love is boring and disgusting. No matter whether it is attitude or performance, there are some embarrassing signs and tendencies.
After leaving for a while, it is inevitable that it is a bit embarrassing. I want a new love but I don’t want to give up my old love. However, in comparison, the new love is more heart-warming and touching, and it is normal to be involved in the heart-warming moment.
Give up the old love for the sake of a new love is not a good deal. We need to be firm and serious enough to balance the tragic tragedy between running-in, and we need to be strong and brave enough to resist the helplessness and regrets between the years.
Love it and it becomes realistic. This is an inevitable development and a destined trend. It fades away when you are with me. This is also the main context of love. We should always learn to love and accompany each other more maturely in order to find the right happiness and reach stability.
There is a limit to the time of life. We should always know how to be moderate and measure before we can hold the fate in our hands. Don’t always immerse ourselves in the beauty of choice. There is no best in the world, only better. If you compare and compare repeatedly, you will inevitably feel regretful and heartbroken. Instead of looking forward to the distance, it is better to cherish the present. True happiness should be in ordinary days and simple life, rather than high-end and luxurious, the distance and the future.
Cherish the company and waiting for the moment, and manage the fate of no more or less with a peaceful mind. Happiness is the tenderness and warmth between your fingers.
No matter men and women, giving up their old love for the sake of their new love, it is "not cost-effective"
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Every relationship has to go through the running-in
Any new love will become regretful during the running-in, become dismal, and gradually wither in time.
Don’t think that changing the chosen goals and directions can see a bigger world, a better future, and a more complete happiness. In fact, this is not the case. The more frequent choices and changes are, the more likely you are to be full of regrets. The more you keep changing directions and goals, the more you may not find the end of happiness. Troubles and twists on the road are the most regrettable things in your life.
Any relationship in the world will undergo running-in, adapt to each other, temper each other, fulfill and compatible with each other, and finally achieve smooth and result of running-in.
Old love is a fate that has been persisted in after years of youth, and a new love is just a moment of beautiful feeling. Smart people will not be so impulsive and reckless, and wise people will not be so obsessed and stubborn. We will eventually learn to handle everything more decently and place everything more properly.
Since we have been working together for a long time, we are familiar with each other, and we have a deep understanding, why can't we be more patient and gentle? In fact, this process is very close to the result of happiness, but it still requires a little tolerance and restraint. We will eventually need to face the gains and losses and pros and cons of life calmly, and maintain the overall integrity, and don't be too perfect.
New love also has flaws, old love also has charm, we cannot love or not love too emotionally.
【02】
Respect the inner feeling, rather than the splendor in the eyes
The person you have loved for a long time must be very worthy of your love and choice.
is just a moment of heart-warming and carnival, probably not worth it, not precious enough, not high-end, there are too many regrets and sadness, we will eventually need to face the desolation and tragedy of the world, but we will settle in the noise of real life.
Too many new loves are just a brilliant scene. The prosperous scene cannot accompany you for a long time, nor can it bring you signs of value-added. The more you expect too much, the more you may be disappointed. The longer you wait, the more you may be scarred. Instead of frequently changing the direction and goals of love, it is better to learn to manage and maintain, and patiently manage the worthy fate, and wait for precious love gently for a long time. Happiness is not something that can be achieved overnight, but the result of patience and faith.
gave up on people who have been in love for a long time for the prosperity and splendor in their eyes. This is a very stupid thing. It is neither cost-effective nor difficult to find true happiness.
In any marriage, you should respect your inner feelings, rather than just considering the colorful experience in your eyes.
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The choice is not firm enough, it is easy to hurt yourself
This indecisive choice mostly comes from one's own hesitation and hesitation. It seems that everything has become unknowns, and everything has become loneliness and regret.
When a person is determined to love and not love, whether he gives a lot or leaves room, he can handle all problems and things moderately and calmly.
Having a sense of direction, the basic context and goal of love, these are all good things, far more valuable than being too far away from fate. For example, being able to firmly reject the opposite sex that touches you, being able to reject all disturbances and entanglements, giving up too many impossible companions, and put love and happiness in a range with a sense of security.
The choice that hurts you basically comes from your own lack of firmness and position. Sometimes you want to get along with romantic love, sometimes you want warm and considerate companionship. However, things in the world are difficult to achieve both ways. It is impossible to be perfect, and it is impossible to be all right. There are always some regrets that make people frustrated, but they accept the ordinary life.
Give up old love for the sake of a new love. The easiest thing to do is to get nothing and hold nothing. Even the ordinary days of others are easily lost and missed. Instead of chasing unattainable happiness, it is better to learn to face reality, accept the ordinary life of life, and admit that you are powerless.
No matter how bad the old love is, it was your careful and serious choice, and you gave all your time and thoughts. Although you still have regrets, your fate is very deep. Even if there is a next time, you will still have your tacit understanding and belonging to happiness.
Don’t give up your old love because of your disgust after a long time. After a new love, it may not be as beautiful as the old love. Everything is unknown. Don’t be impulsive, don’t be reckless, and don’t make a choice casually.
Think carefully and it is easier to find the right happiness, and weighing the pros and cons is more likely to be stable and down-to-earth.
gave up on people who have been in love for a long time for the prosperity and splendor in their eyes. This is a very stupid thing. It is neither cost-effective nor difficult to find true happiness.
In any marriage, you should respect your inner feelings, rather than just considering the colorful experience in your eyes.
【03】
The choice is not firm enough, it is easy to hurt yourself
This indecisive choice mostly comes from one's own hesitation and hesitation. It seems that everything has become unknowns, and everything has become loneliness and regret.
When a person is determined to love and not love, whether he gives a lot or leaves room, he can handle all problems and things moderately and calmly.
Having a sense of direction, the basic context and goal of love, these are all good things, far more valuable than being too far away from fate. For example, being able to firmly reject the opposite sex that touches you, being able to reject all disturbances and entanglements, giving up too many impossible companions, and put love and happiness in a range with a sense of security.
The choice that hurts you basically comes from your own lack of firmness and position. Sometimes you want to get along with romantic love, sometimes you want warm and considerate companionship. However, things in the world are difficult to achieve both ways. It is impossible to be perfect, and it is impossible to be all right. There are always some regrets that make people frustrated, but they accept the ordinary life.
Give up old love for the sake of a new love. The easiest thing to do is to get nothing and hold nothing. Even the ordinary days of others are easily lost and missed. Instead of chasing unattainable happiness, it is better to learn to face reality, accept the ordinary life of life, and admit that you are powerless.
No matter how bad the old love is, it was your careful and serious choice, and you gave all your time and thoughts. Although you still have regrets, your fate is very deep. Even if there is a next time, you will still have your tacit understanding and belonging to happiness.
Don’t give up your old love because of your disgust after a long time. After a new love, it may not be as beautiful as the old love. Everything is unknown. Don’t be impulsive, don’t be reckless, and don’t make a choice casually.
Think carefully and it is easier to find the right happiness, and weighing the pros and cons is more likely to be stable and down-to-earth.
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