recommendation: A man’s emotional intelligence is really important.
In life, we find that many men have average family environments even if they look average. But as long as they can speak well and know how to take care of women's hearts, the opposite sex will have a very good relationship with each other, and there are many friends of the opposite sex around them.
On the contrary, in love, men with low emotional intelligence will make the same mistake again and again, because they often do not realize their mistakes; men with high emotional intelligence will hardly make any mistakes because they understand women's "little thoughts".
Men with high emotional intelligence generally use a step-by-step method to make women fall in love with themselves slowly. From the moment they meet, subtly change the girl's attitude towards them, such as in the small matter of calling the other party.
Sometimes, in order to emphasize their own specialness, men want to give women some interesting, meaningful or intimate names to shorten the distance from the opposite sex. But in this process, because it is too radical, it is easy to violate the taboos of dating.
Because older women hate these 5 names. Men should not make such low-level mistakes after they know it.
The first title: Miss.
The ancient ladies were all ladies like Lin Daiyu . Girls from ordinary families are not qualified to be called ladies.
But nowadays, the name "Miss" in modern society refers to those women in the world. Miss has gradually become a "unliked" name. Calling a woman a lady can easily make people mistakenly think that she is an "unfair" woman who works in some nightclubs and bars or nightclubs, so try not to call the woman like this to avoid causing unnecessary trouble.
The second title: Auntie.
The name Auntie sounds normal, which is a normal way for younger generations to female elders. But if you are a man of the same age, you should be more cautious when using the name of an aunt. Although older women seem to have aging appearance, they usually don’t admit in their hearts that they are really old.
So, we find that when many people ask for directions, if they call people of a little older "aunt", they often get the wrong destinations they have feedback.
From this we can see that how to call a person is very important and very knowledgeable.
The third title: Big sister.
A man called a strange woman called a eldest sister. What he might get is not the other party’s response, but a look of disgust. Because the eldest sister usually calls a woman an old one, it makes the woman not happy when she hears it. If the other person looks really older than you, you can just call him "sister" instead of his elder sister. This kind of name is easy to be disliked.
The fourth title: Hello.
Even if you don’t know someone you need to chat with, don’t call him or her by impolite names such as hell or hey. Because of calling someone like this, the other party will think that you are not knowledgeable and cultivated, not worth getting along with you, and you will not have any connection with you, even if you say simple words.
The fifth title: Xiaomei.
It is not suitable for adult men to call a woman and a little girl, because the name of a little girl has a little "ambiguous" expression, which is not suitable for strangers, and is more suitable for the opposite sex with a good impression.
In comparison, you can call the other party "girl", which can make people feel happier because this title is less old and more decent.
To sum up, we suggest that when a man calls an older woman, it is best to combine the other person's name, such as a certain sister, a certain girl, or a direct call to the other person, so that the drama will not seem too embarrassing. After getting familiar with each other, calling the other party some intimate names can effectively enhance each other's relationship.
Conclusion: Speaking is an art, and calling others is also a knowledge worth studying. Especially for those men who want to fall in love through chatting, when calling women of different ages, you must be very cautious, otherwise it will be over as soon as you open your mouth. Of course, such low-level mistakes must be avoided.
I wonder what you think about this?
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