Arno has been a good girl since he was a child and never let his parents worry. His parents did not allow Arnold to fall in love, and Arnold refused the confessions of several boys. For this reason, she missed a wonderful opportunity to fall in love.
As Arnold was older, his parents were worried about her personal problems, so they had to let Arnold go on a blind date. Arnold thought that there was no relationship between the blind date, but just made do with his life and wasting their time. My mother was worried about not having enough food and sleeping well every day. Arnold went to see her blind date, but there was nothing suitable.
Arno's friend introduced her to her cousin. He studied financial management and now works in a company. He also costs 10,000 yuan a month. He looks very handsome. Arnold thinks he is good in all aspects, why isn't he married? He said he has been busy with work and has not met the right person.
Arno and he first met, added the other party’s WeChat. He pursued Arnold fiercely, but Arnold did not agree, but instead spent a while before talking about it. During the process of getting along, he performed very well, putting Arnold first in everything, and finally Arnold dated him.
Ano's mother was very happy to see her find her boyfriend and wanted to meet him. Arnold considered that the two had only been dating for three months and met their parents, and Arnold felt that they were developing too fast. The two of them dated for half a year before Arnold took him back to see his parents, who were very satisfied with him.
He is over thirty years old. His parents urge him to get married. He proposed to Arnold, and Arnold agreed readily. She did not ask to buy a house, but agreed to live with her parents-in-law. He gave him a bride price of 60,000 yuan, and Arnold's parents gave him a passbook of 150,000 yuan. His mother was afraid that Arnold would marry his son in the future, so she secretly subsidized her parents' home. After they got married, their mother-in-law asked them to make AA system, and the family expenses were half the cost per person. Arnold was very angry. As soon as he got married, his mother-in-law proposed the AA system. Arnold was so angry that he agreed.
Only then did Arnold realize that he was outrageously wrong. No matter how good she does, her mother-in-law is still not satisfied. At first, Arnold didn't care, but her mother-in-law disliked Arnold's not cooking deliciously, did not care about her taste, or thought that the vegetables she bought were too expensive. Arnold said to her husband, "My mother-in-law always picks on my faults, she just dislikes me." Her husband said, "My mother is right, it is clear that you are not doing well."
Ano learned that after Arnold got married, her husband changed. Every time her mother-in-law talks about her, her husband stands on her side and accuses her of something wrong. Arnold thought for a long time. Whether she worked overtime or not, she would not go home at 10 o'clock in the evening. At that time, her mother-in-law had already slept and her mother-in-law would not cause trouble for her.
Ano's father always stayed up late to work overtime when he was young, which caused him to be in poor health. He found that his heart was uncomfortable. He stayed in the hospital for half a month, and Arno ran around every day. When my mother-in-law knew that her in-laws were sick and hospitalized, she called Arnold and said to her, "You have AA. Don't expect my son to pay for your father's medical expenses. That's your parents, not my son's. Why should he treat your father with the money he has worked hard to do his best?"
My mother-in-law's words made Arnold very angry. Even if the living expenses are AA, her father is sick and hospitalized, can't he do his best to be a son-in-law? Arnold called her husband angrily and told him what her mother-in-law said intact. Her husband said that my mother was right and I had no obligation to take care of her parents-in-law.
Ano knew that her husband was indifferent and had no good deeds, and her father was in control, so he went home to recuperate. Arnold filed for divorce with his husband. At first, his husband did not agree. Arnold insisted on divorce and returned all the bride price and the things he bought to him. They went through the divorce procedures.
Arnold packed his clothes and was about to leave. His mother-in-law grabbed Arnold's hand and said to her, "Ano, I plan to cancel your AA system. Your brother-in-law is about to get married. His salary is for his younger brother to buy a house, and your salary will maintain the family's expenses." Arnold felt that his mother-in-law was thick-skinned enough. If she hadn't divorced him, Arnold might have really had to bear the expenses of a whole family.
Arnold showed his divorce certificate to his mother-in-law, "We divorced, it's all my business." The mother-in-law didn't believe it, and only after getting the divorce certificate did she realize that they were really divorced.Arnold said: "When you, mother and son, I thought we could still stick to our marriage, but unfortunately, I saw through your unfaithful affection and I didn't want to be wronged." After Arnold left, he and his mother regretted it very much and shouldn't have been careful.
As the bridge between the son and daughter-in-law, the mother-in-law must reconcile the conflict between the couple, rather than sow discord.
After they get married, the mother-in-law should not live with them. At the same time, it can reduce the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and make their marriage happy and happy, and the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law and have a harmonious relationship.
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